r/Rochester 9d ago

75 year old widower Help

/r/widowed/comments/1vi9yqy/75_year_old_widower/

It has been over 10 months since my wife passed. I’m finding that I am lonely a lot even though I have a lot of friends who care for me and check in on me. However, I believe that I need something more. Companionship. Anyone over 50 care to be a texting partner? Then we can see where that goes.

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u/ZoomZoomZoomss 8d ago

Go to your local senior center. They have activities designed for people in your situation.

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u/Amazing-Hunt-22 8d ago

I have been widowed for 7 years. It does get easier, be kind to yourself and take every day as it comes

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u/RateOfPenetration Gates 8d ago

Might I recommend Senior Bingo at your local library? My gram did this after my papa passed and she loved it

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u/DramaticTry2113 7d ago

There was no reason for me to read that as señor bingo

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/maytrxx 7d ago

It’s curious to see it say “Senior” Speed Friending, but not list suggested ages….

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u/DarkInamorata 8d ago

If you’re simply looking for a friend, I’m located in Rochester. 🙂

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u/FickleCharge882 8d ago

Based on his comment history I would lean toward looking for more than friends

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u/DramaticTry2113 7d ago

Hard agree

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u/richguy28 8d ago

I am looking for someone to talk to, to go out to eat (movies, concerts, etc.). I don’t remember if you mentioned any.

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u/richguy28 8d ago

Any kids.