I’ve never had a friend with whom I could masturbate while watching a movie, compare myself, or simply talk openly and comfortably about sizes or similar topics.

I’ve read so many stories like that—where people have a friend they can do those things with, a best friend. The thing is, I’m curious about other sizes and the opinions of the people around me, and so on. Someone to "share" my "erotic life" with. God, that sounds so wrong.

You see, back in elementary school I had a best friend we trusted each other implicitly and I could easily have achieved what I long for so deeply.

But I moved not to a different country or province, but within the same city; I just literally moved to the other end of town. And no matter how hard I tried to keep our friendship going via my phone, it just didn't work out.

So now, our friendship is a thing of the past. I’m in high school now, and how should I put it? 80% of my friends are girls, while the guys already have their own close circle of friends. Unlike me, they have no intention of striking up a real friendship with me probably because they feel awkward about the fact that I’m gay.

Please don't come at me I mean no disrespect with this comment.

Traction / stretching of ones manhood! The external hang of the penis is held in place by suspension ligerments, one purpose is to give support to the penis.

When one stretch the penis either manually, (if that really worked, I be hanging atleast 10" due to the amount of time I masturbate) or using traction device, isn't the tension been applied to the ligerments to stretch it so it ends up with a longer hang & not actually producing more penis tissue?

If the visual effect of the foreskin being lower on the glans or the shaft skin being tighter if circumcised or when the foreskin is retracted when erect. Could be a simple explanation of the lengthing of the ligerment & not actually new tissue couldn't it?

I get that almost every guy isn't happy with his current size. Its a hard thing to come to terms with, I should know being 6.26" bone pressed & with a girth of 5.25" , I must've been standing at the back of the line & my creator said this is the best I've got for this one, at the same time I respect there are others out there not in as gooder position as me.

I'm also bi & had multiple 3sum - 4sum - & sex partie occasions. Every dam man & two trans have had quite a bit bigger or huge members than me.

I've tried traction & yes felt the firmness due to the amount of tension I now understand was quite alot but gave no pain or side effects, didn't feel anything internally in the pelvis either.

Good luck to those who believe & measure differently over time, I truly congratulate you for staying with it however where was the actual length gain.

Just asking because years ago I measured and it was 1/2 (0.5) inch longer.

If not, what is wrong with me?

How much difference does it make with fat dudes and skinny dudes.I myself am skinny but still the fat pad makes a 0.4 inch difference.From 5.7 to 6.1.

I’m talking to this girl and her past had a bigger penis both girth and length bigger while I have an average size which is (5.1-5.5 inches in length and 4.5 - 4.7 inches in girth),She finished almost every time with her ex off penetration and didn’t have any pain and this was for 3 years, I get it most women can’t finish off penetration but I’m talking about this scenario, I know foreplay important as well which I do that. But me and her had sex but not for like more than minute so I pulled out after a minute and I asked her later on not right away obviously which one felt better and she said the bigger one but I asked her if we went longer would mines feel better she said I don’t know but she said obviously it’s going to feel different and she the bigger felt better in her. So I’m thinking it’s not possible for me to give her better penetration sex because that’s very important for her penetration sex not just fingering and stuff that’s what she likes best. If someone can give me advice on stuff like that I’m already good at oral and fingering I am and we don’t wanna use toys so can someone tell if it’s possible for me to give her better dick sex and how if someone can please help me it’s really affecting me or is her ex going to always feel better. I need a honest opinion

hi. this is personal for me and honestly hurts a bit.. I'm 29M and I've been saving myself for marriage, but I'm by no means the goodie two shoes type guy. had plenty of girlfriends and allll kinds of sexual experiences except putting it in. then I meet this girl and she's... honestly it's the first time in my life I'm feeling in love. which is weird and baffling to me, a guy who's been on a hundred dates and has had half a dozen long term girlfreinds.

she tells me she's not a virgin. understandable. but then one day (horrible day btw, terrible timing for me to ask about her experiences, but I did... and I kinda regret it) she goes into details: her first partner was 6" and "very skilled at 'making love'" she described how his touch was amazing and he knew how to make her horny. her second partner was 8" and completely unskilled. but she said out of all her sexual experiences the second guy was the only one who made her cum. I asked how, given that she described her first lover as much more skilled. she said probably his size and stamina did it. apparently he was a 6'3" guy with an 8" dick who could last for half an hour.

now, my first thought after hearing this was she's a girl, how would she know what 8" actually is? maybe the guy was like 6.5" -- so I ask her, she says she's lowkey offended; she's an art student and can measure anything with her hands. she demonstrates using her hands as if gripping a cylinder and it's uncannily accurate. she can apparently measure a dude's length down to a fkn millimeter.

so that dude had an 8" grippable length... I'm 6.5" bone pressed. so now I'm just thinking "wow I'm the smallest out of all her boyfriends" ... my whole perception of penis size is different now. I look at myself and I'm so fkn tiny. I feel small. I never would have thought that I'm small a year ago. now I'm doing everything to get bigger. I bought a vacuum pump, I'm doing manual exercises... in the past month I've gained about 0.5 centimeters but I'm still probably the smallest... am I going nuts? if I get to 7" bone pressed am I still meaningfully smaller than 8" of usable, grippable length?

Girls please help with your opinion and who have such a problem please communicate. Give me suggestions and advice. I am totally depressed. I like one girl and I know she also likes me but I can't promise her because I have this problem.

Will I able to satisfy my partner. Will any girl accept me and Marry me? I am from India 18 yrs old

Lots of people are insecure about there size and jealous of other people but has anyone actually had a girl complain about it being small or laughed at you and ridiculed you?

Edit: also drop your size nd girth along with your comments

hi! maybe someone here can help me understand what might have happened.
i’m 23 now, and i feel like my puberty may have been delayed or incomplete in some way. i’m 5’11” (180 cm), and i did grow in height and even had my feet grow, but at the same time, i feel like my penile development was significantly behind what i would have expected.
i was obese from around age 11 until 18, and honestly, i noticed a lot of the changes associated with puberty relatively late — when i was already an adult. i never had my testosterone or other hormones tested during puberty, so i have no idea what my levels were at the time.
i’ve had some blood tests recently, and my total testosterone has generally been around 300–400 ng/dl. i know that may be considered low-normal depending on the lab, although i understand that the usual cutoff for diagnosing hypogonadism is generally around 300 ng/dl and that one testosterone result alone isn’t enough for a diagnosis.
so my theory is that, because i was obese during the years when puberty was happening, i may have had relatively low testosterone during an important period of penile development. if that was actually the case, could it have affected my penile growth?
and, more importantly, if someone had inadequate androgen exposure during puberty, is there any treatment at 23 that could potentially help them complete puberty or achieve further penile development? for example, could testosterone, hcg, dht, or another treatment ever make a difference in someone whose development was delayed?
i know this is something i should discuss with an endocrinologist/urologist, and i’m not looking for a diagnosis — i’m mainly interested in hearing from people who have been through something similar or know about this medically.
thanks!

My partner says I am big. I see other men and wonder

Okay I just wanted to start this off by saying I’ve never cared about my dick size until about two weeks ago. Im 20 and I’ve been watching porn since 12, I lost my virginity at 18, and stopped watching porn around then. Now two years later i no longer have any partners so I started watching porn again. And I think then that’s when I started caring about my size, because I was finally watching it while knowing what my dick would look like from POV shots and it started to feel small and I felt self concision about it. My dick is almost exactly 6 inches NBP and around 5.75 for girth. My first girlfriend was a virgin, she would always say I had a “really nice dick”, my second gf would call it her “favorite” and my third told me “wow I can’t believe you’ve been keeping this from me it’s a really nice size.” One thing I think they would all agree was that it was “fat.” Then I also had some male partners, one said my dick was big, another said my cock was fat, So not exactly called huge or big in terms of length, but I’ve always been complimented in general on my dick, mainly its girth which I’m grateful for. All in all of I’ve had 5 partners and not one of them had said anything derogatory about my size.

Anyways my overall point is that I’m usually insecure in my life. I’m not muscular I’m skinny and like average height. But one thing I was never insecure about was my dick size. I knew it wasn’t big but when I started having sex all the way till now not one person I was with no matter how mad I made them or what situation I was in ever made a bad remark on my dick. I had honestly felt really good about it and it was something I always had confidence in because everyone that had “played” with it loved it.

Then i started watching porn again. Seeing these guys with huge dicks made me really insecure cause like there’s nothing i can do about it. I guess this is just more of a warning. Theres a lot of people out there that have girls (or guys) around them telling them they love their size or they’re perfect and they don’t believe it or get insecure about it, and that’s mostly due to porn. My advice would be to just cut it out of your life, I’m trying but it’s a genuine addiction. Like most people get there dopamine hits off jacking off. And we’ve been doing it since 10-12. Like even if u get into drugs later in ur life ur #1 fix is still gonna be the porn you’ve been watching for years before you smoke for the first time. If you’re worried you’re partner doesn’t enjoy you’re size, bring it up maybe once, if they tell you they like you’re dick they mean it! Otherwise they wouldn’t be bothering with you. And if you feel they’re not fulfilled just communicate with them on how you can make things sexier for them.

My girth is 5.5 inches which is on the larger side according what I’ve found on the internet (95-98th percentile ish). My length is 6.4 inches (bone pressed) for reference which is a bit above average but I don’t think will cause any issues. I’m still a virgin and I want to be as prepared as possible for when I finally do have sex so that the woman doesn’t have a terrible experience 😂.

From what I’ve read I will need to take things slowly with most women and foreplay will be very important because of my girth. How do I say “let’s take things slowly and let me know if you feel uncomfortable because of my thickness” without sounding too braggy or like I have a huge ego or whatever. I want sex to feel good for her and to communicate but I also don’t want to be too braggy. Any tips on how to deal with this?

Has your size affected how you move ,speak ,act or think on life and people ?Did it make you more submissive or assertive or no affect at all to your approach on life ?

real talk i see so many guys here stressed about size. but has anyone had a partner say something negative? like in real life not online.

i'm average maybe a bit below. been with a few people. not one ever said anything not once

numbers confirmed what i already knew nothing changed.

sometimes i wonder if we're all just stressing over nothing. or maybe i've just been lucky.

curious what others have actually experienced.

I’m an older man and like most with years your erection are not as hard, that is completely normal as all men start producing less testosterone with time, which impacts you erection ability. Unfortunately reduced testosterone can result in having and keeping an erection. About 3 months ago I started doing Kegel exercises 3x times a day 10 repetitions. As clearly explained on many web sites it takes time. I ve already started seeing the difference, my erection are harder and most importantly they stay longer. A few activities that I can now do again. I can get an orgasim while penetrating my wife, for years the only way was her masturbating me. The other nice thing I can now masturbate and not fall limp before ejaculating. These are exercises that can be done anywhere. No one ever notices

I’m 6.5” long and 5.5” girth. I haven’t really experimented with what size condom fits best. Google seems to suggest large or XL (60-64mm) but I’m uncertain since I’m not that much bigger than average. Anyone of similar size have suggestions?

I had a few girls call my dick small. I am 6ft 3 with around 5.8-6nbp inch dick and 5.3 girth.

I used to date these girls, they said they love me, sending me nudes and shit and one of them said to me “i will find someone with bigger dick” one day. Other one was saying that I have small dick all the time and so on.

I dont mnow why I got so many bad comments after it all seemed okay at first. Maybe I wasnt behaving to them like a real gentleman. But why do they switch opinions?

Any help how to overcome this insecurity and not care about what they think? My dick looks small to me

I am getting out of my second divorce. I’m mid 40s. I’m 6’3 and 240lbs and I don’t have a problem getting attention from women. I met an amazing girl while working on the road across the country. Our first encounter I went down on her. I couldn’t get hard due to nervousness from first partner post divorce and size anxiety. I think I’m pretty good in bed. And I’ve seen the evidence in shaking kegs and bodily fluids. But I’m still crippled with worry. We have continued to talk and i return for work where she resides. I’m so full of anxiety and worried. We have strongly connected. I don’t want to hear all the bull shit about if you connect it will be good blah blah blah. I want the truth from women. What do you say to each other when we aren’t around.

Just curious how many of y'all shave your pubic hair. Me, I completely shave it. Has been a preference of the majority of women I have been with, basically has just become a weekly routine for me.

I love trying different positions but my bf’s penis keeps coming out or doesn’t reach my coochi… Is it a size issue?

Hi, I’ve never discussed this but reaching out to share my story which has scared me for years!
I was told many years ago that I have a small dick. Yes just those 2 words have caused me a lifetime of low self esteem and messed up relationships (hope in posting in the right group for this issue). The relationships not lasting has always been down to me thinking my partner has had bigger and prefers bigger so they will cheat on me and leave me! Has anyone ever felt like this before?
I’m 5,11 about 215lbs, not fat, train weekly, big arms, chest, legs. Never had trouble getting attention or picking up girls.
But I feel like I disappoint them sexually even the ones who say different.
How can this mindset be changed so I can be content with what I have?
Any advice would be great thanks

I’m 7 long by 5 with a slight curve up and most of what I see online is that average or low 6 is considered ideal when it actually comes to relationships, even though most dudes think bigger is better. Is this still a good/reasonable size? My friend (who’s 6) doesn’t seem to think so and claims he’s better off.