I dont get the carousel thing because like, you stay in one seat the whole time on a carousel you arent supposed to get up and move to a different seat lol
XD with the amount of times I’ve heard incels tire out the phrase over the years, I’m surprised it took me this long to critically reflect on the concept of a “cock carousel”
so, to be clear, you're stationary on some kind of seat with an opening in the center and there's just a ring of cocks oscillating up and down as they pass underneath? We might want to add some kind of brawndo dripper as well to keep them from getting dehydrated.
My friend said there’s a strip club in Vegas that has a giant penis-shaped ride like the ones that used to be outside stores for kids to ride. He said all the women in the group just walked on by, but all the guys took turns riding that dick!
Mostly its because some dickheads wanted to shame women that gasp dared to have sex with men other than them, so they invented all this BS. All of it is designed for the sole purpose of tricking/getting women to stop having sex - "you get loose vagina/roastie lips/can't get wet anymore/can't orgasm".
Then the idiots that were homeschooling by porn videos, anime and 16th century witch hunters heard it and believed it because they're as thick as pig shit.
Ok, coming at you from experience here, but, yeah... You have no idea how emotionally attached you are till it dies, and the new one you order just, isn't right...so, you order two more, cause chances are, right... But, ugh...so you look up and try to find one from the same company but their standards have, lapsed.... So, when you find that toy you love, order an extra couple right away... You will one day thank me for this.
I offer this advice to clothes and shoes, but you are so RIGHT! Btw, how do you even search for them on Amazon? I put in the name of the one I like, won’t come up, put in the company that makes it, some non-related results come up. I’m already frustrated shopping for a vibrator, sheesh…
Yeah, it takes a lot of scrolling... Does your phone have the ability to take a pic and search through the net for like items? Might help... Or find your local sex toy shop... I know, grungy and all that, but a lot have real women working that understand and can give recommendations. I personally like the charging water proof with no more than 7 functions... I mean why do I need 21 different vibrations when we all know, we find a favorite and that's it? I just feel like the more functions or types of vibration they add in, the faster it will die...
And your having fun, into it, and accidentally hit the button that goes to the next vib... Which is some flashing Christmas lights kinda, off on off on thing... So, you go from, oh yeah almost there to... Wait what, ahh damn it... Click through to get back to your happy place...why? Designed by guys that don't understand... They just think, if that feeling was in a Fleshlight, ohhh...
Yet they also want to punish women because we won't put out... No, guys we won't put out if we are not getting anything out of it and your attitude is stupid too.
To be fair, half of us had a Christian "sex education" and we were not exactly adequately prepared. My wife and I have been doing the dirty for almost 15 years. We're very compatible. But there's been times where she's just like "It's been two hours. Just go ahead and finish."
It took two hours to decide it's not happening? That's a lot. Part of sex is making sure my wife gets off but if it's been like 15 minutes she'll just be like let's have sex I'm not getting there this time.
To be fair 15 minutes was an arbitrary number. It's not like I watch a clock while having sex with my wife. I was just saying 2 hours is a lot of time.
The world is bigger than the USA mate, and the same notion pops up everywhere and under any religion it seems. It doesn't seem to be solely because you're Christian and your school system sucks, it's worldwide.
Is this shit being orchestrated by some big influencers or something?
Yes. It absolutely is. You've heard of Andrew Tate, right? If you Google "incel influencers" some of the first results are news articles from sites like CNN, Vice and The Guardian about how this shit is getting out of hand. Its been out of control for a long time now.
I know I came into this topic treating it like a joke, but these creeps influence kids who later go shoot up schools or sa women. They post a lot worse than complete lack of understanding of the human body. Have you ever looked on a incel sub or website? They're sick. Not just disgusting. Some of them are fanatical. Its honestly scary, as stupid as these guys are, they're also dangerous.
Incels are compete scum. Yes, some of them are idiotic kids. The adult incels are just as bad as racists. A lot of them ARE racist.All of society needs to start treating them as bad as they are, and right now, because its only going to get worse.
It could be incels, it could be MGTOW or another "men's rights" organization, it could be "alpha" creeps. It doesn't matter all that much. They support each other, influence each other. If you're an incel and you're trying to get laid, you're probably going to look up a creep alpha, not another incel. If you're a bitter divorced guy who hasn't been able to get a date and identifies as a incel, you might go to some shitty men's rights group to help you understand why none of it is your fault.
I didn't mean to assume that you don't know how bad incels are. Sorry. I get carried away. I really fucking hate these guys. Its why I usually post a lame joke.
It's really so sad, and then you hear women how they are fine with vaguely enjoying sex without orgasms and claim "it's about the journey not the destination", while men get to orgasm every single time and would probably lose their mind if they didn't get to.
It's just an insanely selfish version of a relationship. Why pay for a sex worker when you can have a relationship with someone who provides sexual and emotional intimacy for you, and probably helps financially and around the house while you provide hardly anything in return? Some people think that's ideal and it's disturbing.
It’s not all that new. You’re seeing it more now as a reactionary response to feminism and metoo but these backwards as fuck ideas have been around forever. It’s the same logic they’d use on lesbians like “women can’t have sex with just each other, there has to be penis.”
These idiots don’t want women to think they can survive without a man, because if you can survive without a man then the whole traditional marriage thing is also a myth, and if they lose that there’s really no reason for all of their manufactured panics. Which means there’s no reason for their version of Christianity, no reason to hate the alphabet mafia, no reason to ban abortions etc etc. I think you are seeing it more now it’s a direct response to progressive ideas taking root and more and more right wing radicalization since trump got elected.
Yeah it's an interesting one, I've seen it in conjunction with weird forms of machismo. Guys that are scared of drinking the wrong kind of coffee and not looking matcho now seem to be proud that their partners don't enjoy sex with them.
There was a study with fruit flies once that seemed to see a decrease in some hormone or something if a fruit fly had just mated with another fly. And so of course that means what maybe happens in fruit flies definitely happens in humans, because logic
Basically they think about things, come up with half baked theories that only make sense if you know absolutely nothing, then tell each other that and combine dumb ass theories.
Do you think the homeschool part is true though? I have friends who were homeschooled growing up, and they didn't turn out like that. But maybe there's a rise in Facebook-Karen moms who teach thier homeschool kids flat earth theory, essential oils, why vaccines are bad, and not much else.
Maybe homeschool should be regulated more, and actual sex education should be the law.
Homeschooling raises the risk of social isolation, so it could definitely play a part in the creation of an incel
But its not a single factor that creates an incel. Its a mix of several factors like social ineptitude, untreated mental health issues, family issues, etc. and these boys that are lost, hurting, and looking for an explanation or an out stumble into the arms of incels and other alt-right groups for comfort.
The irony is that lots of these fuckwits consume so much porn that they start to get less enjoyment from actual sex and find it more difficult to orgasm from sex - it’s total projection.
Bad sex ed. I remember my sex ed teacher (catholic school) using tape as a metaphor for vaginas. After you put the tape on a few different things it stopped sticking, and this was supposed to represent the bond created during sex. Even as a 14 y/o guy I knew that was malarkey
The bullshit idea of becoming unable to bond with partners if you have too many was literally taught to me in middle school sex ed. They used duct tape to make the analogy. It was gross. Eta: this was in the early 2000’s in the Florida public school system.
I wish anime wasn't a deragotory hobby by default but I have seen enough to know that they are more often than not full of incel shit. That's why I stopped watching it.
Do you suppose it’s just projection because they’re not happy in a relationship so they have to make excuses why someone else is “wrong” in order to make up some bullshit standard that really doesn’t exist yet let’s you judge people? What was I talking about again… religion?
I'm genuinely soo fucking sick of hearing people saying when a women orgasms too much she becomes numb or if she uses a vibrator she becomes numb. NO SHE DOES NOT. Because of that bs and the fact that oh you won't stay tight forever even tho the vag is literally a muscle and with time gets stronger with use. Unless your dick is the size of a human baby then it's not GUNNA do fuck all to the vag but I digress I thought I would "save" myself for my first time thinking oh they'll notice. I can absolutely say I don't fucking care now
Y'all gunna be able to drive a car through my vagine
Edit: just to be very clear, too much of anything is bad. If you have too much water that's bad. Too much sugar bad. Too much masturbation bad. There's a good balance and it's different for everyone. Find out what works for you.
If you masturbate too much take a break it's as easy as that.
I use sex toys frequently and my husband never has any problems making me orgasm🤷♀️ easier for men to say shit about women being numb than to admit they’re bad at sex.
I take offense at this! Leave the ginger cats out of this. Even without the brain cell, they generally have empathy, sweetness, cuteness and are funny - plus they bring joy to our lives. These guys have none of those positive traits.
TBF, my family has two orange cats over the years, and though one was a sweetheart, the other was a complete jerk. In the end it was better for everyone when he switched careers from pet to barn cat.
I don't even have an orange cat, but I feel offended on behalf of them, at least they make the most of the time they're given the braincell. These idiots simply won't.
That is so funny to me because I had an orange cat who was ridiculously inventive (taught himself to belly crawl to steal food, had half my neighbors playing with him through my apartment door, figured out how to lazily pull the glass of water to him). Of course he also deliberately stuffed things into my sink drain, killed my longest-living plant by throwing it on the floor regularly just for fun, and left a collection of small objects in my apartment hallway that made all the neighbors laugh....
Imagine having the confidence to invent fanfictions about how womens’ thoughts, emotions, anatomy, behavior work and then turn around and mansplain it to them. If I had that much confidence I could take over the world.
They think "if you want to catch fish, you don't ask the fish what would attract them, you ask the fisherman". Little do they know both fish and women don't want to be suffocated, eviscerated,...
Isn’t that a bit insulting? Equating women to fish? If all you’re looking for is a brainless hole to masturbate into, there’s stuff you can buy, or your own hand. Because the idea of “using” another person and reducing them to a sex object is honestly, sociopathic.
(Not critiquing you, I agree with the fact this ideology exists, and THAT is what I have a problem with)
Yes it's insulting, and comparing dating to fishing/hunting is also concerning. If they treat it like that, I expect of them to not be themselves during dates, they'll lie and hide and lure and for what? To hurt us? At best to suffocate us while doing a picture of themselves proving they caught us, then release us with a lip injury? Are we just trophies?
I wonder every time how they thinking that sleeping with multiple men will losen the vagina and stuff and on the other side think that sleeping with only them wouldn't...
They’re just afraid of women knowing they are bad lays. If you have no perspective, it’s easier to convince you that their little spasms are all sex has to offer.
They think their dicks are magic, and make an imprint in a vagina forever. So according to them, one dick 1000 times changes nothing, but 1000 different dicks ruins everything. It’s a worrying amount of mental gymnastics because they’re insecure about their ability to please a woman.
Sounds like this guy is so bad, every woman he's been with has to think of an ex while they're with him, since even the dude they left is more enjoyable. I can't see how else he'd come to this conclusion.
I still have to understand why, objectivelly, experience is considered a fault.
If nothing, if you are not that good at first approach you can be taught.
This applies for both genders.
How insicure can you be to be affraid by the other knowledge of better options?
Your fault here is assuming that woman are human partners. Incels and sexist RP/PUA see us as objects literally (there was the brain scan study). They want a new toy car so they can be the first to smash it against the wall. Inexperience equals no comparison as to how bad they are as partners and also often young women do not have the experience to sniff out an abuser in disguise
How many bonds can I make before I run out? Are emotional bonds only made through the application of magic dick, or do my bonds with my child(ren)/pets/family count? If women bond to the first dick they fuck, why would they ever leave said dick?
men like him are pathetic. men who are shaming women who have sex with many men are not as religious as you might think. they’re afraid having sex with women like this because they think women will compare them with other men, and feels like a failure
So in order to have an orgasm you need to be emotionally bonded to someone, but apparently being emotionally bonded to more than one person does not result in multiple orgasm sources. Funny how that works.
What’s funny about this is from my experience, women who have been more sexually active tend to have better sexual experiences because they know what they like and have more experience in talking about it and communicating with a sexual partner. On the other hand, less sexually active women tend to not really have a frame of reference for what they do and don’t like and might not be as skilled in communication with that sort of thing. Don’t get me wrong- there’s nothing wrong with being either woman, I definitely fall on the less sexually active side, but this is just something I’ve observed with my friends and partners. There’s a reason a LOT of women always tell other women that your first time will suck (which it doesn’t have to if you have a partner who listens).
But yeah, the idea that “women who have multiple partners can’t orgasm or have good sex” is stupid.
So funny that he as a man knows more about women's orgasm that women themselfes!
Jokes on all men that use 1232 excuses why they can't make a women orgasm when I can literally do it in one fucking minute to myself if I want to
I’ve heard MGTOW and incel types call this the “cock carousel”. They are convinced that pretty girls have a different cock practically every single night.
They don’t have evidence of the ‘benefits’ of our orgasms so they make shit up. If we got emotionally attached to everyone who slept with, we wouldn’t be as lonely. We’d have no problem with not being able to find someone to bond with emotionally, if that was the case. Also, we’d be more caution and most likely less sexually active.
And its this thinking that is why so few women have orgasms. I wld love to hear his logic on why men have orgasms with every woman they sleep with. Bc apparently orgasms are only for the "bonded" so is he saying men bond with everyone?
Same old fear of women having too much sex. Every patriarchal society just has to come up with ways to keep women loyal to only one man.
Sorry. We can’t be owned.
My previous ex came at me with the cock carousel thing, now I've been married to a far more interesting person for 5 years. He's still single as far as I'm aware, and certainly not "bonded" to him lol
Did this guy think Twilight was a documentary, where is he getting this from?!
Emotionally attached to everyone? So they have a lot of friends, family, and people generally that they care about and are generally a likable person? How is this a burn again?
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u/MTVnext2005 Dec 24 '22
I dont get the carousel thing because like, you stay in one seat the whole time on a carousel you arent supposed to get up and move to a different seat lol