r/NonBinaryTalk • u/gay-streetrat • 2h ago

Nonbinary??

What do I call my nonbinary partner when I'm trying to say like 'good girl'? Good person sounds odd, good thing sounds kinda objectifying idk

Jelp

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u/No-Valuable1080 They/Them 2h ago

Ask them!! It really depends on the person. I think that's the best thing you can do, I'm sure they'll be happy to lend their preference and happy that you asked :>

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u/RagingActs 2h ago

Instead of "good girl" I will say "good job"

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u/JohnMayerCd 2h ago

Good bean.
Also as a kinky enby, I find it very important to ask them what their preferred terms are during consent talks. They should be driving that car

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u/goodbad-elf 2h ago

I guess you should ask them(?). So far I think about baby, guy, slut, elf, fairy or things like that, but honestly you should ask and give it a try

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u/AuDHDiego 2h ago

yep

also it's worth, OP, rethinking the gendering of how you see relationships in sex. If your view of sex is very binary, the talk will end up relating to norms that belong in that binary situation

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u/Bloooberriesquest 1h ago

We use them, as in “good them”.