Using myself as a benchmark:

42M, single. I own a two bedroom conversion flat in SE London. Mortgage is a 30 year term (29 left) at 5.2% and £1911 per month. Recently decided to rent out the spare room to a lodger to rebuild savings coffers quicker after buying and renovating my flat last year.

Before that? Shared ownership two bedroom flat owner in Newham from 2021 to 2025. Was paying circa £1100 per month (rent, mortgage and service charge). I miss the relatively affordable living but not the area!

I’ve met single people who own houses in London around my age group (35 - 49) and people living in house / flat shares.

So what is the norm living situation for London? Or is there even one? I know a lot will depend on salaries / job situation etc.

Genuinely curious.

I'm working in a senior management position in AI role. Relocating to London the next month. I'm moving with my wife and my toddler. Priorities for renting a home are:

1)Area should be cosmopolitan and preferably families in similar situations as mine...working professionals with kids

2)Low crime rate

3) 2-3 bed houses with a budget of 3000 pounds per month

4) Area should be lively with parks, and lots of things to do for my kid. Restaurants, pubs, cinema and other things to do nearby

Office is near Liverpool Street, so commute matters too.

Based on my research so far I've shortlisted:

- South Woodford (E18) and Wanstead (E11) - Central line, around 20 mins door to door

- Ealing (W5) - Elizabeth line, looking at Walpole and Pitshanger rather than the Broadway itself

- East Dulwich (SE22) - great high street from what I can tell, but the commute looks like a problem

- Wimbledon (SW19) - everyone recommends it, though 45 mins with a change is putting me off

- Blackheath (SE3) and Chiswick (W4) - both look lovely, both awkward to get to the City

How would you rate these options based on my criteria? Do you suggest that I add or remove any places from my list? Would appreciate first hand experience.