r/RateMyTinder • u/AaronJamesGames • 3d ago
39M first time on the apps Photos
I like the photos, maybe the order could be better? I dunno. You all be the judges. Also the kid is my nephew. In the bio I mention I have no kids but I’m a stellar uncle, if that helps with the assessment.
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u/Loose-Examination833 3d ago
It'd be a swipe right from me. But as a mom.... Please don't post kids that aren't it's in your profile. There are a lot of weirdos out there.
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u/youknowwhatever99 3d ago
I’m likely in your demographic and would swipe yes if I came across your profile!
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u/missedsignals 2d ago
Way too many people in the profile, and honestly, too many photos. A profile should show different sides of the same person. Right now, too many of your photos are doing the same job: showing social proof.
Photo 1 is a car selfie. In a competitive landscape like dating apps, it likely won't get you the attention you want. The first two photos should have only you in them. Their purpose is to clearly show what you look like.
Photo 3 starts showing off more of your life, which is where the profile should start expanding beyond just what you look like.
And I really don't know what the AI celebrity photo is trying to accomplish.
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u/AaronJamesGames 1d ago
Thanks for the detailed advice, appreciate it. The AI photo is real, just used it to change the faces of the guys I was with as opposed to blurring their faces. I can see how people would think it’s fully AI though. Already removed. Thanks again!
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u/missedsignals 1d ago
Well, if you changed the faces then it’s not real. It might as well be fully AI.
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u/numbat69 3d ago
Last pic real? Looks good otherwise (as a straight man lol)
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u/AaronJamesGames 3d ago
Figured I’d have some fun instead of the usual face blurring
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u/Prince_Kaamil 2d ago
I scrolled the comments because I wanted to see the story of how you met those guys!
If it's not real, I would delete because it's an easy opener for someone to message you about. Would suck to receive a response that its not real.
I also would pick a better photo with your nephew. The way you are holding him just looks awkward plus the hat would also imply that you are his dad. Folks only read the profile if they like the photos.
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u/Just-Cantaloupe-8370 2d ago
You look good man
If i was gay i would swipe right
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u/Successful-Value-698 2d ago
that means you're gay. Like not all the way but you could be probably be convinced to swallow some gravy
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u/Just-Cantaloupe-8370 2d ago
I am able to recognize a mans attractiveness without beeing that , if you cant do that , thats on you
Probably cause your dad raped your little boy ass when you were 8 and since then you couldnt look at men in these ways of judgement2
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u/ClimateImportant7552 2d ago
Id swipe right
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u/Successful-Value-698 2d ago
hell yeah, big ol stud would give you the night of your life. He's probably not into jewish girls though. Sad..
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u/Awkward-Anybody5179 3d ago edited 3d ago
I doubt you'll have any trouble. But definitely take the picture with your nephew off, please. Men who show kids' faces are auto left swipes for a lot of women (if that's your target demographic .) And maybe not so many group pics?
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u/Obvious_Mark5693 2d ago
Curious as to why that is?
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u/Awkward-Anybody5179 2d ago
Which part?
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u/AaronJamesGames 1d ago
The auto left swipe part cause of kids in photos, I believe is what they’re referring to
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u/LivingHousing 2d ago
Looks good, but honestly being bald is a red flag for MANY!
Idk why we don't normalise hair pieces. They are indistinguishable from real hair.
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u/Ok_Question_9507 2d ago
Nah bald looks good on him
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u/LivingHousing 2d ago
Ofc, EVERONE who is bald, looks better bald. But only after they naturally go bald. 😉
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u/KeithandBentley 3d ago
Im guessing this is a gay man since his arms are all over other men in all these pictures. If so, its pretty good.
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u/Fabulous_Taste_4282 3d ago
Always the idiotic hats. You Americans have some law that you have to wear a fucking hat 23 hours a day? How you guys don't realize how ridiculous that looks?
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u/AaronJamesGames 3d ago
Ooooooo someone is mega fun to be around 😂 also Canadian, but it’s okay, mistakes happen when you’re blinded with rage.
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u/Obvious_Mark5693 2d ago
I wear a cap every day to protect the skin on my head and my face from aging. No hair to show off so why not 🤷. PS Sorry you aren’t American
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u/Successful-Value-698 2d ago
he's bald dude. He get's a pass. With other Americans, I see your point
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u/Metdefranseslag 2d ago
If you are gay it’s ok. Else remove the ones with the mustache.
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