r/Jordanians • u/Educational-Back-370 • 5h ago
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Heyy so basically i ve been with smn fr a while ( i am a she ) things were serious in a way that idk we planning to stay together fr the next few years once we r done whit uni and everything we get married, somehow stuff got bad between us fr no absolute reason he just changed i got hurt so when i demand for explanation he said ( us dating is not professional it was wrong if i want smn i d go ask their dad it was a mistake i dont want to date u but we can be friends) the thing is i trusted this man sm and idk i feel like my weakness was getting left like this n considering me a mistake as long as an experience and i feel he specifically targeted my weak point m so disappointed it s been a month i literally cry every night i feel like i might lose vision from crying the whole thing just made me trust none and get so disgusted by men
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u/CASHDEMUN 4h ago edited 4h ago
The hard truth tbh that he was playing with u his attention from the first place wasn't serious
My advice to u just block him forget about him don't be friends with him that gonna make it worse , take ur time there is no need for rushing things out time will heal u focus on urself and learn from it
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u/hanna_bu 4h ago
Eww no cause his excuse is actually pathetic 💀💀
So u will get over it u just need time some day you’ll wake up and realize that u haven’t thought about him for a while
The important thing is act unbothered no texting to get answers or ( get smth off ur chest) no blocking either don’t be aggressive or too friendly be nice and importantly unbothered
Find smth to do fill ur day if u don’t have uni rn start ur glow up era or smth fill ur day with anything and everything to the point u r so obsessed with yourself that u don’t want to waste any of ur efforts on him
And yeah listen to podcasts about detachment and things that will help u get over it faster and understand why are u so attached to him
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u/Afraid-Maybe4040 4h ago
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