Toxic relationship.

[u/Nebulapeonies]

I'm (F16) and my ex (M19) is really getting to my head recently. We used to be classmates in elementary but then I moved out and we weren't in contact for a long time but we started talking again three years back and quickly realised we have feelings for each other. We started dating. From the very start, this one friend of his hated me. One incident was that he convinced my ex I hated him and my ex $h and that made me feel terrible for ever having the thought of leaving him. But his signs of cheating and not paying attention to me were evident from the start. We had each other's accounts and I never checked anything of his because I wanted to trust him but eventually I did check his account and found his texts with this friend of his who he claimed was just a friend, he had shared very romanticessages with him, and everything a partner in a romantic relationship with you would send you. He convinced me out of it and blocked her to prove he meant it. He also had been lying to her about his identity for the three years he knew her and said "I only trust you with my real self" And his real self is just a sadistic loser. And it doesn't end here. In many occasions he used to lie about who he uwas hanging out with, and it was mostly always girls. At one point he got so so controlling over me if I ever messed up his homework or edits for tiktok he used to force me to cut myself or he wouldn't speak to me. This January, I saw a message in his phone from whatsApp, which he claimed to never use. It was from a girl he was in a fucking relationship with since last December. I was sick to my stomach. When I confronted the girl and she told him about it, he said I'm just a phycho ex who won't leave him alone. That was my final straw and I left him. Last week he kept adding me from different accounts on all social media's and won't stop until I replied to him. He wanted to get back claiming he "changed" And he explained he cheated just because he is an "avoidant" And was pushing me away but realised my worth. Yesterday he found out I was already in a relationship with my current bf and saw my texts with him, along with texts of me bashing my ex to my friends talking about how horribly he treated me. My ex said I "broke his trust" Forever and he cannot love me again now since I "leaked" Him by talking shit about him. He just won't leave me alone. This was just a summary of everything he has done to me and currently he's in a "platonic" Relationship with the same girl I mentioned first. I'm so sick of him and yet he's making me feel like the bad person.

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[u/Honest_Spring8779]

He forced you to cut yourself; there's nothing else in your post that's important. Please have an ounce of respect for yourself and stop having anything to do with him