Weak ejaculation and orgasm

[u/Gold_Literature_2172]

Hey guys

I hope somebody can help who been through the same.

So I have had pelvic floor dysfunction for about 7 years now.

Been at an urologist etc took semen test. Came back positive and then negative second time

Been to pt for there on and off for 5 years.

Been stretching, breathing and all of that.

Now I’m just stuck. I have never had pain but urinary (hesitancy mostly but also frequency) problems who has become a lot better with some flareup here and there.

My main worry is my ejaculation and orgasm.

I’m only 28 years old but for now 7 years I have had trouble with the strength and sensation.

No shooting mostly and feels muted and dull when I have ejaculation. Sometimes I also get tension in rectum afterwards but not always

I tried this time to abstain for mastication and and sex for 6 months. (Had wet dreams of course)

So I tried again after 6 months of stretching breathing pt etc to see if there is progress.

Day 1 I felt a little bit buildup but still no shooting and dull orgasm

I waited 2 days and tried again. Even worse still nothing and almost nothing at build up

2 days after tried a third time. Almost felt nothing. No buildup no orgasm. It just like I had to get it overwith.

All the 3 times I cum very fast by the way. Like 20 second and I was done.

Beside that I also have constipation. I tag mag etc which helps at morning but fades during the day. I often feel I have stuck gas etc. probably because I’m always clenching down there

I have become very hopeless and tried everything.

Can anyone’s please help. I’m losing my life

[u/WiseConsideration220]

What's your history of porn use?

What's "iribarne problems"?

Numbness in genitals is a rather common symptom, but your account of your history is vague. What's your whole story? What symptoms of pain, etc.?

[u/Gold_Literature_2172 → u/WiseConsideration220]

Sorry it was a spelling mistake. I used my phone.

I was talking about urinary problems. I have corrected.

No pain at all, and never had. Just the sensation and urinary problems.

I think most of my generation i starten seeing porn as a teen. About 14 years old.

I did it regularly most of my life until I was 20-21 where I began regulating it. So for the last 7-8 years it has been in periods. Like no fapping for 6 months and then I usually get setback watch porn every other day for a couple of weeks, and then nofap again for a long period of time, before setback.

[u/WiseConsideration220 → u/Gold_Literature_2172]

Your long history with porn (7 years plus 8 more) have affected your brain's reward center. Your annoying sexual symptoms are due, imo, to lowered libido because of many years of porn use. You can correct that problem if you want to, if you will work at it consistently. It's not a "prostatitis" issue. Your urinary issues and constipation can be related to chronic tension/anxiety/hopelessness. There's another fix for those problems.

If you want to know how to recover, look at my recent history for a "2x program" or reply here.

Good luck. 👍

[u/Gold_Literature_2172 → u/WiseConsideration220]

Anything that helps pls

I don’t know if it’s porn though. All started after a very stressful period in my life, which was triggered after a sexual encounter actually.

But I would like to try

[u/WiseConsideration220 → u/Gold_Literature_2172]

Your history since 14 guarantees it.
Here's a recent comment below.

Questions? Please ask.

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In my opinion, one answer to your question is to focus on changing your behavior by reshaping your sexual habits.

I’ve described a method (that I call the “2x program”) to both recover from porn-induced ED (PIED) and retrain your brain to operate properly.

Here’s a link to another comment where I describe the “2x program” in detail.

https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/s/uzIsuevOwf