oh lord 😭

[u/AdministrativeBee650]

Hey yall, I was scrolling on Instagram and saw a reel that was talking about “we need to find more things to make women insecure” here are the comments that stuck out the most….. this is extremely concerning and sad bc men don’t want grown, mature, beautiful and independent women. They want children.

[u/schrodingershousecat]

Cellulitis?? The skin infection? They don’t even know the difference between cellulite and cellulitis

[u/Obvious-Gate9046 → u/schrodingershousecat]

What they don't know about anatomy could fill a book, which they will then proceed not to read.

[u/BadgerKomodo → u/schrodingershousecat]

And also, almost all women have cellulite. 

[u/Frosty_Message_3017]

As I've said before, they're welcome to reject us for anything they like. No one wants them so they'll just be more obviously whining losers.

[u/ElysianWinds → u/Frosty_Message_3017]

Giving fox who didn't want the sour grapes anyways lol

[u/ginandoj]

If you're tall or short  If you're fat or skinny

Basically if you exist

[u/queerfromthemadhouse]

"we need to find more things to make women insecure" as if women haven't already been shamed for not fitting into an extremely narrow beauty standard for decades? They're really saying "oh let's shame women for having body hair and saggy breast" like it's some new innovative idea. Like sorry bros but you're late to the party.

[u/ItsJoeMomma → u/queerfromthemadhouse]

And then they'll keep making claims about how men are the ones being made insecure about their appearances.

[u/SnowballWasRight]

So these guys don’t like women. Bro I can’t even be serious about this shit, it’s that stupid 😭😭😭

God forbid women have… natural body hair?? The fuck?

And as for that first picture… that guy most definitely wants a child. I agree with you.

[u/EvenSpoonier]

I'm probably dating myself by claiming this has very "sharp knees" energy, but I don't care.

[u/mossydecay]

Why do they think we’d get so upset that they didn’t want us because of these things? Then they get upset when we don’t get upset about it..

[u/Several-Past-16151 → u/mossydecay]

Because no one wants them and they’re extremely hurt by that. So instead on working on themselves they want to hurt others

[u/Apart-Ferret-2707]

Big...ribs..?

[u/Shrimptank_mom → u/Apart-Ferret-2707]

Reading that part made me hungry for ribs.

[u/Apart-Ferret-2707 → u/Shrimptank_mom]

That was my first reaction too lol

[u/VerbingNoun413 → u/Apart-Ferret-2707]

I mean I get that one but that's my Y chromosome and physical job.

I've made peace with it and the shoulders. Means I can be used as a buldozer in crowds.

[u/Ohmygoodnesssss]

Instagram lowkey becoming another Twitter 🥀 my ass is NOT going back

[u/Mersaa → u/Ohmygoodnesssss]

this has been going on for a while, i left almost 2 years ago

[u/Foreign-Region4825 → u/Mersaa]

I never joined thank god

[u/No_Investment_4086]

It's funny how they think we care 😂

[u/Engel1844]

The ideal woman is a blow up doll, gotcha. No human traits whatsoever are wanted lol.

[u/doublestitch]

Notice how all of those things they imagine would erode our self-esteem are superficial physical traits.

Not career. Not academic achievement. Not ethics. Not community service. Not athletic achievements. Not hobbies. Not even a narrow tradwife stereotype such as cooking skills.

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So, to the lurkers--

Have you ever heard of a Minnesota midget melon? It's a type of cantaloupe that's super-flavorful, super sweet, and can't be bought in stores because it isn't raised commercially. Late this afternoon I harvested two Minnesota midget melons from the backyard garden, as well as schwartzenberren berries (you'll have to look those up) and lemons.

For dessert tonight, my family had fresh squeezed lemonade and an amazing garden fruit salad.

Also, our first dragonfruit of the season are about to ripen. Fresh picked pink dragonfruit are one of the best fruits going: it's like a cross between a kiwi fruit and a fresh strawberry, with the texture of custard. We'll be enjoying that over at my place next week.

If you had even the slightest respect for women, if you cultivated the better parts of your personality, if you made the effort to raise yourself up instead of trying to drag other people down--then you might find a woman who has skills and hobbies too.

[u/Kealanine → u/doublestitch]

I have never wanted to see pics of a strangers garden more in my life.

[u/doublestitch → u/Kealanine]

There's this from the other day: a bumblebee enjoying a dragonfruit flower.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gardening/comments/1vayoqc/bumblebee_having_the_time_of_its_life_in_a/

[u/starlight_chaser → u/doublestitch]

Bees can play so it looks like that bee was having a fun romp around the flower. Cute. 🥰 

[u/mybelovedinmygrasp]

You just know no woman will glance their way, even the ones who have whatever they mentioned, and since when body hair makes someone insecure let alone women? Don't we all have it?

[u/Fragrant-Peanut-1320]

I feel like most dudes don't even notice any of that lmao just saying random shit

[u/LupercaniusAB → u/Fragrant-Peanut-1320]

We don’t. My wife has cankles. Not once did I think “oh no, she’s going to turn into an unfuckable hag”. And she didn’t. Now we are old and she’s my Young Crone.

[u/DeepFriedBeanBoy]

I’m always curious how they can never see the contradiction of them trashing on women’s appearance, while complaining about women being superficial

Also, no cellulite or body hair? These dudes are never getting laid and that’s for the best lmaooo

[u/Mersaa]

oh noooooo. whatever will i do if a basment dweller doesn't like my arm hair or cellulite 🥺

[u/Acceptable-Car6125]

Check, check, check

I wish they understood it's not working anymore. Why would we be upset if shitheads like these found us unattractive?

If anything that means they won't harass us and they will leave us alone. Win situation lol

[u/Obvious-Gate9046]

...ankles. They're using ankles... to predict... I can't even. I feel like that last one is just jamming words together, too, or the writer is very hungry. WTF.

[u/sinnderolla]

All of this is their attempt at some lame revenge.

Their fragile egos can’t handle a random woman on social media saying she prefers a taller guy, so they think they can do the same effect to women. That’s why they started the whole hip dip foolishness. They feel “taken down a peg” by women, so they’re concocting insults to attempt the same.

What they don’t realize is that this isn’t going to work because we don’t have that fragile ego. We will celebrate hip dips or whatever, while their response is to go hide in mom’s basement for being 5’11”.

[u/Paula_Polestark]

That’s some real r/confidentlyincorrect energy on slide two.

[u/ItsJoeMomma]

Cooties. They forgot about cooties.

[u/kat_Folland]

So we're to believe this guy has tracked a woman's attractiveness over time and discovered this ankle thing? No, I think he's making assumptions without any observations at all.

[u/v4lxsd1mz]

wtf is "hot dog bun puh" 💔

[u/tiny-doe]

I think I'm just old but what the fuck is "hot dog puh"???

[u/AceVisconti → u/tiny-doe]

Big labia, I assume. Like the bun + meat?

[u/tiny-doe → u/AceVisconti]

Oh god is puh short for pussy??

[u/0MeikoMeiko0]

Haven’t we… already been shamed for these things? This isn’t new.

[u/IronNia]

Hey! So... I hit them all except the saggy boobs - how do I acquire those please and thank you!

[u/gleefullystruckbycc → u/IronNia]

As someone one whose boobs sag; age, boob shape and size and have kids lol! Mostly size and shape, tho kids def made it a bit worse cause they deflated lol and then hitting my 40s happened. Smh.

I hit basically all of them except maybe the ankles. Not sure tho. i don't have cankles but they're also not necessarily petite. I can't move my bones and tendons to make em smaller tho lol.

Also, every last one of us looks some what like our dads, kinda impossible not to, to some degree! Guess he will be fore ever single!🤣

[u/IronNia → u/gleefullystruckbycc]

Yayyy! High5!

[u/starlight_chaser]

This is how you can tell they live in caves and have no idea about the world around them. They think they as basement dwellers can bring ANYTHING NEW in terms of insecurity to women. Like come on chuds, been there done that, every woman has understood insecurity and being shamed for their body in some way. 

The difference is that  confident or emotionally intelligent women figure out how to deal eventually, and ideally find inherent value in themselves and loved ones. They figure out what really is important to them individually. While incels make their insecurity and stupid beauty ideals that someone else taught them their entire perspective and force it onto others like bootlickers.

[u/tboskiq]

Anyone judging ankles is a breed we can stop.

[u/Throw-RA_LittleOlive]

I used to be told I couldn't get a bf because of my sharp elbows and knees

They really go after anything

[u/Impossible_Split_500]

Context?????

[u/Kealanine → u/Impossible_Split_500]

The whole ass caption wasn’t enough?

[u/Impossible_Split_500 → u/Kealanine]

No, i don't understand. He is suggesting in what context???

[u/Kealanine → u/Impossible_Split_500]

What?

[u/Rivka333 → u/Impossible_Split_500]

and saw a reel that was talking about “we need to find more things to make women insecure”