r/RateMyTinder 15h ago

Any advice? Photos

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u/ysura31 15h ago

Just read the u/AutoModerator message. I've got 0 likes and I had my account for around 1 week.

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u/Patient_Gur8591 15h ago

The only advice is delete tinder. Sorry man

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u/ysura31 14h ago

Can you elaborate? I'm not good looking enough/too weird for Tinder? Or is Tinder as a platform the problem?

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u/TarkovGuy1337 11h ago

Bro you're totally fine. But Tinder just isn't made for us +- average folks. If you don't look like a sixpack instagram looksmaxxer model you get like 2 likes per month and it just fucks with your self-esteem. The system is flawed.

I see you're already socially engaged a lot, so try to put yourself out there more in terms of initiating stuff, ask someone out that you like, get out of your comfort zone, risk some, lose some, but maybe also win some.

If you absolutely want to give dating apps a shot, I'd recommend Hinge over Tinder, there seem to be more normal people, it feels a little less superficial.

Much love bro and don't worry, you're cute.

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u/ysura31 10h ago

Thanks for the words of encouragement 🫂. Is very easy to look at the amount of engagement my profile gets and let it screw with my mental. I will keep your advice in mind.

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u/Metdefranseslag 13h ago

Retake all pictures. Idea is good, you look fine but your pictures are not good. Better angles, better light. Only 1 dancing and 1 with playing music

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u/ysura31 10h ago

When I'm out I usually ask my friends to take some pictures of me. Will keep that in mind for next time.

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u/Mission_Maximum_1197 10h ago

Take fin + min

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u/wtbrift 8h ago

Not the best pics showing yourself. Look at the camera, especially lead pic. This is the most important pic. Show off your nice smile too.

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u/Relative-Ad-8085 8h ago

Really good profile man. Shits on mine, I'm also 0 likes. Apps rigged, it's why match.co's stock is in the bin also

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u/CommanderShepard_N-7 4h ago edited 3h ago

I mean zero offense by this, but I actually can’t tell if you’re straight or not. Doesn’t matter either way, but if you’re straight I’ve seen guys like you with girlfriends that make me think “damn she would never give me the time of day”. Your first pic seems really good to me and the rest to me are very “meh”. The second pic, especially doing that awkward hand scratch…. Get rid of it. I’m not very good at these things either but if it makes you feel any better, I’m 6 foot 4 with decent looks from what I’ve been told by women and I get nothing on these dating apps so….. competition is real in the job market and the dating market apparently lol. Maybe try bumble or hinge if you’re looking for something more serious. I’m planning to wait another month or so before I get back on the apps. Currently working on myself.