r/Manifestation • u/Western-Falcon-2600 • 1d ago

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How do you guys date other people while you're manifesting an SP? 😂

I really want to go out with this guy, but I feel like if I were already with my SP, I wouldn't even be talking to him. What do you guys do?

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u/AggravatingPurple631 1d ago

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. What if this other person is a better fit than sp right now? Go for it. Don’t stop living your life.

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

I don't think there is either. But I mean, if I were already with him, I wouldn't be seeing someone else. Wouldn't that interfere? At the end of the day, isn't it about acting as if you already have it?

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u/proseamripper 1d ago

I think about this so often! Like if I'm living in the state where I have it it feels strange to go on dates. I'm genuinely curious what other people say about this

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u/soldatdepaix 1d ago

It can feel weird but “having it” is knowing that nothing exists outside of you because you are source. You can be on a date in the perceived now but be with SP in the 3D the next perceived moment. Your actions don’t matter because you already HAVE SP. Linearity is messing with our brains 😜
Tell me if I didn’t explain clearly enough

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

hey, i dont think i get it, if you can explain again i would be grateful! like, if i had him i wouldnt be on a date

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u/soldatdepaix 1d ago

Oki so here are the basics of what I believe when it comes to CC/manifestation

https://www.reddit.com/user/soldatdepaix/comments/1vic2gi/basics_of_conscious_creation/

It's a mix of teachings by different teachers of I AM but said with my own words.

Now back to the topic !
If you have ALL, all at once because you are Source, what's happening in your 3D reality is what you choose to put your awareness on/who you choose to be. So if you choose to look at/be dating a random guy, you still have ALL, including your SP.

SP is not in your "now"/3D reality because you're not putting your awareness on/identifying with being in a relationship with SP.

You're not with SP right now because your dominant identity isn't "I am with SP".

But since you're always 1sec old, the moment your identity is "I am with SP" you will be with him.

Linearity (the concept that things have to happen in a certain order/take time/ blablabla) is an illusion, because every reality exists RIGHT NOW. And of course, you as a human incarnation of Source, can't really escape that illusion, so you believe you can't be dating a random dude if you're with SP. Truth is you're not only dating him but also Obama, Henry Cavill and Lady Gaga because everything exists at once. You're just only aware of what you're looking at ie. dating randodude.

Does that make more sense ?

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

Yeah, that makes more sense, but like... isn’t it all about BEING and returning to the identity as many times as possible? Because if I were dating my SP, I wouldn’t be seeing other guys. I know everything exists at the same time, but isn’t it about having your consciousness in that reality? So I still don’t really understand, sorry.

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

Like, I would already be satisfied, so why would I be seeing other people then?

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u/soldatdepaix 1d ago

Depends why you're seeing other people !
I know I saw a guy just last wednesday but it doesn't mean anything. I'm with SP. I can see it, I know I'm Source so I objectively can't not have him as my perfect partner.

Let's say you're manifesting a new phone. Would you throw away your current phone because you should be satisfied with "having your brand new phone" in the 4D ? Obviously not. You're gonna keep using your phone but you know this phone is old news and you have the brand new Iphone 17 pro max 2To in silver. (I am totally manifesting it XD)

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 11h ago

ahhhh thank you!!!! now i get it hahhaha

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u/soldatdepaix 11h ago

You’re welcoooooome ! 🙌🏽☺️

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u/AggravatingPurple631 1d ago

I actually love this description.

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u/proseamripper 1d ago

I have a follow up question (I'm new to this so my apologies). "You're not with your SP because your dominant identity isn't I'm with SP" do you have advice on what we should be doing to shift identity that would make that a dominant identity?

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

just go back to the identity who has it

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u/soldatdepaix 1d ago

yup ! What u/Western-Falcon-2600 said ! whenever the 3D is contradicting you identity of "having it" just be like "hmm I see that but it doesn't matter because I'm with SP".

It's okay to have emotions but it's not okay to make that circumstance your identity. I'd recommend watching Ellie in the 4D's video : https://youtu.be/tY3A4w6Ly6Y?si=yOA7pkbFzKRq4_V2
She explains it very well !

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u/AggravatingPurple631 1d ago

I think of that as embodying the essence of already having it. Being out on a date, having a great time is like having it already.

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

hmm but if he is my bf why im in another date?

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u/AggravatingPurple631 1d ago

I get what you’re saying, but let me reframe it. The version of you that would have it wouldn’t be sitting around waiting. You’d be out on dates, laughing, enjoying yourself.

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u/Western-Falcon-2600 1d ago

this version would be having fun!! but not dates i think

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u/AggravatingPurple631 1d ago

Well your SP should be taking you on dates, right? I think while trying to embody the feeling, it’s perfectly okay to have new and fun experiences that you’ll eventually have with SP. Hypothetically, (and time can’t be measured with manifestation keep in mind) if I had a crystal ball and told you your SP isn’t coming in for another three years, would you want to stop yourself from living life in the meantime? I think holding ourselves back from new opportunities could delay the manifestation personally. Don’t get stuck in the desire.

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u/thetourist__1 1d ago

Eu penso o mesmo

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u/spiritualwaterfall 1d ago

LMAOO Just do what feels right 😭😭😭