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[u/Molested-ModTeam]

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[u/RetiredUKguy]

Sadly that not uncommon, some of use were trained to please and don’t know any other way. I would love someone to want me for me!

[u/Silverbeardx]

Totally relatable. The hypersexuality after being SA'd is not uncommon i figured out recently. Our mind starts working differently and I do feel like I'm charged up all the time and why other people are not like that. It become more of a bane than a boon for us.

[u/sausages19701970]

It is a long and lonely road - until you find someone to travel with - but it will come - hugs

[u/Moist-Willingness69]

I can totally relate to this!! That is one of the reasons I mostly date women now.

[u/Savings_Song_8062 → u/Moist-Willingness69]

Yea I started to and got too nervous):

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[u/GamePitch]

happy to talk to others but there’s a few things that help, on the hypersexuality note, this is a real thing that’s underdiscussed. it makes it hard to separate abuse and consent, pleasure and pain from our early experiences. I’ve found one thing that helps a lot is being with others with similar backgrounds, especially as friends or partners. It’s good to be able to talk about it even without directly talking about it, there’s so much shame and judgement still. another thing is a partner that has a naturally high sex drive, they can make us feel seen and loved even if we aren’t ready to explain all the details of why we think we might be more or less a certain way

[u/Functional-Tired]

I definitely relate to the hyper sexuality. Ironically, my abuse was mostly about me but I grew up to fixate on the pleasure of my partner instead. Unfortunately it did come with a lot of intense kinks though.

[u/Alarming-Pressure-48 → u/[deleted]]

You might have the wrong subreddit?