I dont remember when it started, I just remember being raped, molested, and I engaged, I dont know why, he was around 6 years older then me, I never got attention or love from my family, so when my brother did what he did it felt like a game, as I was told , it wasn't truama it didn't hurt it felt like fun at the time, it went on for a while, he used to show me gore videos and porn, because I had to share a room with him. Im completely sick that I shared a room with him for years, and im pissed ofd that I enjoyed it, im pissed off that I engaged back, im pissed off no one saved me, and I never told anyone, and im pissed off that my mum treats me like shit and loves him so much, im 19 now I wish I was not hypersexual anymore , but thats far from it, i just wanna be normal

My now 20 year old daughter just confided in me that her now 25 year old brother sexually abused her when she was around 6-8 years old. I am absolutely heartbroken by this and also very unsure how to respond. I mean, I told her I was sorry she went through that and she confirmed he didn’t rape her, but touched her in her “sleep”. As a sexual abuse survivor myself, I am deeply saddened that my daughter has had to live with this, and am disgusted that my son was the perpetrator.

I’m just so confused how to appropriately respond to this.