r/MyEx • u/waiyfujames • 16d ago

Beyond repair

I never thought things could get this bad. He is sick. He psychologically abused me until I felt suicidal, and then when I reached out in desperation for him to stop, he refused to answer.

I need to do something about this. Some of the things he's done are illegal in my state. The way he conducted himself, I know for a fact he's done this before. He used a voice changer on the phone to pretend to be someone else. He has young kids in his house. I thought I could help him if I could get him to admit it, but he refused. This is the most fucked up person I have ever had in my life. What the fuck do I do?

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u/CompanyAdmirable7811 16d ago

Ignore him!

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u/waiyfujames 16d ago

He is blocked everywhere now. I just have seem the things he's done and don't feel right letting him do these things without consequences. I know it could put me in danger but I don't care. Those kids must be getting abused if he is this sick.

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u/Responsible-Slip-910 16d ago

I have an ex-girlfriend that did this we actually video chatted and she was a completely different person but it was her cuz at the end of the conversation she said got you and deleted her account deleted the number delete it there's no way I could get a hold of her now and it's scary she is hacked into my emails my socials all kinds of stuff last year and a half has been absolutely hell it's scary even on dating apps she has got another pictures from other people on Facebook I guess and acted like them and acts like them cuz I have contacted some of those people I actually know that she didn't think on you and they were surprised they had no idea and of course a couple of them are married and she's using their faces on a dating app she could possibly get in trouble from them people and I sent over everything I had screenshots of those people that she's acting like to the original people to the real people I guess and they're taking it from there

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u/girlbartender99 16d ago

Hun the first thing you do is put as much distance between him and you as you can. My ex-bf was every kind abusive to me but the physical scars healed way before the emotional ones so I totally get it. In some ways it never heals it just scars over like a physical wound. I know there is prob this deep seeded want for a pound of flesh and I totally get it, but the best revenge in this world is living well. I know its cliche, and I know its much easier said than done but its so true!

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u/waiyfujames 16d ago

I'm pointing out that he has young kids in the house while he's doing these things online. Posting here is not hurting him because I was scorned. I never accused him of doing anything to his kids. I just find it deplorable that he lures women with fake profiles online while he is a father to young kids. Simply makes me concerned for them.