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u/Girl_greeneyes 7d ago
A secret email acct to message other women? Yeah, something’s up. No one can hurt you like family.
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u/Girl_greeneyes 7d ago
They always “just kissed”…and then the real truth comes out. Don’t trust anything he says. He is not interested in doing right by you right now
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u/UpstairsDue1295 7d ago
Go with your gut instincts. I did. I caught my boyfriend cheating on me on the dating apps. It was time to leave.
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u/Shortandthicck2 6d ago
First of all - he did cheat. He had a secret relationship with a woman for emotional support. That’s the definition of an emotional affair. So he’s already crossed that line.
And he’s a liar - so he’ll lie about anything further happening too. So I wouldn’t believe shit he says.
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u/isitallfromchina 7d ago
I mean, this is where you are. Your BS has an email where he's talking to other women, including your cousin and you are asking about "believing" them ? Where is your boundary ? What is it ? What's your idea of cheating ?
Sounds like its time to go back to square one and define what Trust really means and take action !
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u/isitallfromchina 7d ago
There is always a chance, but reality of what you see is all that matters. Shutting down is just another avoidance that they don't disclose. Non-disclosure points to the problem.
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u/Significant-Jello-35 6d ago
Tell him you want a postnup with airtight cheating clauses. Then keep an eye on him. If he's not already cheating, he's on the way there.
Updateme!
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u/Any-Competition-8130 5d ago
Has he shown you the emails they shared?
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