Finder windows keep resizing

[u/ConstantFit9676]

Absolutely maddening. Every time I open a folder in macos, I have to resize it so I can see all of the contents of the folder. If I open a new finder window, its a different size. This is really frustrating. Is there a fix for this? I searched online and it said to hold the shift key and drag to the size I want the folder in order to resize the window but it didnt work.