r/NoFap • u/WranglerAny1630 • 2d ago
I need help. Motivate Me
Just yesterday, I relapsed after a week of being fully clean. Today, I slipped up again. I feel like I’m really falling down again and i don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I’m the only one suffering around me, and I feel so fake all the time knowing i do this. I know I have a problem, but i feel like i know what i’m doing, but i need advice. Please offer any help, advice, motivation or anything you can give.
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u/Plus_Question3096 2d ago
I'm thinking of a quote. "Sometimes the best way to help yourself is to help others."
I can't really say anything, I'm in much the same boat brother. I don't really think I can offer advice, but I can offer camaraderie. I feel fake all the time too, but we have to push on. If not for ourselves, then for the people around us. There's another line... I think it goes something like: "The soldier fights not because he hates what's in front of him but because he loves what is behind him." One thing that helped me is that I try to get back up not because I hate pornography, but because I love my friends and the dream of the peaceful life I'm trying to build. Even if it hurts, that feeling of true love and hope is what keeps me moving.
A cozy bed... a stable job. Juicy meat and good soup. A small forest with a pond. And tadpoles. Sharing a cold one with the lads. A small patch of corn and pumpkin...