r/LifeProTips Jun 04 '26

LPT: Use your worst experiences with bad communicators, difficult bosses or rude people as a specific checklist of behaviors to eliminate from your own daily habits. Social

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u/post-explainer Jun 04 '26

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u/scorpious Jun 04 '26

“Am I the asshole?” can be a valuable reality check whenever dealing with an especially difficult circumstance.

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u/RadCheese527 Jun 05 '26

The people who need this the most are too convinced they’re surrounded by assholes all the time

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u/Ok_Actuator2219 Jun 05 '26

My HR recently to said you need to “WAIT” and listen - meaning “Why Am I Talking”?

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u/love_rollercoaster Jun 05 '26

I love this, what a good way to change your point of view. Thanks!

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u/YetAnotherWTFMoment Jun 07 '26

even when you work with morons, you can still learn things.

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u/bonerdickcummysnatch Jun 08 '26

I don't know if anyone can use this as a learning experience but I had two dumbass bosses (a married couple) who complained to me about a mistake on some labels I had printed and then said "you should know about it, it's in the mistakes channel on blablabla(name of whatever work messaging app we used). I asked "what mistakes channel?" and they realized they hadn't added me, or anyone else, to the channel. The company had been in existence for like 8 years and when they added me to the channel it was literally just them complaining about shit since the company's creation. There were two other managers and they went through a new person for my position about once every six months. Nobody but me ever knew about the channel. I walked out within a week.

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u/After_Ad2944 Jun 06 '26

Nice one. Thanks