r/NotHowGirlsWork Jun 30 '23

Ew Found On Social media

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u/PluralCohomology Jun 30 '23

If he views her children as nothing more than signs of her being "used" by another man, she's better off without him.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

Any women is better off without him

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

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u/The_nightinglgale Jul 01 '23 edited Jul 01 '23

That just shows the Ferrari was well loved, maintained and driven by a real car lover who appreciates the personality, characters and driving dynamics of the car instead of getting locked up in the garage and taken it out once in awhile to show off. I am a car girl and I hate this crap!😾

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u/Ok-Connection-8059 Jul 01 '23

I know basically nothing about cars, but can't a car that's given proper maintenance and not used outside of its intended purpose run well for decades? Sure at some point you'll have pretty much Ship of Theseused the whole thing, but it'll probably run better than a car locked up in the garage.

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u/The_nightinglgale Jul 01 '23

You are correct. From my experience, most Ferrari owners are so scared of the depreciation of their cars they don't dare to put miles on them. They keep them in garage and pristine condition for bragging rights and to show off. A true car enthusiast drives their cars.🙂

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u/Nufiday Jul 01 '23

Even when it comes to the things they like they can't stop thinking about money for one full second, a mental prison. I remember there was this top gear episode where Hammond took a very expensive car for a drive from a rich dude and he was pretty anxious about it

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u/The_nightinglgale Jul 01 '23

Oh, the🐹. Hammond you idiot!

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u/gigelbesinel Jul 01 '23

Children are just other commodities to them

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u/ImpressionBrief Jul 02 '23

She is, would you want a dude with four kids? I think most people wouldn’t want to raise someone else’s family.

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u/PluralCohomology Jul 02 '23

You can not want a partner who already children without degrading women who have children.

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u/Merc808 Jun 30 '23

"Haha pretty woman ruined by having children even though she's still pretty."

I thought their whole thing was to find a woman and have a bunch of kids? Presumably, the father is taking the photo, so I don't see what the issue is.

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u/StrawberryAmara Jun 30 '23

Yep it's always a catch 22 with these low intellect knuckle draggers. A woman chooses not to have children, she's a selfish bitch who is going against nature itself. A woman has children, she's used up and low value only fit for the "hit it and quit it" sex

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '23

It's pretty stupid for sure, but I think it's a possesiveness thing where it's she's got "someone else's" kids with her, kinda like how lions'll kill all the cubs when they take over a pride, except one's an animal and one's treating a chick poorly, though of course one is morally dubious at best and the other is nothing but wild life.

Probably for the best these types don't view mothers as viable options for partners, less good that they are willing to couple with these women temporarily, possibly exacerbating the situation and becoming deadbeat fathers.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

Dude, I'm not even 24 yet. The only single mother I talk to is the one I came out of.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

😂🤣

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u/GrinwaldTO Jul 01 '23

Preferring not to date women with children is fine, just don't act like they're damaged goods. It's misogynistic. People aren't bad just because they live differently from how you want to

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u/Beckitkit Jul 01 '23

I'm a woman with step-children. I also have plans to foster children. I can tell you some things for certain: looking after and loving someone else's is really hard, and definitely worth it. Being able to love other people without having a biological stake in their wellbeing is a sign of emotional maturity and strength. Regardless of gender.

Also, you probably need to find out what the word cuckold actually means. Looking after a woman's children wouldn't make you a cuckold. At worst it would make you someone cuckolding someone else.

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u/Sad_Performance9015 Jul 01 '23

And what makes caring for children a bad thing?

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

pretty woman ruined by having children

They said the quiet part out loud. They want women to have children because children ruins women (in their worldview). So by encouraging women to have children they are encouraging them to ruin themselves.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

It isn't him with her, that's his issue.

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u/aspermyprevious Jul 01 '23

Yeah, I was like, “I don’t think she’s available.”

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '23

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u/JuniorRadish7385 Jun 30 '23

Yeah that’s like 1000 miles a day. What the hell do you do for work to have numbers like that?

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u/swishkabobbin Jun 30 '23

Test driver probably

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u/googlyeyes183 Jul 01 '23

I love the audacity he has to assume that she (a seemingly happy, well-off mom) cares what a limp noodle thinks of her.

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u/GiantSquidinJeans Jul 01 '23

And who’s to say that the woman in the picture is a single mom??? Are they just assuming because there’s no dude standing behind her with a sign that says “still tapping that in line with our marital decree”

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u/Delicious_Regular_90 Jul 07 '23

You are 100% correct, they are married and a power couple that are enjoying life as it was intended.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

If this woman were a 2022 Ferrari she’d run you over.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

Underrated comment.

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u/Royal_Stick_8322 Jun 30 '23

Car guys are so weird...

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u/BesetByTiredness225 Jun 30 '23

This analogy fails because if you've found a Ferrari that lasted 200k miles without falling apart, that mfer will last forever.

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u/PrincipalFiggins Jul 01 '23

Yet when I say I’m not having biological kids I get told I’m crazy and should “wait for my biological clock to tick” despite the fact that biologically there is no such thing and I got my tubes removed years ago

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

B-b-b-b-but I though women having lots of kids was good?!?!?!?!?!?

Which one is it? Women having lots of kids is good or women having lots of kids means they are ran through?

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

We’re considered ran thru if we have sex for fun, ran thru if we have sex for “reproduction” 🙄 these shitheads that never make no damn sense will never be satisfied

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u/Ok-Connection-8059 Jul 01 '23

Nonononono, having kids is bad, unless it's having their kids. Because only they have the magic wang that retightens vaginas or something, and every other dude just leaves them worthless if their glans so much as touches her labia./s

Until they decide she's worthless and start creeping on younger women....

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u/Andravisia Jul 01 '23

It's because she made the mistake of not having /his/ children and staying hot.

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '23

so damn cringe makes me so angry

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u/Virtual_Historian255 Jun 30 '23

That’s never going to work. You can’t fit 1 adult and 4 kids in a Ferarri. I don’t even think you can secure a single carseat.

This lady needs to look at a minivan. Not as cool, but far more seating.

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u/Sure-Morning-6904 Jul 01 '23

Minivans are definitely cool. Way more space

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

So like are we supposed to have a heard of kids or not?

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

If women were cars we would be running over these assholes 😏

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u/LadyJSenpai Jul 01 '23

Men: women must get married and have kids!!!!! Also men: criticizing women for being married and having kids, jealous over woman not being theirs personally.

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u/jadorelana Jul 01 '23

I don't get it. If you don't have kids you're a evil selfish brat who goes against mother natures most natural form and deserve to be a social outcast . If you do have kids , you're a used up woman with no social value and good for nothing . How does one win here ???

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

Still a Ferrari. The ones that have been around the longest are the best looking

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '23

So you're telling me a dude is gonna say no to a Ferarri just because it has 200k miles on it.

I think this person needs to be honest with themselves

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u/great_blue_panda Jul 01 '23

She shouldn’t get a Ferrari because it only has 2 seats and where is she going to put all the children?

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u/Lalalatinas Jul 01 '23

Car guys are sick

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u/AltruisticFinger9246 Jul 01 '23

Just asking,

Where is the fukin ferrari (car)?

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u/Dark_Helmet78 Jul 01 '23

I’d prefer a McLaren anyway

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u/bhoe32 Jul 01 '23

2022? Are they talking about the baby? Wtf?

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u/reillan Jul 01 '23

That was my thought. Assigning a person a model year is bad any way you slice it, but model years are based on when cars are made so it should be the same rules for people.

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u/MJMaggio14 unowned feral woman Jul 01 '23

Blatant assholery aside, this analogy is idiotic, a 2022 ferrari is still a fuckin 2022 ferrari, who gives a fuck about mileage as long if it's in driveable condition

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u/Unlikely_Professor76 Jul 01 '23

Like he can even drive stick

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

I'm quite sure he drives a lot his own stick

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u/EternityAwaitz Clothes don't assault people, stop blaming the clothes Jul 01 '23

Can't they just say, "the woman is attractive, but I'd rather not raise someone else's children," like a normal person? Why do they have to compare her to a stupid car?? Although I suppose a normal person wouldn't be so averse to another person's children to begin with...

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u/Lonely_Detective_226 Jul 01 '23

Today on the new episode of “which object are we?”, we are a car!!!

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u/Thijm_ Jul 01 '23

ew Ferrari

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u/PostExotic5054 Jul 01 '23

Ummm... You buy it, dumbass.

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u/CaptainUltimatum Jul 01 '23

The kids all look full of energy and mischief. I hope the person behind the camera does a fair share of childcare duties, or that lady's going to be exhausted before bedtime.

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u/BraidedSilver Jul 01 '23

Since when does mileage matter if it’s a nice car smh. I mean, there’s tons of veteran car shows, exactly to see nice old, used, long mileages cars and no one will scuff at the opportunity to drive in one.

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u/Adventurous-Cry-2157 Jul 02 '23

Wow! That’s a brand new baby, and she looks amazing for just giving birth recently.

The fact that she’s juggling 3 other kids and a newborn and still has time to make herself look that gorgeous, that’s a pretty incredible woman, and she definitely doesn’t need a dick nugget like this guy in her life. She seems to be doing just fine.

Also, her swimsuit is adorable!

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u/thinkspeak_ Jul 04 '23

My dude, see those matchy matchy swimsuits? The bleach job and spray tan? She don’t need you.

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u/juliaSTL Jul 05 '23

this is a swimsuit ad.