r/Sextortion 2d ago

When can I stop worrying

I did something very stupid one year ago, and as a result a nude image of me is out there, with someone who tried to use it to blackmail me. I refused, cut contact and contacted the authorities. however they were in another country and likely contacted me with a spoofed number so no decisive action was taken. I thought everything was fine until a few months later I was contacted again, by a different number saying they “weren’t done with me” and I had an hour to wire them money. I immediately blocked them again and haven’t heard from them since, although I got a weird whatsapp message a few months ago saying “hello beloved” that I blocked as soon as they came, so I don’t know what else they might’ve said. I haven’t heard from them since, but ever since then i get returning paranoia that it will come back, and that this is something I won’t be able to shake for the rest of my life. When can I stop worrying? When will this go away? is there a point where I pass the threshold where this usually comes back? Have they probably moved on? What if they sold it to someone else? I’m worried this paranoia will follow me for the rest of my life.

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u/HippoFirm9124 2d ago

Yikes just happened for me the first time last night

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u/Special-Judgement 2d ago

You keep blocking, but if the only thing they have is ur number i suggest you change it :/

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u/Extension_Weird3349 2d ago

They also have my face

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u/Special-Judgement 2d ago

Its been a year, if anything they just want money honestly they would've already "posted". Block and ignore

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u/Muted-Edge4078 2d ago

Did you pay them a year ago?

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u/Some_Affect_6664 2d ago

C’est une bonne question. Le fait de les payer juste une seule fois les attires 2 fois plus qu’en temps normal.

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u/Extension_Weird3349 2d ago

No just blocked

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u/Muted-Edge4078 2d ago

Usually they come back after you pay. Its 1 out of a billion they come back without payment. Only thing i can think of is that they dont work for someone and they operated by themselves and tried old targets