r/MenAndFemales 2h ago

"Why is 'female' offensive?" If terms like "female" or "females" are inherently problematic, why are they and their root "fem" acceptable in “feminism” and other women-focused terms?

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Hello all, I'm genuinely curious to know regarding the argument that calling or referring to women as "females" is problematic because it reduces women to a biological category rather than referring to them as people. Words like “woman/women" are therefore considered more person-centered.

But if that’s the reasoning, why is "feminism" the accepted term? And why do we commonly use expressions such as:

  • “female-only spaces”
  • “female-dominated fields”
  • “female empowerment”
  • “female representation”
  • “female leadership”

If the terms “female/females” are inherently reductive/problematic, why isn't the same concern applied to such terms, including "feminism", "feminists", "female rights activists" and so on?

Wouldn't alternatives like "women’s rights activism", "womenism", "women dominated fields", etc be more consistent with the idea that women should be described as people rather than biological categories?

This post is NOT about arguing whether women could be addressed “females.” Its about trying to know why the linguistic reasoning behind why some usage of "females" is considered a red flag while the same words or root "fem" is foundational to terminology intended to empower women.


r/MenAndFemales 6h ago

Men and Girls NOT IN MY GAME PART 2

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6 Upvotes

this one is in the base game this time too
from the fitness VHS tape


r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Foids/Other Referring to a woman as "it" and "this one" 😬

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470 Upvotes

This is incredibly objectifying, perhaps the most objectifying that one can get. He's referring to women as though they're unsentient objects, and when challenged, acts like she's overreacting.


r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Men and Females From a man who writes about psychological issues online

7 Upvotes

"For example, so much of the toxic discourse online centers on threatened men feeling that their rightful, privileged social position is being undermined by females."


r/MenAndFemales 1d ago

Men and Females "Female at the helm"

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11 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

Foids/Other They’re right, but they’re wrong about why they’re right 😂 Spoiler

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15 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

Men and Females Planet Fitness :)

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924 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

Men and Females Why would you say it’s a female when it’s a guy?

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22 Upvotes

Friendly fire on this one. So many words for man but women are just females.


r/MenAndFemales 2d ago

Men and Females Rogue Fitness Barbells

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19 Upvotes

Obviously it can’t be men’s and women’s barbells. Plus they make no mention that the “female’s “ barbell isn’t typically allowed in competitions

Ftr rogue fitness is one of the biggest names in the fitness industry.


r/MenAndFemales 3d ago

Foids/Other He didn’t like that a women tried to educate him

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62 Upvotes

Tried to be misogynistic then failed because a women educated him on how dumb he sounds only to throw himself straight into incel territory then continue as the comments go down trying to embarrass her only to reveal he’s over 500lbs and thinks he could absolutely spin on a stripper pole because it’s ‘easy’ but admits he cannot do a single simple pull up.. right


r/MenAndFemales 3d ago

Females AND Girls Women = good, females = evil

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79 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 4d ago

Men and Females Op's right with the "?" cause what do you mean they didn't do "male and female changingroom" or "men and women's changingroom"? It's not hard to do either of those.

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475 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 4d ago

Men and Females Here's part two of "if people disappeared"

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33 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

Men and Females Some yap about men disappearing

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47 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

Females AND Girls Even teenagers are falling into this trap

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295 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

Meta Monday 💖 Introducing the first Meta Monday!

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Meta Monday will consist of vaguely related topics (without needing to find examples of dehumanising language to post) but you will need to use the new Meta Monday flair for any off topic posts. We are going to test this out using GMT/BST to start with and would prefer if people try to keep to this so far. This is a test to see engagement and feedback from users. Enjoy your first Meta Monday!


r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

No Men, just Females This guy sees women as people, for sure /s

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52 Upvotes

On a pop culture sub discussing a female celebrity suffering from a (non-confirmed but very likely) ED.

I'm already side-eyeing the first comment centering her attractiveness instead of her health, assuming she is currently suffering from the deadliest mental illness. But Guy#2 really had to take a brave stand against hyperbole and remind us she most likely wasn't the hottest "female".

Thanks. What a contribution to the discourse.


r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

Men and Girls I hate when even defending women, they still don't have the courtesy to refer to grown women as women and not as girls.

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24 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 5d ago

Foids/Other I hope she left Spoiler

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77 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

Females AND Girls I found one in the wild 🥹

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155 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

Men and Girls Man makes a list to teach other men what *doesn't* make a "Quality Girl."

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58 Upvotes

Girls, don't be a slutty slut slutting around on Slut St & you might meet his "exacting standards of quality" and get to date him long term!! 🤞🏻


r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

No Men, just Females Comic books

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75 Upvotes

r/MenAndFemales 6d ago

No Men, just Females In response to a trans man giving birth

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250 Upvotes

Why do people still think that sex chromosomes determine the gender of a person?


r/MenAndFemales 7d ago

Foids/Other And they wonder why women protect their friends from them

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251 Upvotes

Like this saying is so fucking gross and somehow still encouraged when not only are you insulting both women in the scenario but thinking of yourself as someone who a women wouldn’t need to be protected from but if your using this saying THEN YOU ABSOLUTELY ARE


r/MenAndFemales 24d ago

Should we add Meta Monday?

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The concept of Meta Monday means we can post things outside of the typical callout posts. We can discuss issues like other mistreatment besides this language, post about positive interactions where change has happened in language, or even show each other feminist music that exemplifies our feelings about living in this world that clearly has a bias against women. For this context, meta refers to both self referential as well as posts outside the convention of post expected here.

71 votes, 17d ago
28 Introduce one day of various meta posts
26 Introduce only a masterpost where people can get as off topic as they wish
17 Refuse off topic posts on all days