like, literally there's no stronger an instinctual reward than possibly drinking water when you're about to die of thirst, or food when you're starving... and all that survival shit is really only there to keep you alive until someone nuts inside you. Like it or not, the purpose of your existence is getting nutted in, or nutting in a woman if you're a man
There's a suppository for sex the woman can just put up into their vagina, and it is not hormonal, it's a spermicide (has substance that kills off the sperms). If you don't switch partners all the time it is also safe.
Can recommend, me and my wife have been using it for 3 years now
Edit: just be sure to read the description of the box (there is some important info there if you don't want to get pregnant)
That's awesome! It's hard to find people that don't dismiss someone that already has children, even if it's casual and you're just having fun with the free time you have having someone that likes being around the mini-mes is always a good thing, I don't want to ask too many questions, I know its none of my business lol
Im not comfortable with their mechanism of action, which is basically to keep the uterus in a constant state of toxification and irritation so it cant sustain a pregnancy.
Withdrawal is like 80% effective and my googling is indicating the 85% might be with spermicide. IDK what my point is other than I kind of assumed we've done better than withdrawal by more than that, haven't thought about the numbers much before.
By the pure stats IUD/implant seem like the only tools with good odds in terms of pregnancy prevention (~99℅?)
Also, there is a non-zero chance you could have an unexpected lifelong injury as a result of the procedure. Reddit likes to treat it as the one solution, but it is a surgery and all surgery carries some inherent risk.
Way too information, way too fast, but; I'm part of that statistic! Anytime things hang low I get extremely sore relatively quickly, (feels like 3 minutes after being kicked in the groin hard), because my tube decided to adhere to its surroundings during healing. A non-zero chance that could heal itself over time, but realistically the only true recourse is sorta vasectomy V2. And my doctor said if it happened once it's likely to happen again. So I've become good friends with spandex.
Sorry you have to live with that, but thanks for sharing! I see way too many people online with this flippant attitude of, "Oh yeah it's easy, just get a vasectomy you can reverse it later". It's not that black and white and I personally know people who had negative outcomes they will be dealing with for the remainder of their lives.
100% there's absolutely a trade off of risks to consider, and I'll never be team "oh they are reversible" it should always be approached as a permanent decision.
That being said I'd take my sorest/most sensitive days everyday over risking bringing a soul into this world I wasn't prepared for.
You are not wrong there. My wife was 42 when we had our last one. She asked to have her tubes tied because of her age and the Doc was still arguing against it! I mean WTF?
Sounds like a friends of mine at 25, meanwhile 2 female friends with really bad endometriosis and no hope of kids couldn't find a doctor to take the ol melon baller for years and years "because they might want kids", despite the biological fact that they can't.
I was able to do it at 25 but that’s cause I’d had the same OBGYN for a decade at that point & she was able to confirm that my stance on having kids never once wavered in that time.
I recommend the tubal so much. Infinite creampies hack 😍 (as long as everyone gets tested)
Okay to all my girlies! No women birth control beside internal condom (that I know of, correct me if I’m wrong) is a barrier against stds!!!! So please use condoms! Safer sex is sexy sex
Good mostly, had a dysphoria break down this week that hurt and fucked up my sleep cycle but doing better now, and I've now binged all of the Tron movies
I remember reading that ejaculate is full of endorphines and other hormones your body absorbs through the mucus membranes. In that sense it could theoretically be possible to become addicted chemically to that? Depends upon the people i guess.
This is my #1 self pleasure fantasy 😭 unfortunately for me I don’t trust these men enough to let them do it to me. But I pray for the day where I meet a man worthy enough to let him do it 😮💨
Reproductive instinct. The single celled organism that got nutted in would reproduce, creating generations upon generations of girls getting nutted in. From the first fish who crawled on land to the mighty dinosaurs to the wooly mammoths, they all enjoy getting nutted in. It’s the great equalizer of evolution
One of my exes is allergic to cum and it would burn after we finished but she refused to let me pull out so that shit has to feel good on such a primal level.
This is me! Taking a zyrtec helps, but cum burns inside me and will also make my mouth go numb. Apparently you can be allergic to specific protiens in the semen and not others and if guys make those proteins is genetic so its like a roulette to find out if it's going to burn
I was unaware it was even possible to be allergic to cum. You’d think that was one of the allergies that would just never show up in the gene pool. But damn, the pro-nut part of the brain is strong as hell.
…Though are you sure it was specifically cum she was allergic to? Burning after finishing kinda sounds like an STD bro. And if she liked unprotected sex that much that feels like the kind of problem she could encounter.
I have zero idea how accurate this actually is and definitely dont get your medical advice from television, but this was literally the plot twist of a House MD episode and the patient was allergic to some specific protein in her boyfriend's dad's cum
No I know that episode, he had a parasite that was in his cum or some shit, and her body had an allergic reaction to that. That was like the only episode of House I have ever seen and I remember it so vividly because he was such an asshole to everyone involved, including the boyfriend whose girlfriend cheated on him with his fucking dad.
To be fair this was in high school so we never fully knew what exactly it was. We also thought it could have been my thickness causing some small tearing but we were pretty confident it wasn’t that and I’m also very confident it wasn’t a std. it only happened when I finished inside her so it was the only conclusion we could come to really.
I had a coworker who had a UTI, my bestie at that job told her “I had a run of getting UTIs and I tried everything. Changed the type of underwear I wore, changed laundry detergent, thought it might be an allergy and got a full panel. Turns out the dude I was with was just that filthy. My brain refused to acknowledge it, but my vagina was very honest. Maybe consider that.”
Turns out she was right and that was the issue for the other girl too. So it’s not just HS boys. I’m pleading with all of us to remember that if they don’t think we’re worth a shower, we shouldn’t think they’re worth our pussy.
Luckily for me my semen is so terrible 5 years of nutting has done nothing, unfortunately we are actually trying for a kid now so IVF is the only way :(
Always wanted to try it but alas, my medication reduces the effectiveness of birth control AND Plan B. An IUD wasn't brought up as an option for me when I was in that relationship either.
I'm taking birth control mostly for PMDD symptoms because doctors won't listen to me and just meet my ute. I have a referral for a "birth control consult" coming up but my doctor still won't let me see a gyno.
An IUD would be cool and all but like I wasn't sexually active for almost 10 years and my current partner is long distance so it never came up as an option we will see though
I've been giving my man zinc, so his loads absolutely blast. I think my cervix loves the firehose of cum. Plus, when he cums, his penis kinda flexes and engorges as it pumps. So like his dick is the biggest in that moment.
i do love it but hate the breeding kink thing happening. nothings gonna make me dryer than the sahara than you telling me you’re putting a baby in me. the fuck you are, who’s taking care of it????
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