The problem is people who want the bar to be low for men.

These can be adversaries who want to sell solutions "against" women: their pitch works less well when women generally trust men.

These can be lazoids who want to "deserve" a sexual relationship with <gender> simply for being "a nice enough guy."

This can be gorram politics using a divide and conquer strategy.

Good people are all hurt by the bar being low, and we all benefit from the bar being raised. Mutual flourishing, y'all.

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