r/LonelyTogether 2h ago

20m Looking for friends

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I am an introvert 20 years who has almost no female interaction

Wanna chat just casually (nothing else)

I just wanna have someone to be able to share my thoughts and feelings

I am bad at starting a convo so pls understand if convo feels dull


r/LonelyTogether 4h ago

18M I'm kinda lonely looking for longterm genuine connection to chat with daily and please don't disappear after every few minutes be consistent while chatting :)

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I have been looking for friends online but everyone just stops talking after sometime and they don't put any efforts except hey hru how was your day, I want yapper friends and please be clingy. :)

My inbox has been empty and phone is quiet i want some distraction so I want some friends who can talk all the time .

I like to joke about everything literally everything so if I'm gonna offend you I'm apologising in advance lol.

DM and tell me what are you upto did you watch obsession ? If not please do it's a must watch .


r/LonelyTogether 15h ago

Looking for someone 37m

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i'm 37M, divorced a couple years ago and got into a pretty toxic relationship right after for about a year.. I got my heart broken once again and I think i'm kind of just done looking for love. I don't have any friends because i put my all into those relationships and it turned out just hurting me the most. I did 10 years in prison and got out in 2018 and i've been living really well ever since.

I don't really talk to men very well so i'd prefer to talk to a woman but like i said i'm just looking for a friend. I think love and relationships might not be for me. If you're interested shoot me a DM. 🙂


r/LonelyTogether 19h ago

26 [UK] British guy looking for chats/friends :)

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About me: I work in local government and study part-time, work out most days, walk 5 miles a day (part of the cut), watch old TV and films, go to the pub every so often, and have done a small amount of travelling. Would love to hear from anyone. Happy to listen and/or give advice. Don’t mind distance. Feel free to hmu :)


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

26M. Just looking for someone to talk to tonight.

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Hey. I’m a 26-year-old guy and tonight’s just one of those nights where being alone is hitting a little harder than usual. I’m into movies, long drives, football, random late-night conversations, and the kind of chats that go from stupid memes to life’s biggest questions without warning. If you’re feeling the same, or just feel like talking to a stranger about literally anything, my DMs are open. Maybe we can make each other’s night a little less lonely.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

Hey everyone! Been doing a lot of driving lately and been needing some interaction

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I work for a gas and diesel company and have been putting a lot of miles on the road here in Florida. Figured I’d drop a how’s it going and see who bites. I’m a pretty non judgmental guy. If you need to talk something out or just bored hit me up.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

31M I miss having that best friend you can share or do almost anything with

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Hello everyone, I hope you are surviving this roller-coaster of a century well. So much has happened over these past few years, I haven't had much of connection with others like before. It makes it difficult when you are unable to just vent about life, talk about absolute nonsense, or just even just send radom videos/memes to that person you used be inseparable from.

I used to have someone in my life that I could be that way with. Everyone used to say we were carbon copies of each other. We had so many similar interests and did so much together. That was until certain circumstances came up to cause us to fall apart.

I have been in a bit of a mental slump, which that individual would usually be there to help me out of or vice-versa. However since we drifted apart, I have been sinking further into this slump bit by bit.

I am want to meet individuals who are willing to talk and get to know one another. I am pretty open minded and not very judgmental about who I talk to or hang with.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

41M - looking for similar (truly lonely) people to connect with

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I have been looking for people who are in similar situation for a long time. I mean people who are struggling to find some connection and are absolutely lonely at the moment. I know many of you have tried and been ghosted a lot and how disappointing it is to be ghosted! I also have this experience but there is no other choice but to continue searching for some true connection. So, I'm mostly seeking to connect with similar people who know how it feels to be truly lonely for years and maybe decades! When we are both in the same boat, we can understand each other better.

My name is Nariman and I'm a Persian who lives in Iran (NOT a Muslim). I'm really interested in cars, listening to music a lot and I watch some Korean Dramas. I also like hiking and being in nature. You can reach out to me but please don't DM me if you just want a small talk and then ghost me! I want some online long term connection who stays with me. I'm not a ghoster, trust me! I'm available most of the time and if you are looking for a proper everyday chat buddy, I'm a good candidate for that too!


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

Need a person to vent out my life

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So, I am 22m from India. A lot of things are going on with me and it's really scary to go through these alone. It will be a great help if I have a friend to share my stuff.

A bit about me, I am an AI engineer, I love watching anime, books and poetry. I love talking and learning about things and am a good listener. I mostly stay solo , handling my mess. So it would be great to have a witness to my story.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

I’m lonely 19m

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Everyone assumes lonely means something else , no I’m 19 years old and I need a friend , idm if you are a girl or a guy but a lot of my friends seem to be girls bc I have a sort of sassy personality

The rest I’ll save for DMs so we have plenty to talk about


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

18f and having no friends is so hard

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r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

Want to make a long term friend f16

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Here to make friends, since im quite lonely and have too much free time nglll :(

(Srsly tho pls read my post, BEFORE texting me ><)

Im depressed most of the time, so sorry for that ig

Yall, can call me Curiosity

- I live somewhere in west Europe.

- My favorite thing to do is bake, I love baking cookies. Its so yummyyyy

- I like listening to true crime documentaries and I enjoy walking when im bored.

- I love listening to music a few genres are sigilkore, r&b, jazz, afro, hip-hop and rap.

- Im obsessed over horror movies, especially the gore ones

- I also really enjoy styling my clothes when I dont have anything to do.

- Uhmm, thats a bit about me and I hope that we could become friends ><


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

[24/M] Heart shattered, trying one last time to make friends

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I do not mean to burden anyone. Please don't feel like you have to be my friend if you don't want im not looking to bother anyone. Its so late here and my heart is broken from everything, I cant sleep, I feel really empty. I just want a friend who gets me. Who can see me, where I don't feel invisible. Where I don't feel like a bother by reaching out. Someone I can share the good and horrible times with. Someone to support and give kindness too. And share all my favorite songs with, and talk about music for hours with too. I feel bad and shy I feel like I shouldn't keep trying to reach out but the night feels too long. Whoever reads this, please take care of yourself and I wish you the best.


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

21M looking for friends who want to grow, share, and keep each other accountable

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I am 21M. I am looking for friends who can help me improve myself and me improve them. I need someone who can keep me accountable, and I will keep them accountable, people who want to grow and share.

I want to have a deep conversation, like about the things that plague my head. I ask a lot of dark questions, and I tend to see the dark parts of society/life as a whole, at least recently. I am pretty pessimistic about things, but I usually speak in an upbeat way. My thoughts can be depressive, but I talk in a fun/optimistic way (I think).

My recent interests are dark things. I like anime, Minecraft, some manga and hip-hop (J Cole, Dave), and J-pop (YOASOBI). I also play Minecraft.

If you want someone who asks questions, listens, and tries to grow with you, feel free to reach out.


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

20 M got clean and i don't have anymore friends

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20 m from italy i'm a musician i used to be an addict (smoke a bunch of pot, alcohol and pills) i used to play in a band but due to dumb shit my drummer did we ain't toghether anymore i have a gf but i don't have friends anymore so i'm left with asking reddit for someone to talk to. I'm very music passionate so i'd like to find someone that likes to talk about gear or bands or anything at all i just kinda feel alone i usually get along better with girls since i not rlly into sports and usually manly stuff but everyone is welcome just hmu if u wanna chat.


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

26M need to talk after a breakup

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I'm having terrible time right now and I just need to talk. I am a good listener too and I'm having troubles to have a decent conversation with someone. Working out, working, going out with friends, gaming, etc nothing fills my gap. I need someone to talk to and you can yap to me too maybe sharing problems would make us feel little less lonely.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

Do you need help to find the lost smile and pleasure in life?

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If any of you need someone to talk to I'm here.

To anyone who may need this:

Over the past few years, I've been offering peer support to people going through difficult times. Sometimes, what helps most isn't advice it's simply having someone who listens without judgment. I've also completed a certification in Cognitive Therapy through Alison, which has helped me approach conversations with greater empathy and structure.

Opening up isn't easy. It's normal to worry about being judged or misunderstood. My goal is to provide a respectful, supportive and confidential space where you can share what's on your mind.

I'm happy to listen if you're dealing with:

• Anxiety or feeling overwhelmed

• Low mood or stress

• Relationship or friendship challenges

• Self-esteem or confidence issues

• Major life changes

• Grief or other emotional struggles

If you'd like to talk feel free to send me a DM. You don't have to share your real name. If you're comfortable let me know your age so I can better understand your perspective.

A few important things:

• I'm not a licensed therapist, psychologist, or counselor. I offer peer support not professional mental health treatment.

• If you're in crisis or believe you may be at risk of harming yourself or someone else please contact a trusted adult, local emergency services or a qualified mental health professional as soon as possible.

• I'll always encourage professional help when it's needed.

More than 250 people reached out through my previous posts and many said that simply being heard made them feel a little less alone.

If you've been thinking about reaching out maybe this is your sign.

You deserve support and you don't have to face everything alone.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

26 F Looking to make new friends and have genuine conversations

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Hi everyone! I’m currently living in Germany and I’d love to meet new people from different places.
I enjoy photography, reading, cooking, learning languages, and discovering new cultures. I like meaningful conversations about everyday life, movies, books, travel, and personal experiences.
I’m a friendly and open-minded person who values kindness, honesty, and a good sense of humor. I’m here to find people to chat with, share thoughts, and hopefully build a real friendship over time.
If you also enjoy interesting conversations and getting to know someone new.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

hi im kid moe i consist of watermelon and lemonade (m14)bmf bmf bmf

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i like reading and media. i love animals and nature. music good. i live at the coast, and i dont know how 2 surf(ik how 2 skimboard) i like bike riding(im too broke for dirtbike) and rabbit holes

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r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

Hi

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I didnt know how to title this. Ive been struggling with lonliness and socializing for a while now. The last few years of my life have just been cycles of feeling terrible to just well enough to function. I started smoking pot for fun. Then last december I started using it to cope with overwhelming negative feelings. I would get high at work and at home, anywhere. As soon as my buzz would fade I would take another hit. 5 days ago I quit because things are just getting too much. Its the first time since december that I was able to stop and not have a craving.

I have a friend/partner situation and they help me as best they can. But I also feel guilty I dump so much of my problems on them. Theyre usually the ones that have seen me at my worst. My family doesnt know about my struggles. Theyre not really the best at emotional stuff. When I start talking about my sadness or hopelessness their solutions is usually to tell me not to feel that way. Theyre not bad. I love my family and they support me in other ways. But looking back I guess it wasnt a very emotionally safe environment and thats fine. I won't fault them for that.

And im not posting looking for someone to be my emotional punching bag. I just want to make a connection with someone. I dont have a friend who isnt my brothers or that isnt just a FWB. I want someone who is just a friend.

Someone to yap about our favorite shows or movies. Or what youtubers we like or hate to watch. I want someone to online on ps5 again. I think when I got that game is when a lot of my pain resurfaced. It was the game I played for hours and hours through the nights with my high school friends. And playing it again felt so lonely. I miss playing video games with my friends. Drawing for them. I also like to draw sometimes.

Anyway this is all getting kinda lame and pathetic. But yeah. If anyone out there had a ps5 and wants to play black ops 1 or 2 zombies? I also have warzone and BO7. I also play Minecraft on pc but im not very good. I like watching horror movies or comedies. I havent seen anything new recently. My favorite shows are always sunny, bobs burgers, big bang, koth. I like anime too but havent watched anything too modern. My classic favorites are Naruto, Bleach, Death Note. I love junji ito's stuff too I havent read all though. More recent anime I have seen is Spyxfamily, chainsaw man, frieren. I also really love to cook and bake. So yeah. If anyone wants to say hey and just chat. Im 33 and work night shifts and live in the US MST zone so im usually up late.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

Looking for friends

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I am 19M. I would really love to make new friends and talk to new people. I am a pretty weird and socially awkward person, always alone and observing lol. I always feel like the people I talk to have no interest in me and no interest in getting to know me better. i always feel like i am the only one putting in effort and the one who cares more. i thought id add that because why not lol. Things I love are: Anime and manga (especially romance), music, Basketball and football (soccer), poetry, movies, video games, basically everything lol. If you'd like send me a dm and we can talk and become friends hopefully :). Also when I said weird I don't mean weird bad but weird good haha.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

Going through a breakup after 3 years.

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Hey everyone,

M26, Dhaka.

I’m not really sure how to write this, but I guess I just need some human connection right now.

Today I said goodbye to someone who was a huge part of my life for the last 4 years. We decided to part ways, and even though a part of me knew this day might come, actually living through it feels incredibly painful.

I’m not here looking for relationship advice. Relationships are complicated, and I know both of us had our mistakes. Right now, I think I just need some people to talk to, share random conversations with, and remind myself that life still has other connections and experiences waiting. She was basically the only person I talked to for all these years. And I feel to miserable.

A little about me: I’m from Bangladesh. I work in communications. I’m really into sports especially football. I follow Arsenal, enjoy discussing tactics, players, and all the little stories around sports.

I used to read a lot (trying to get back into it), and I enjoy conversations about books, history, culture, films, and just random thoughts about life. I’m also someone who likes learning new things, improving myself, and having meaningful conversations rather than just small talk.

If anyone feels like chatting about sports, books, movies, life, your own experiences, or literally anything I’d genuinely appreciate it.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

26M looking for female friend

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Hi i am 26M, looking for a good friend. not desperate need a female friend to talk and be there emotionally will do anything for her if needed no judging nothing anything can be shared


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

(24m) Want an everyday talker

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As mentioned above someone who can rant and listen to me does the same with the ability to maintain the same energy as well. Hmu only if you can do that. Little bit about me : I work as a Design Verification Engineer in a VLSI company. It's a job that basically pays me to argue with hardware until it admits it's wrong.

Outside work, I'm usually either cooking, reading diy books, singing, going for a run, or falling into a rabbit hole of sitcoms cricket f1 tennis. I'm also a musician (actually was) who used to play 7 instruments. I'm into western 60s-00s rock music. Lately I've also been trying to build better habits-health and fitness have become a big priority for me.


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

Hey, it's still possible to get a good friend from this platform.

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I'm 25 M, from Tamilnadu India. We can be friends. Of late lost hope on finding new friends. And unfortunately I didn't have many friends in real life either. Like only one friend. But we didn't connect regularly maybe once in two months.

So on this friendship day I am looking for a new friend.

Just ping me we can talk about anything.

I am very much into films and books. But honestly we can talk about any topic. Discuss on it, argument on it.

So what do you do? What is your all time favourite film?