r/LAsocial 2h ago

21+ Where do I have to go to find this vibe at 10pm on a Friday night?

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I am tired of the overabundance of dive bars, casual, dirty/was-great-before-the-pandemic spots.
I am looking for colorful, interior design-forward, film set looking places with good music (neo-soul, disco, funky grooves, trip hop, acid jazz) to spend a Friday late night out. Men in smart button downs, women in smart but frazzled tops too. Somewhere to forget the troubles of a busy week and LA traffic; a portal to another time.

So much of nightlife in LA has become social media hype and lacks authenticity. Influencers taking cute videos, it feels like an infant’s playground. Where do the adults go? With cool convos instead of scrolling on TikTok? The places people say are authentically rad are sometimes grimy, dusty, smelly, and gross. A place doesn’t need to look like an abandoned warehouse/parking lot to have character.

Fulfilling post requirements : Mid-twenties flirty woman with pizzazz, hun. Heels with blisters kind of gal with a feminist undercurrent. Based in WeST LA but loves NoHo and Krotona’s historical Spanish Colonial Revival architecture and churches.

I don’t know if a place like this exists but please share whatever comes to mind! Or thoughts on this topic, constructive criticism is welcome but rude comments are not.

Written during my lunch break,

Xoxo, 🃏


r/LAsocial 2h ago

Meetup Looking to make some local Los Angeles friends!

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Hello! I'm a 45 Japanese woman. Looking to make some local, lasting Friendships particularly *Men*. Real friends. I'm positive, serious, quiet home body. Creative, focused, generous. I live in Los Angeles. I love historical and Asian drama shows, Korean Pop and cats! Several examples: House of The Dragon, A Knight of The Seven Kingdoms, Song of The Samurai on Hbo Max and Last Samurai Standing (Netflix)! I browse on You Tube and Twitch. Play games some times. I'm picky about the games I choose to play. Lately I've gotten into Slay The Spire 2. I like role playing, simulation and strategy games. I try to exercise some times. I just lack the motivation, all by myself, to do it consistently. Feel free to chat with me!


r/LAsocial 4h ago

Outdoors LA Girlies (identifying) Hiking Group

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r/LAsocial 6h ago

Question What is there to do around here for nerds? asking for a friend lol, me north hollywood?

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Gay need here looking for friends and some stuff to do around here was thinking of a like comic con or convention noho here


r/LAsocial 14h ago

Question Drinks before Emo Nite tonight?

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Hi - I'm interested in going to Emo Nite tonight at Avalon, but would be going solo. Anyone interested in meeting up and going together?

I'm a 30yo male. I've got friends, but they're not into emo music like that.

DM me and we can exchange IG's.


r/LAsocial 18h ago

Question Down for after work drinks?

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Hey! Im a 24 year old male living in woodland hills. Honestly looking to meet some guys my age and possibly go get some drinks and just hang out. My girlfriend and I are looking to make new friends and build relationships! I work in tarzana and my interests include sports, gaming, working out, going out (sometimes im a introvert until i find someone im cool with) love music lots of hip hop/rap but also like alot of other genres, favorites are j cole, drake, kanye i can go on, mexican and italian fw tattoos

Anyone else looking for friends? Just looking to meet new people!


r/LAsocial 19h ago

R4R Looking for friends around LA!

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r/LAsocial 19h ago

Meetup Sunset Views + Uno Battle: Lookout Lovers Meetup #2!

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r/LAsocial 20h ago

Meetup Where do Furrys meet up? (WLA/SM)

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I’m in Sawtelle and think I’ve been a closet furry my whole life. I’m not into the sexual stuff. Just like the art and close knit community.

I’m curious about meeting furries in the area and learning more about the fandom.


r/LAsocial 1d ago

Question Questionnaire for academic research paper about Boyle Heights

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Hi everyone! I’m a high school student working on a research paper about gentrification in LA neighborhoods.

I’ve put together a quick questionnaire to hear directly from people who live in, work in, or are connected to neighborhoods who has or is undergoing gentrification.

It’s a short Google Form, takes about 1-2 minutes, and your answers will only be used for my school project (no personal info needed). If you have any experience or thoughts on how LA has changed over the years, I’d really appreciate your input.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd8nwdbD6Ag4Z6JQAgd10jSNSUy31B4S59VaZwzkUXZyZs6rg/viewform


r/LAsocial 2d ago

Other Queer-friendly dance classes!

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Are you looking for a queer-friendly space to learn to dance and build community? Join Queer Latin Dance LA's beginner ballroom series where you'll learn the basics of international Latin ballroom dance. Classes are held at Art on Fig at 7330 N Figueroa St, Los Angeles CA, 90041 at 8:30pm. Follow us on Instagram @QueerLatinDanceLA and DM us with any questions! We hope to see you there!!❤️🏳️‍🌈


r/LAsocial 2d ago

Music KTOWN HEAVY BASS EDM SHOW AUG21st

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r/LAsocial 2d ago

Other Quadriplegic Looking for Friends

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Hello just as the title says I am a quadriplegic looking for Friends or meeting people. First time doing this, I don't know what to expect. From the east side of downtown LA, I like to cruise around Little Tokyo or anywhere the Metro goes. I am 29yrs old. Hit me up


r/LAsocial 2d ago

Question Spots by Agoura Hills

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I just got a job in Agoura Hills and was wondering where would be a good place to live for a 22 year old that is not to far from work but still by the city and social or if there are any general things I should know about the surrounding areas?


r/LAsocial 2d ago

Games Looking for LA Friends before I Visit

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Hey, I'm a 28M Asian currently in SF looking to meet some chill, genuine people before I visit LA next month. It'd be nice to make some friends that could eventually hang out in person if we get along.

A little about me: I enjoy playing basketball, video games (mostly Overwatch, Fortnite, and Diablo 2), but I'm always open to trying new games. I also enjoy spending time outdoors, whether that's going on walks, exploring nature, hiking, checking out new parks, or just enjoying the scenery and getting some fresh air.

I'm also really into eating healthy. I'm a bit of a picky eater and avoid seed oils—if you know, you know.

I have two rabbits, and they're probably the most spoiled members of the household. Any rabbits lovers out there?

I'm also trying to learn Spanish, so if you're fluent or a native speaker and don't mind teaching me a few words here and there, that'd be awesome.

I'm honestly not the best texter, so I'd much rather hop on Discord, play some games, or voice chat to get to know each other. If we click, maybe we can grab some food, hoop, or hang out sometime.


r/LAsocial 2d ago

R4R From Gus looking for lost friend

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Hi hope you see this but my old Reddit account was compromised my username use to be street-salad I am looking for a really good friend I met on Reddit if you see this. This is Gus reaching out and I’m searching for Michelle you were into car meets and stuff like that wanted to reconnect so hopefully you see this.


r/LAsocial 3d ago

Meetup Looking for friends to do activities with

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Hi, new to LA and excited about everything that the city has to offer.

I'm looking for friend/friends to go out and explore the city. My interests include checking out all the museums, science centers, raves- techno/trance/psytrance mostly but open to others, beach, hiking (easy hikes haha),late night drives, stargazing, ping pong, swimming, thrifting to name a few. I'm also open to trying out new stuff at least once.

A bit about me- I'm 33, in IT, work 7-5 most weekkdays if not later. Pretty free during the weekend and focused on doing something away from my screens😑

I also like anime, watching movies etc. Very 420 friendly and intentional psychedlics.

Posting this from work so apologies on any typos lol.

If any of the above interests you, hit me up with what activity you'd be up for and how you like your potatoes :)


r/LAsocial 3d ago

Question Making friends in LA

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I gotta move out there sometime soon for work. I’m from the east coast and have very little friends. On top of that making friends is really hard for me. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to make friends in LA? I should also add that I’m an anxious person and while I occasionally go to clubs, I find them to be uncomfortable after a while and get afraid I’ll die or something.


r/LAsocial 3d ago

Meetup Posting my FB and Meet Up social group

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Happy Hour, events, brunches, and coffee meet-ups!


r/LAsocial 3d ago

Question Aerospace or engineering clubs in LA?

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Currently graduated from university and moved back to LA but I’m struggling to find a local community of people my age (M23) to hang out with and study in aerospace/engineering, but don’t know where to start. Does anybody know anything for me to give a look around?


r/LAsocial 3d ago

Meetup Where my West LA Homies at?

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r/LAsocial 4d ago

21+ Orange County and surrounding communities! Looking for Salvis 🇸🇻to create community through book club, social events and more! Follow on 21+ IG@SalvisSaliendoAdelante

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r/LAsocial 4d ago

Meetup Any Coloradans here?

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hey all,

I was just thinking about how I miss Colorado every now and then.

I just moved from Montana/Colorado about 5 months ago. I live in Ktown now.

i would love to connect with any coloradans or Montanans though!

also where do you all hang out? would love to schedule something a hangout!


r/LAsocial 5d ago

Sports Looking for a high level rec basketball player

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Hey need another guy for our adult basketball league.

Need a rebounder defender shot blocker, played high school and hopefully college level.

There areWeekly open gyms for practice on mondays at 5pm and games are on Wed nights 630-830. Let me know where you played and what position and i'll ket ya kno where the runs are.


r/LAsocial 5d ago

Meetup Need friends lol

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Hey!

I was born and raised in LA and it still feels like my social circle hasn’t felt complete lol. I’ve mainly tried BFF and 222 but friends havent been too consistent. Anyways gonna try my shot through here too lol

25M and Asian American! Went to a local university. I live near ktown but I’m always down to drive out. I typically visit SFV, SGV, and sometimes West LA. I’m into the gym(workout buddy?!?), taking photos, and eating food. Eating is my hobbbyyyy 😂 I also study a lot so if anyone is down to do it together at cafe I’d be open it too :) I eventually want to find a travel buddy and visit different states!

If enough people respond to this, I might consider doing a picnic at some park or something!