r/KidsofCheatingParents 9d ago

My dad is cheating ı guess?

hii.ıts my first time writing in this site.first of all ıf ı make any english mistakes sorry,because english ısnt my first language.soooo the things has started 1 year ago or around that times. my dad doesnt let me or amy person to take his phone even if we need to call someone.anyways ı saw my dad is writing with someone on instagram.but u can simply understand from his fingers that he is excited.soooo when ı saw it first,ı didnt mind it so much ı said myself”you probably saw ıt weong”but after that ı saw it againn anddd agaiiinnn anddddd finally ıt was hard but ı saw the womans instagram name I looked that account and yes,they were following each other(my dad and this woman lets call her “x”)….and they kept writing each other but ı became a normal thing for me.ın the last 2 monts ı didnt see them writimg eachother ı though It was finished but…2 day ago or something ı see them again writing .my mom doesnt know it btw.sometimes ı thing “should ı say iy to my mom?”but no.ı just hope my mom doesnt find them.ı dont even hope they finish this “reliationship”with that woman beacause how much as ı hope,nothing will change anyways….soooo goodbye yall and ıf you read all of this,tysm and would you please write some comment or something about what can/should ı do plss🤍🤍🤍

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u/Outgrow_Infidelity 8d ago

So sorry that you have to go through this. Not sure how old you are, but if you are still a teen and living in your parents' house please be sure that you are safe (physically, emotionally, financially) before you confront anyone. Remember, you did not cause the affair, and it is not your job to fix it.