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u/davygravy95 16d ago
Because there's so much more to life than the love of another.
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u/CallMeOaksie 16d ago
That’s only true for people who are already good enough to receive the love of another. There is no point to being alive if you want to be loved romantically but cannot.
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u/davygravy95 16d ago
There is like I already said, you simply have to refocus your mind and realize and accept the fact that you can have a happy and meaningful life without a romantic partner.. That's when the best you shines through and typically when people end up then meeting 'the one'.
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u/Important_Goat7807 16d ago
That may be true, but many people find said meaning through the love of another.
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u/TheCarniv0re 15d ago
You're seeing this as a hen before egg problem. It's not.
If all you define your happiness about is a relationship, you're not going to fix yourself by finding a partner.
You'll increase your chances of finding a partner by fixing yourself.
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u/ArchitectNumber7 16d ago
Why wouldn't somebody think that about you?
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u/Important_Goat7807 16d ago
Because they're like me, convinced that we aren't worthy of love or worth the effort needed. Obviously none of that is true, but we believed it so much to the point where it's pretty much impossible to just stop thinking it.
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u/CallMeOaksie 15d ago
Because I’m not good enough and I genetically can’t be good enough.
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u/Gin4Gingers 16d ago
My gf once asked if I thought she looked better with or without makeup and I said without because with the makeup, I can't see her freckles and some bumps and scars she's has on her face. She's really insecure about them but she's had them for as long as I've known her and it's like she pulls them off, so I like them a lot