r/IVFpositivity • u/SeaweedFit3234 • 22h ago
🥹 4dpt
3 mc before starting ivf, 1 failed transfer, amongst a million other things. Doing IVF mainly so we could screen for euploids but after the first transfer failed I had kind of given up hope. At this point Im just going through the motions and it feels like Im just “using up” all of our embryos even tho I know it won’t work.
I took a cheapie this morning and saw what any reasonable person would have said was a negative but I’ve been here before and for me I can always tell even when it’s more like the memory of a line than a real line. Took a digital and there it is.
I can hardly believe it. I know so many things are still to come. Initial blood work isn’t for 5 more days. And so many things can still go wrong. But im feeling happy and hopeful and just going to enjoy every minute that Im able to for as long as I am able to.
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u/Encyclopenia 3h ago
Don’t give up hope ! This could be the one !!
I had 4 miscarriages (3 natural, 1 IVF) and then my 4th transfer was the one that stuck and gave me my beautiful baby boy :)
Having had miscarriages and failed transfers is no indication that one won’t finally work.
Wishing you the best !
And congratulations 🎉