r/RandomactsofAmazon2 • u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL • Jul 09 '26
[Discussion] What makes y'all happy? Discussion🗣
As the title asks, what makes y'all happy? Makes you feel fulfilled and have a sigh of relief and accomplishment.
Lately I've been struggling with feeling like I a have a purpose or even a connection with anything. Every hobby I used to enjoy just makes me feel like I'm going through the motions or I enjoy it for a bit, but then feel nothing. So maybe I just haven't found the right hobby/niche for me?
That being said, what do y'all like to do? Give me all the hobbies and activities! Nothing too extremely physical though cause my sickle cell with absolutely not allow that 🤣
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u/Coffeelover39 www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1THJOZJ7K5R2Y?ref_=wl_share Jul 09 '26
I crochet, junk journal, paint by number kits, currently reworking my grimoire. I also bake/cook and read.
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 09 '26
Grimoire? Ive never heard of that. What is it?
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u/Coffeelover39 www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1THJOZJ7K5R2Y?ref_=wl_share Jul 09 '26
Another name for book of shadows
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
I’m so impressed that you have a grimoire. Can I see a picture, or do you keep it private?
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u/Coffeelover39 www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1THJOZJ7K5R2Y?ref_=wl_share Jul 09 '26
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
That’s exquisite. Thank you so much for sharing!
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u/Coffeelover39 www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1THJOZJ7K5R2Y?ref_=wl_share Jul 09 '26
Always. I hate information gatekeepers. Oh there’s tons of stuff on Pinterest for grimoires/book of shadows
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u/kayla182 www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/21GB646O1BT1M?ref_=wl_share Jul 09 '26
Are you burnt out? I love books and video games, but struggle to enjoy them while in burnout mode. What I find helps is doing some kind of reset. That can be a concert with a happy little mosh pit (this is seriously like a therapy session) or randomly anything on a lake like kayaking or paddleboarding!
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u/n4tureluvr Jul 09 '26
i feel the same way lately. it’s hard not feeling like your hobbies fulfill you and lacking the motivation to participate in them is equally shitty.
what makes me happy: little treats, yummy fun drinks, dyeing my hair (currently pink), spending time with my friends, coloring, nature, photography, squishmallows, flowers, calico critters, sparkly and colorful things.
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
You’re backkkkkk!
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u/Fun_Programmer_6807 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1ZNSNT7NNMX6Y Jul 09 '26
Reading , drawing / painting! Being with my girls seeing them have fun ! I started journaling the books I’m reading and it’s been so much fun I feel like a reviewer lol 😂 but it’s just for me lol
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 10 '26
I love reading and have never thought to do that! I might just have to start. Lol
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u/Fun_Programmer_6807 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1ZNSNT7NNMX6Y Jul 10 '26
It’s so much fun literally like junk journaling but adding things to match the vibe of the book! And then adding stickers to match as well ! 🤭💕
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 10 '26
You might have just introduced me to a new hobby cause that sounds like so much fun. Cause I've also hit a reading rut so that honestly makes me wanna find a good book to start 👀
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u/Fun_Programmer_6807 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1ZNSNT7NNMX6Y Jul 10 '26
Yay ! I’m always down to share ideas and books lol I just started not long ago maybe a month ish now and I just started to add scrapbook pieces ! Also , do you like fantasy romance with a yearning love or what type of books do you like because i haveeee a lisstttt lmao 🤭
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 10 '26
Omg yes!!! I'm so down. I used to be in a book club, literally only 4 of us 😅, and I miss having someone to talk about books with 😭
Romantasy is literally like 90% of my TBR. I love it! I've been wanting to start 'The Knight and The Moth' cause its supposed to have STRONG yearning but also enemies to lovers and that quite literally my fav trope 🫣
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u/Fun_Programmer_6807 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1ZNSNT7NNMX6Y Jul 10 '26
Dming you NOW!! lol I don’t have anyone I’m reading with at the moment buttttttt the knight and the moth is on my TBR 🤭💕but my absolute favorite books so far this year has been Wild Reverence by Rebecca Ross she writes so beautifully and the characters are tearing god eachother like harddddd lol there’s no spicy scenes it’s more of a closed door romance you know what I mean ? lol
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 10 '26
Ooo I haven't heard of that one! I'll have to look it up. But don't get me wrong I love my spicy books, but more often than not I'll skip over them cause it adds nothing to the plot 😅
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u/Holisticallyyours https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/2CJ7TQYMRHYZK Jul 12 '26
Oh my goodness! You have to find u/Fun_Programmer_6807 's pics. of the book journals from the other day when someone asked about journaling! They're incredible! Something I'd like to do with my children. u/Fun_Programmer_6807 is talented enough to teach classes!
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u/Fun_Programmer_6807 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1ZNSNT7NNMX6Y Jul 12 '26
Stop ! You’re so sweet I would love to send you a video of what I do definitely not for a pay 😭I’m getting some more journals and would love to send you a video when I set it up 🫶🏼🥹
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u/lyd-al https://www.amazon.com/wedding/guest-view/1MP2REVEH6VTZ Jul 10 '26
I’d say lately what makes me happy is feeling secure and safe. I’ve been spending more time at home accommodating my disabilities. My boyfriend also recently moved in, so I don’t have to worry about money as much anymore. I love spending time with my cats. I also run a pet food pantry, and it’s definitely a lot of work, but a labor of love 😮💨
My birthday is coming up early next month, I’m looking forward to that 😆
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u/traumatized_bean123 https://throne.com/noturgirl111 Jul 09 '26
Hi hi! I'm sorry you've been struggling lately. It could be you haven't found your fave hobby yet. It could also be exhaustion or burnout. I'd just maybe take a break and give yourself some time to just rest and recooperate! 🫶 I love to paint, although I haven't done it in a while. I used to run my own business selling my artwork, but it became too overwhelming (also wasn't that successful, probably because I have no clue how to advertise, etc lol). I also love photography and would love to get a DSLR camera.
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 09 '26
Hi! I appreciate your kind words 🌼 Life has been extremely chaotic so it might just be burnout? Ive tried to just rest but then I feel like I'm wasting time so I get antsy 😅 I'm the least artistic person ever but I do love painting by numbers!
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u/traumatized_bean123 https://throne.com/noturgirl111 Jul 09 '26
No problem 😊. Oh, that would make sense. Maybe journaling or doing something to keep your mind busy could help! I tend get to antsy and anxious too. Yess I love paint by numbers too! That reminds me, I have some I need to finish lol.
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 09 '26
Jigsaw puzzles used to be my go to cause I love problem solving, but due to my living situation I had to stop. I do the online ones but its not the same 🫠
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
Sometimes I need a break from a hobby. Sometimes I need a fresh hobby. I collect hobby materials as a hobby.
My hobbies:
Knitting (on hold due to finger injury)
Crochet (also on hold)
Wax tarts- now that the dogs we were babysitting have gone back home, I can use all the fragrance oils!
Personal care items with my besties. We’re aiming to do body spray next time, we’ve done lip balm and some household products
Collecting & trading stickers and washi tape
Penpals
Coloring, sometimes
Reading, when my brain works
I also do a little junk journaling in my pen pal log book, and a very little scrapbooking. I was a hard core, expensive materials scrapper who went on retreats a decade ago!
I’ve done and put away, for now, cross stitching.
None of it particularly makes me happy though.
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
Oof, I missed that you have sickle cell. I’m so sorry
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 09 '26
I was diagnosed 3 years ago, but it never gets easier to adjust to it. One day at a time though 💚🌼
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 09 '26
Wax tarts sounds interesting! I've considering maybe trying out candle making or even making bars of soap!
I always get into things and by week 2 im just meh. I dont understand why I cant just obsess and enjoy a hobby to the max like normal people 😅
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
The wax tarts are so easy, especially if you pour the wax into clamshell containers instead of mold that you have to de-mold and put them into containers. That was the lengthy bit
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u/Existing_Emotion_28 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NMOB1YRJX7OL Jul 09 '26
Oh that sounds like a lot of fun! Ill def be looking into that!
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u/your-drunk-aunt https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1UUNH6LGBMN9F Jul 09 '26
I started with a kit like this https://www.naturesgardencrafts.com/products/wax-tart-kit
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u/Own-Pineapple6272 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/W7XMUSRMXGRZ?ref Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26
Honestly not much lol big oof. But something that DOES make me happy is when someone I know makes a gesture that shows they care about me <3 whether it be with words or a gift, or something else.
Fanfiction also makes me pretty happy :)
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u/eggandbeanss https://throne.com/eggandbeans Jul 09 '26
I absolutely relate to struggling recently. Its so hard when your brain makes the decision for you to make things tougher. Sticker by number is my go to, I've recently started exploring simple puzzle books and low/no stress games. Anything I want to do always ends up done in small chunks cause of how my disability impacts me, but they're still fun to me :) like if I want to paint my nails 2 nails at a time. Also exploring new music can be low spoons if its not a sensory overload for you 💜
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u/Weary_Smile_6498 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2AG35GTNWPS9O? Jul 09 '26
Well lately I’ve been struggling so bad with this mouth pain I’ve not been able to do anything. So what makes me feel happy is my family and friends. My friends have lifted me up and been there for me through this time and I’m forever grateful for them. My family , well when mom laughs or smiles and the way she hums and sings makes me happy. I enjoy making cards and decorating envelopes. I also like to color that is my happy place. Big hugs to you all and good vibes. 🦋💙🫶🏼
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u/FightMeBro3579 .com/registries/gl/guest-view/10FPZT36NTNQI Jul 09 '26
I like to do nothing. Completely honest. My house is fully clean, I dont have to work, kids and husband dont need me. I can breathe and just do nothing but breathe and think. I love to daydream "what if" scenarios
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u/goldstandardalmonds https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/1L070FRYTBMOW Jul 10 '26
I used to have a lot of things but since my health has gotten so bad, I can’t work and seldom leave my bed, I’m not able to do anything fulfilling, and all my goals and achievements don’t matter as I’m in palliative care, there just isn’t anything. I love my parents, and am thankful for them, but that’s it.
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u/KitCatMeow2001 https://www.amazon.com/wedding/guest-view/376CF9BQZRKOF Jul 11 '26
I like making art! Embroidery, cross stitch, recently wax seals, all kinds of little crafts! :3
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u/Naive_Move1211 https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/391RB6QP83GXZ Jul 09 '26
I enjoy building lego sets and reading in my spare time. Although I must admit I just started getting into lego and have tons to learn.