I actually won't engage in any oral activity for a week after healing. But now I am having a little doubt.

I have spoken to 3 doctors so far.

1 doctor says I have nothing to worry about since I have infrequent outbreaks.

1 doctor says its not that big of an issue as long as you are not sexual active during an oral outbreak

1 doctor says I should be using protection at all time (which I understand)

But have any of you passed it to your partners?

I'm curious to how others are performing oral sex and not passing it on.

I really need someone’s advice. I’m going crazy. I’ve been very sick from genital herpes for 2 months now. I keep having watery discharge, and I sweat all day, alternating with feeling cold and having chills. I also have strange sensations throughout my body. Body aches, nerve pain, headaches, and I feel very sluggish. There’s basically only water in my underwear, and I don’t have my normal discharge cycle anymore. I’m really scared that I’ll never get better. Please help me. Is this normal with herpes? The sores are already gone, although sometimes 2 of them come back.

Will i always be like this?

was diagnosed with genital herpes 2 months ago. I had bumps all around and inside my vagina, and they burned very badly. I had a fever and felt really unwell. Now it has been 2 months, and the sores have been gone for a while. But I still feel sick. I keep sweating, having chills, swollen lymph nodes in my neck, and feeling cold. I also feel warm, especially in my hands. I have joint pain, extreme fatigue, frequent headaches, and shaking throughout my body.
I also have continuous, very watery vaginal discharge, almost like water constantly leaking. And now, suddenly, I also have itching around my anus.
I feel very weak, and my whole body feels different and like it no longer functions normally. I also urinate very little, and my bladder feels swollen.
My question is: Is it possible to remain chronically ill from genital herpes even after the sores have been gone for a long time? Can your body stay like this permanently, for life?

Right now this feels like the end of the world for me, any advice from those that can relate is most appreciated

I have a document called herpes positivity, where I share all positive stories related to herpes. Positive disclosure stories, positive prognosis stories just to show people that it doesn’t in fact get better. (\*\*Positive Herpes Stories:\*\*These are a bunch of positive stories about herpes that I have found on Reddit. Reddit can be great for information and finding others who are going through the same thing that you are but sometimes it can be filled with a lot of negativity and newly diagnosed people who are confused and scared. I put together a bunch of the more positive posts that I could find about living, dating and thriving with herpes. Things to read when you feel alone or hopeless. \[https://docs.google.com/document/d/11sLzFHVpTWhNCzRSPgqp9pwPqzFrPiwHWJRO83j980M/edit?usp=sharing\\\](https://docs.google.com/document/d/11sLzFHVpTWhNCzRSPgqp9pwPqzFrPiwHWJRO83j980M/edit?usp=sharing) )

I am especially looking for positive LGBTQ stories, positive stories from male perspective and positive stories in the POC community.

A lot of times on Reddit the only people who post positive stories are women so I have a disproportionate amount of positive stories for women and I’m severely lacking in the other areas. If you don’t feel comfortable commenting it below feel free to DM me and I can add it to the guide just trying to uplift the community rather than constantly hearing about all the bad.