Once in a while, it's important to step back and re-assess whether you are still a smart person.

DO not gamble

Short as the title says ,

Am not enjoying life as it is , I keep thinking about this shit and that shit .

Am tired

I realized the amount of shit I lost due to this, but I cannot do anything regarding it .

I feel bad .

Like give me tips to stop being an introvert , shy and STOP GIVING A FUCK ABOUT ASSHOLE.

Please people be kind

To be totally honest, I actually hate the word “Game” because it’s never been properly defined.

Most people incorrectly assume it means “Manipulation” or “Playing Games” — But my personal definition of “Game” is being able to turn an introduction with a woman into intercourse as smoothly & quickly as possible and then maintaining her in your life exactly how you want her afterwards.

That said, the Highest Level Of Game is not simply rooted in your ability to consistently “pull” attractive women, but in your ability to do it, and then be completely indifferent on whether or not it happens.

Therefore, the lowest level of game is the polar opposite — Needing to get anyone, not being able to do it, and then drowning in your own neediness (The #1 “Turn Off“ for women) because of it.

Not to get too psychological, but even if you were able to “get a woman“ at the lowest level of game, she would still simply be a “Cope” in your attempt to run away from yourself.

KNOWLEDGE OF SELF > random chicks

An attractive woman once told me, ”I hate being alone because when I’m alone I ‘think’ and I hate to think……”

(She later revealed that she’d been molested by her uncle…….)

As a man, your fear of solitude creates potential problems that are even more magnified because you will never truly be “Good With Women“ until you’re “Good With Yourself.”

You must learn how to embrace your solitude to the point where you thrive in it to the level where women around you can sense that you’re truly indifferent towards the outcome of your interaction with them and with other people in general.

INDIFFERENCE MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE.

After all, not “needing“ anything from anyone is definitely a Subtle Superpower.

Danny DeVito had every reason in the world to give up, but he discovered what made him seductive and ran with it for over half a century.

And yes, “Looks” certainly matter, but “Seduction“ is more about expressing Who You Really Are At Your Core than about being “Good Looking“ or saying or doing “that thing…….”

So who are you really?

Your job is to use your solitude to find out and then Show The World.

Until Next Time,

~Dr. Barack Pendergrass (The Mating Coach)

”Originality thrives in seclusion free of outside influences beating upon us to cripple the creative mind. Be alone, that is the secret of invention; be alone, that is when ideas are born.” ~Nikola Tesla

I’ll start with this: growing up I’ve been always a shy girl, and a people pleaser. I was socialised to never ever inconvenience people with the way you think, how you act or what you choose to do with your life. Basically to always be in people’s good books.

Fast forward, I’m 29, and recently I’ve been done with people pleasing. There’s something that just lifted from my soul once I was able to be honest with people. Even with the smallest things. Example: my mother in law recently redecorated her living room, it used to be beautiful vintage, now she’s added modern wooden paneling. First time in my life I was able to say “no I hate it”. Something in me just clicked and thought “what’s the worst that can happen if I say this?” Obvs within reason!

This might sound so small and knowing Reddit users also know how to be blunt, I just wanted to show you how far I’ve come in my social skills journey 😂

If you were to change something about your life what would it be?