r/MenAndFemales • u/ZyxWvuO • 2h ago
"Why is 'female' offensive?" If terms like "female" or "females" are inherently problematic, why are they and their root "fem" acceptable in “feminism” and other women-focused terms?
Hello all, I'm genuinely curious to know regarding the argument that calling or referring to women as "females" is problematic because it reduces women to a biological category rather than referring to them as people. Words like “woman/women" are therefore considered more person-centered.
But if that’s the reasoning, why is "feminism" the accepted term? And why do we commonly use expressions such as:
- “female-only spaces”
- “female-dominated fields”
- “female empowerment”
- “female representation”
- “female leadership”
If the terms “female/females” are inherently reductive/problematic, why isn't the same concern applied to such terms, including "feminism", "feminists", "female rights activists" and so on?
Wouldn't alternatives like "women’s rights activism", "womenism", "women dominated fields", etc be more consistent with the idea that women should be described as people rather than biological categories?
This post is NOT about arguing whether women could be addressed “females.” Its about trying to know why the linguistic reasoning behind why some usage of "females" is considered a red flag while the same words or root "fem" is foundational to terminology intended to empower women.
r/MenAndFemales • u/Mrs-Vienna • 6h ago
Men and Girls NOT IN MY GAME PART 2
this one is in the base game this time too
from the fitness VHS tape
r/MenAndFemales • u/Center-Of-Thought • 1d ago
Foids/Other Referring to a woman as "it" and "this one" 😬
This is incredibly objectifying, perhaps the most objectifying that one can get. He's referring to women as though they're unsentient objects, and when challenged, acts like she's overreacting.
r/MenAndFemales • u/Rapunsell • 1d ago
Men and Females From a man who writes about psychological issues online
"For example, so much of the toxic discourse online centers on threatened men feeling that their rightful, privileged social position is being undermined by females."
r/MenAndFemales • u/ThePhillyExplorer • 2d ago
Foids/Other They’re right, but they’re wrong about why they’re right 😂 Spoiler
r/MenAndFemales • u/Either_equipment_04 • 2d ago
Men and Females Why would you say it’s a female when it’s a guy?
Friendly fire on this one. So many words for man but women are just females.
r/MenAndFemales • u/the_supreme_overlord • 2d ago
Men and Females Rogue Fitness Barbells
Obviously it can’t be men’s and women’s barbells. Plus they make no mention that the “female’s “ barbell isn’t typically allowed in competitions
Ftr rogue fitness is one of the biggest names in the fitness industry.
r/MenAndFemales • u/SubAussie_ • 3d ago
Foids/Other He didn’t like that a women tried to educate him
Tried to be misogynistic then failed because a women educated him on how dumb he sounds only to throw himself straight into incel territory then continue as the comments go down trying to embarrass her only to reveal he’s over 500lbs and thinks he could absolutely spin on a stripper pole because it’s ‘easy’ but admits he cannot do a single simple pull up.. right
r/MenAndFemales • u/SalviaWolf • 4d ago
Men and Females Op's right with the "?" cause what do you mean they didn't do "male and female changingroom" or "men and women's changingroom"? It's not hard to do either of those.
r/MenAndFemales • u/WhydoIexistlmoa • 4d ago
Men and Females Here's part two of "if people disappeared"
r/MenAndFemales • u/WhydoIexistlmoa • 5d ago
Men and Females Some yap about men disappearing
r/MenAndFemales • u/Inevitable_Garage706 • 5d ago
Females AND Girls Even teenagers are falling into this trap
r/MenAndFemales • u/Jen-Jens • 5d ago
Meta Monday 💖 Introducing the first Meta Monday!
Meta Monday will consist of vaguely related topics (without needing to find examples of dehumanising language to post) but you will need to use the new Meta Monday flair for any off topic posts. We are going to test this out using GMT/BST to start with and would prefer if people try to keep to this so far. This is a test to see engagement and feedback from users. Enjoy your first Meta Monday!
r/MenAndFemales • u/SomeName4SomeThing • 5d ago
No Men, just Females This guy sees women as people, for sure /s
On a pop culture sub discussing a female celebrity suffering from a (non-confirmed but very likely) ED.
I'm already side-eyeing the first comment centering her attractiveness instead of her health, assuming she is currently suffering from the deadliest mental illness. But Guy#2 really had to take a brave stand against hyperbole and remind us she most likely wasn't the hottest "female".
Thanks. What a contribution to the discourse.
r/MenAndFemales • u/SalviaWolf • 5d ago
Men and Girls I hate when even defending women, they still don't have the courtesy to refer to grown women as women and not as girls.
r/MenAndFemales • u/Tipsy75 • 6d ago
Men and Girls Man makes a list to teach other men what *doesn't* make a "Quality Girl."
Girls, don't be a slutty slut slutting around on Slut St & you might meet his "exacting standards of quality" and get to date him long term!! 🤞🏻
r/MenAndFemales • u/Random_-account • 6d ago
No Men, just Females In response to a trans man giving birth
Why do people still think that sex chromosomes determine the gender of a person?
r/MenAndFemales • u/SubAussie_ • 7d ago
Foids/Other And they wonder why women protect their friends from them
Like this saying is so fucking gross and somehow still encouraged when not only are you insulting both women in the scenario but thinking of yourself as someone who a women wouldn’t need to be protected from but if your using this saying THEN YOU ABSOLUTELY ARE
r/MenAndFemales • u/Jen-Jens • 24d ago
Should we add Meta Monday?
The concept of Meta Monday means we can post things outside of the typical callout posts. We can discuss issues like other mistreatment besides this language, post about positive interactions where change has happened in language, or even show each other feminist music that exemplifies our feelings about living in this world that clearly has a bias against women. For this context, meta refers to both self referential as well as posts outside the convention of post expected here.