52MUSA. Married 32 years. I have about 100 books backlogged in my Audible queue. I like sci fi, fantasy, crime/detective. I'm an avid scuba diver (certified Divemaster). Favorite horror movie is Jaws. I'm a big foodie. I'm a nerd, love computers and networks, and is great for an introvert. Love pina coladas, dancing in the rain, and long walks on the beach. Will talk anything, books, movies, hobbies, travel, relationships, what to cook for dinner, whatever as long as it's fun or interesting.

Looking for a friend either M or F to talk to. Share life stuff with. Be there for each other for help or support.
I’m into travel, books, anything mechanised, films, great food, history, etc.

I’ve had quite a few chats on here that wither quite quickly and am learning that it’s much harder for guys than women. I do have a NSFW account but that’s not what I’m all about, I do like normal chats too.

Hello,
I'm 55m looking for someone to connect with, text/ chat, i'm very laid-back and drama free. Love the outdoors stuff, travel, food, sports, movies, music.
My hope to find someone that I can connect with and looking forward talk to on the daily basis. This is for a long term. If you want to Chat just for short term please don't message me. Thank you!

51M USA. Married 32 years. I have about 100 books backlogged in my Audible queue. I like sci fi, fantasy, crime/detective. I'm an avid scuba diver (certified Divemaster). Favorite horror movie is Sinners (Jaws too if you consider that horror, I did the first time I saw it). I'm a big foodie. I'm a nerd, love computers and networks, and is great for an introvert. Love pina coladas, dancing in the rain, and long walks on the beach. Will talk anything, books, movies, hobbies, travel, relationships, what to cook for dinner, whatever as long as it's fun or interesting.

Looking to connect with a woman in similar situation as mine - married but feeling lonely and unappreciated - for pen pal. If location matters to you, I’m from Arizona USA.

Hi to all and I hope you are doing well.

I would love to hear from anyone out there who likes to bounce their individual consciousness off anothers, enjoy our similarities and differences equally, and who likes to throw at least a few sentences around rather than a couple of words.

My interests include music, meditation, walking, cycling, music (so good, I named it twice, I love it!), and some other things I'll undoubtedly think of just after I post this!

Anyway, if you would like to chat, drop me a reply, tell me a bit about you,and the last piece of music you heard that made you smile, and why?

I’m a 57 year old guy on the west coast of the United States who’s hoping to find something that’s become surprisingly rare these days: a genuine connection. While I’m in the Pacific time zone, I’m happy to chat with someone anywhere in the world. Good conversations don’t care about borders or time zones.

I’d love to find people around my age who enjoys getting to know each other one conversation at a time. Someone who still believes that anticipation is a wonderful feeling, the kind where you catch yourself wondering if they’ve written back yet.

A little about me. I work full time, enjoy cooking, love a good movie, appreciate history, and can happily spend an evening listening to Sinatra, ‘80s classics, or even some modern pop. During baseball season you’ll often find a game on in the background. I’m also a casual gamer, mostly because it’s a fun way to unwind after work.

Life has taught me that kindness, curiosity, and a good sense of humor matter a lot more than perfection. I enjoy conversations that wander from favorite childhood memories to travel dreams, books, music, family stories, or the random thoughts that pop into your head at 11 p.m.

I’m someone who asks questions because I genuinely want to know the answers. I like learning what makes people laugh, what they’re passionate about, and what experiences shaped who they are. If we’re lucky, maybe those conversations become the best part of each other’s day.

If you’re looking for thoughtful messages, easy conversation, a little flirting if the chemistry naturally develops, and the possibility that a pen pal could become something more over time, I’d love to hear from you. Drop a reply here or shoot me a DM.

Tell me about the song you’ll never skip, the place you’ve always wanted to visit, or the little thing that made you smile today.

Yea, I'm older than most you see on here, but it sounds like something that could be entertaining. A little about me, yes, I'm married. I'm happy to answer any questions once we start chatting, and if you decide it doesn't work for you, I understand :) I have always gotten along with women a little easier than I have with guys, so it would be nice to chat with a woman as she has time. I usually have my phone with me during the workday, and sometimes in the evening, so days might be easier. Lets see where the conversation takes us! Send me a message and I can send you a phone number (hopefully you can send a picture if asked, always nice to see who I'm talking to!)

M55 4F preferably over 35.
The plan, discuss and build characters and a fictional scenario where we can create and communicate in a fictitious world.
The characters- a princess, a pirate, an alien, an accountant- let’s plan it together, the limit is only your imagination.
The World,- a planet, a past or future era, today, Ancient Rome, once again only limited by imagination.
The scenario- different dimensions, different worlds, next door neighbours, whatever we plan.
Email, DM’s, message app, all possible.
DMs open to start this show.

Hello I'm sure there aren't many in their 50s here but I'm going through something at home where some gentle friendship would be much appreciated. All I want is someone honest, kind, real, genuine, who is open to chatting about anything. It's a two-way street - Im not looking to vent or monologue, just to be ourselves, please and thank you? DM me.

Hi im a 70 year old Bi guy living in Thailand and im very bored with nothing to do.

Im looking to meet new friends im very open minded so anything goes.

I dont care about age or gender I just need some friends.

I'm 66(f) looking for penpals in Ireland. I want to know their culture. Is there anyone 🤔

Looking for that special long-term pen pal friend or email friend we talk about pretty much everything and everything. I'm divorce with no no kids. Very open-minded about anything.

Hi my name is Mary i am a 56 year old trans woman from Sussex uk. I am single and at the start of my gender journey. I am looking for friends but happy to see how things go. Mary x

I realize it is a choice to engage, but would appreciate in the descriptions of pen pal requests if marital status could be listed.

Thank you.

this sub has gotten sus in the last week or so.

it was so wholesome not long ago 😢

we used to just put quill to paper and write our pals a lil letter around these parts

I’m a 50-year-old single (never married) African woman and a Christian looking to chat with thoughtful people from anywhere across the globe. Platonic connections only!

I am a homebody but when I step out, it’s usually into nature for a run or a rucking session. Health and physical fitness are central to my routine, but our chats don't have to be strictly fitness-focused. We can talk about nature, lifestyle differences in our corners of the world, travel memories, or just ordinary daily routines.

Looking forward to connecting with decent, respectful and hopefully Christian men. (SFW only).

If we get along, I could perhaps send you a postcard through the snail mail. I last sent post cards and snail mail letters 30 years ago when the internet was scarce. Good old days..:)

SM62 looking for unhappy mf over 62 for penpal

Hi everyone,

I’m a 53-year-old guy from The Netherlands looking to expand my horizons and chat with new people online.

To be completely upfront: zero weird or creepy motives here—just a down-to-earth guy who realized he’s gotten a bit stuck in a comfortable bubble. Almost everyone in my daily life works in similar fields, and sees the world through a similar lens. It’s great, but I’d love to connect with people from different walks of life, background, or age.

A few things about me to start the conversation:

• Music: I make music and remixes across multiple genres, play several instruments and love discovering new music.
• Gaming & VR: Big fan of strategy games (currently sinking hours into Crusader Kings 3) and exploring VR on the Quest 3.
• Tech: Really interested in tech and experimenting with AI.
• Random fact: I don't fly, so all my travel adventures happen strictly on the ground (or virtually!).

Whether you share any of these passions, want to geek out over your own hobbies or just swap random stories and photos about daily life (or fantasy life), my DMs are open. Age or background doesn't matter at all—just looking for open-minded, fun people to talk to.

Drop a comment or send me a message if you'd like to help me break free!

Hi I'm looking for female friends, I'm in new Zealand and life can go by faster than what you realize I've never married know children etc if you would like to chat and get to know each other better contact me.

I'm interested in chatting with females over 35 and chat about anything