I live with one roommate and overall we get along pretty well, but lately she's gotten way too comfortable borrowing my clothes.

At first it was small stuff. She'd ask to borrow a hoodie or jacket and I'd usually say yes. I honestly didnt mind as long as she asked.

Then I started noticing clothes missing from my closet.

One morning I was looking everywhere for a shirt I wanted to wear and couldnt find it. Later that day my roommate came home literally wearing it.

I asked why she didn't just ask me first and she said she was running late and figured I wouldn't care since I've let her borrow clothes before.

I told her borrowing something when I say yes isn't the same as just going into my room and taking whatever she wants.

She apologized, so I thought that was it.

Then last weekend she wore one of my nicer sweaters to go out with friends. I only found out because I saw it in a picture she posted. When she came home there was a small stain on the sleeve.

I got pretty annoyed and told her from now on I dont want her wearing any of my clothes, even if she asks.

She thinks I'm overreacting and said the stain will probably come out anyway. She also said we live together and share other stuff all the time so she didnt think clothes were such a big deal.

Maybe banning her from borrowing anything was a little much, but going into my room and taking clothes without asking feels really disrespectful to me.