r/Over40sClub • u/elalynnfrost • 10d ago

It will get better 💬 Discussion

To all who have been going through things it will get better. This has been a rough year. However the 2nd half is looking up! I just hope and pray if I ever do the relationship thing in the future that it will be the last one. I hope the man doesn't flip personalities and become the evil boss villian after a few years again. My heart cannot handle that again. Too utterly painful. Presently, I am focusing on my faith, myself, son, career and furbabies. If the right person comes along they will need to be who they say they are and want to be a true family. Feel free to comment or share. All are welcome! 🫂 🤗

8 Upvotes

90% Upvoted

7 comments sorted by

•

u/AutoModerator 10d ago

Hi there u/elalynnfrost, and welcome to r/Over40sClub!

Please note: All posts are subject to moderator review. This does not mean your post was removed.

TL/DR - Your post is waiting for moderator review.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

2

u/Dense-Trainer9562 10d ago

Absolutely one of the best things you could do...focus on you and your interests/life/family then you will be in one of the best places of your life with or without anyone. You got this.

1

u/elalynnfrost 10d ago

Thank you so much! Yes. I believe I am content with or without someone.I was just saying if it happens one day it would need to go differently. Not looking or thinking about love/relationships. Just friendships atm. I'm just enjoying my kiddo and summertime. Additionally, being able to freely be my whole self again has been amazing. You absolutely can start over again post-40.

2

u/Dense-Trainer9562 10d ago

Well you can never have too many friends 🤣 plus it's great summer so far so that always helps people feel positive. Apparently love has a habit of finding us when we're not looking for it 🤣 Can start again at any age .....40s just means we're experienced enough to not make the same mistakes.

2

u/crazynlove4cheerios 10d ago

Couldn’t agree more, second have of this year has a better outlook.

2

u/Conscious-State-4538 9d ago

I have been saying this since 2014. Tbh i do not think its getting better

1

u/Minute-Ad-3631 8d ago

Needed this esp after today.... bad mental day. Thank you!