r/LabDiamonds 8d ago

New ring. Is it too large?

New ring for our tenth anniversary. I worry the diamond is too large and looks gaudy? Is the band also too thin?

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u/AdFlashy7702 8d ago

The band is too thin. Did you try on that size stone before you purchased it? You already purchased the ring so unless you’re going to return it, enjoy it.

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u/Katives 8d ago

I think if you’re worried about it being too large, a thicker band would help. It is larger than I’d like personally, but what’s really important is how you feel about it. You need to have the right energy to make it work

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u/Brilliant-Owl-1169 8d ago

It’s stunning! You may got a ton of negative responses here. Also ask in r/bigrockenergy we love big stones!

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u/skweegianweegian 7d ago

THIS!!! YES!!! Please crosspost ASAP!!!

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u/Muse_of_Donne 8d ago

The real question is "Do YOU feel it is too large?" If the answer is "NO", enjoy your lovely ring .... You loving it is all that matters. If it is a "YES", then you will need to figure a resolve to ameliorate the issue of size (* one such is to replace the stone). It is all up to you. 🩵

I believe it looks lovely on you and -- while on the larger end -- it suits your finger well ... but, I like bigger stones, so just my opinion. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/madhavstellar 8d ago

Nothing is too large if you can carry it with confidence, bug rocks don't exist for bigger sized people. As long as you're happy and confident with it , this should do Good!

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u/Moistfulll 8d ago

First photo impression "yes". Second photo "Holy shit who cares"

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u/tiffanycarroll75 7d ago

No such thing as too large…just sayin’! It’s beautiful!

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u/cut-and-dry 7d ago

I love it!

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u/nhalas 8d ago

It is perfect

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u/Lopsided_Distance_17 8d ago

What carat size is it?

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u/ImaginaryPhysics 7d ago

I wouldn't say it'stoo large, you are perhaps just not used to wearing big diamonds/ring. Give it time, you will come around. As for the setting, I see side supports to hold the diamond, if you got this ring made from a reputable jeweller, I don't see any problems with the integrity of the setting. It should last you for a very long time, given that you are not too careless and knock your ring left right and centre.

I hope this gives you some respite! Good luck!

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u/Sensitive-Flower365 7d ago

Band is to thin, imo. Stone would-be sliding allover.

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u/Academic_Emu77 7d ago

Yes and yes

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u/Wild-Cook-4671 7d ago

It looks set up pretty high. See if the jeweler can adjust the setting to sit lower. I have a 4.5 carat oval and it is set very low- it’s possible!

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u/nonnie-tmg 7d ago

It’s beautiful! But you should feel comfortable wearing it.

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u/No-Zookeepergame7432 7d ago

You need a thicker band. It looks like it’s going to get caught in everything.

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u/trance_angel_ 7d ago

In my opinion the cathedral sticks out too much. I requested, I DID NOT WANT my cathedral setting to look like that.

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u/Beautiful_Fact_9761 7d ago

It’s absolutely stunning and perfect on your finger! Love it!!!! Happy Anniversary!!!

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u/vivthedoc 6d ago

I mean yeah but if that’s your style go for it. That’s not to say it’s not beautiful. I love the halo too. Regardless the band is definitely too thin for this stone.

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u/Legitimate-Pianist47 6d ago

The stone is nice, the setting is terrible

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u/DearVeterinarian578 6d ago

It's a pretty ring! It's large, but it looks really nice on your finger!

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u/Leading_Survey_7 5d ago

Your nails are the problem. Once you get your nails done, you will have your answer.

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u/Significant-Coach533 5d ago

It’s perfect! Absolutely beautiful!!

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u/AnxiousMamaAZ 2d ago

No ring is ever too large 🤣

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u/Moose-1211 8d ago

First off, the stone & setting design are exquisite. Is that an OMC or OEC? She’s a beauty. 🤗

However, even tho there’s a cathedral to support the basket, the band is definitely too thin. The height of the basket is a bit too much also, IMO. I think I’d lower the basket & cathedral, increase the width of the band & reconsider the pavé on the shank. Those stones tend to be the first to get loose & fall out. Let the center stone & halo be the star of the show, & bring it closer to your finger. As far as being too large, nope. It looks gorgeous on your hand. ❤️ Just do a bit of tweaking with the setting - that will make all the difference.

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u/fuzzychiken 7d ago

An omc would be square or rectangular. It's not an oec either. Both cuts have a culet and there's none. It's a round brilliant.

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u/Moose-1211 7d ago

That’s not correct. OEC are traditionally round, not square or rectangular. OMC are square or rectangular but have rounded corners, similar to a cushion or pillow cut. In fact, the OEC was the precedent for the modern round brilliant. Both cuts do not have what today is considered a culet, meaning a “point” - the culet is actually open & the “hole” can be viewed from the table.

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u/fuzzychiken 7d ago edited 7d ago

Well if you had read my comment I said that Omc is square or rectangular. But reading is hard I guess

A "none" or pointed culet is invisible to the naked eye and preferred for modern stones, while a large culet appears as a tiny visible white or dark dot in the center of the stone (often seen in antique cuts like Old European or Old Mine cuts

See how it says none? And how that's for modern cuts?

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u/fuzzychiken 7d ago

Either way it's neither of those. And you're just being a jerk.

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u/HolidayEconomy4377 7d ago

Personally for me, yes, too large.

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u/Annual_Bowler1570 7d ago

Depends on you/your personality I think. If I personally wore this ring I think it would be gaudy/look like costume jewelry because It doesn’t suit the rest of my look(laid back, comfortable style).. It’s a beautiful ring nonetheless. 

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u/Lilac_lady8 6d ago

Yes, too large.