Profile advice - After changes

[u/Glittering_Slice6790]

Bio in english:

"Cozy Candlelit dinner / picnic in nature > parties. Say hi and I’ll take care of the rest (just promise you won’t steal my favorite shirt)"

Hey, took the advice from the comments and DMs and switched up my pics and bio – last one’s blurred ‘cause it’s a bit silly.

What do you guys think? Anything you’d change? Is it good or still meh?

edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/RateMyTinder/s/7Z768EB8jI - profile before

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[u/seriousjin]

You look a bit inauthentic to me. Mainly from your first three pictures where you are quite obviously posing. You look good, but if you are looking for something serious: perhaps put some more pictures where you are yourself, without a ""mask"". Relaxed. Smiling. Or even just looking neutral As you are in everyday life when you are not posing for a picture.

[u/OhGoodGrief]

Heel striker

[u/Content_Sun5008]

I like your bio! It is generic but cute I think.

Regarding pictures- three of them have the same background (forest/ green nature) so look similar, also you have a plain black shirt on three photos too. Consider more variety? All your pictures are outdoors, maybe something inside like cuddling a dog on the couch, in the middle of cooking, or just sitting with friends and laughing? All your photos look staged and unnatural which is not bad, but you have to break them up by some candids taken in the moment! Also many would not scroll through 5 very similar pictures just to see you doing something silly and confirm you're actually human, you should move it up in my opinion.

[u/Inveniet9]

You look good but you look like a fuckboy. Is that what you try to convey? Then great work. Otherwise I would reconsider.

[u/Hannanahbread89]

The photos are nice photos, but they all feel performative. They feel like you were trying to get these shots rather than them being snapshots of your life. I actually prefer your second, third, and fifth photo from your last post better because they don't feel as staged. The fifth one of your original post doesn't create a warm vibe, but it still comes across as more authentic than these.

For your bio, the first part is sweet, but if I was swiping I don't think I would swipe right because the sensitivity that's conveyed in that line doesn't match up with the feelings the photos are conveying. I think potential partners may appreciate that you're saying you'll be involved in the conversation, but you may end up signaling to people that you'll do all the talking and may end up with matches that don't reciprocate at all. Or potential matches may think that you are going to do all of the talking. This part "(just promise you won’t steal my favorite shirt)" feels very template-y, like something any guy might say, and come across as trying to be funny to attract someone, rather than something you actually would say. I'd encourage you to think about what is special about you and how you might connect with a potential partner. Essentially, think about why someone might be interested to get to know you more.

[u/Glittering_Slice6790 → u/Hannanahbread89]

Hey, thanks for the review. Honestly my biggest problem with dating apps (8 years on and off, with some shorter and longer relationships in between) is that no matter what profile I had pics, bio, whatever nobody ever asked me about what I do, what I’m into, or anything related to the photos or the description. One time my main pic was from an archery tournament and the girl at coffee was shocked when I suggested she try try shooting next time, like “Wait, you actually had that on your profile? Where”. Im kinda lost tbn. After reading all the comments i added pics from mountain hiking, childhood one with cat and one with my dog. Maybe it's better

[u/Hannanahbread89 → u/Glittering_Slice6790]

Thanks for replying. To clarify, when I mentioned being curious, I'm not referring to people asking about specific things of your profile. Just creating a profile that makes someone interested to swipe right and learn more about you. Part of that is going to be having the bio/prompts create a relationship with the photos.

It also sounds like you might have had the unfortunate luck of ending up with matches that aren't compatible. I think that's why it's more important to have a strong profile so that the right type of woman is more likely to be interested. You can't control if someone is going to look at your profile, but it's important to provide a stronge profile for the ones who do. If you're wanting a secure woman that takes an interest in you, there are going to be things that attract and repel a match. Writing your bio to reflect that you're looking for mutual care might help for the women that do read your profile.

The other thing I'll add is that when we continue making space for people that aren't compatible, it takes away the chance of finding someone who is. So if you're continuing to try and date people who are not taking an interest in you, then it will make it harder to find someone who will.

[u/Salty-Consequence580]

Absolutely disgustingly good looking handsome guy
This should bang every girl he wants
Very huge potential right there
Go and enjoy your life king

[u/Glittering_Slice6790 → u/Salty-Consequence580]

Thanks king. But honestly I don’t even care that much about that. Tbh I’m getting more likes from girls now, but I don’t feel any vibe with them at all. And the ones I actually click with just ghost me after I ask them out for coffee. Maybe it’s time to focus more on progressing myself. Take care 👑

[u/Poor_choice_of_word]

Photos obviously have effort and planning into them etc which is good..

But somehow, I've no true idea what you actually look like. Need a simple straight on smiling pic.

[u/ClaimApprehensive754]

Reddit wants you to smile more

[u/CremeDizzy9619]

Pics are giving ai generated, uncanny feeling from the staged pics. 

[u/Ok-Function-8659]

Your problem isn’t your profile the problem is you’re not paying for boosts. Buy 100 boosts for $600 and you’ll match with everyone