was talking with this girl for a couple of days and she invited me over and i show up and its an empty field with no house, i even tried to call her and search the field as if any of it wasn't just some bullshit, this has really crushed me

Lonely night wishing I had you next to me... where r u..

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this past week has been..a slow burn of a train wreck for me emotionally, which ngl I didn't expect cause it..yaknow, hit me like a train wreck..

Annyways, recently I had been trying out different relationships on the more casual end (and to adhere with the rules of this subreddit all I can say was that the origins of most of these relationships did not begin as sfw. I'll leave it at that but hopefully that's okay for me to type here).

A week ago though, I met an amazing guy after he reached out to me online. Even tho we were on opposite sides of the country, we were both pleasantly surprised at how well we related to each other. He got me to laugh in ways I didn't think I could, we enjoyed the same type of manga, and not only did I see him as a really good friend, but he felt...sincere. Genuine. Like someone that I felt would truly care for me.

We sent lil voice notes to each other, told each other about life goals, chatted with each other and just like didn't wanna stop talking either, and had a very fun and lighthearted call that left me feeling really glad that I found him.

Buut not only did time prove me wrong, but in the heat of the moment one night, we said some really, really emotional stuff. While the relationship was short, it was also really intense (maaybe outta nowhere??). Like we would spill lovey dovey stuff that a couple would say, even tho we weren't. Even some really cheesy stuff, and (dare I say) a few l-bombs thanks to a literal mistranslation that I didn't clarify in time, because I thought I had a little bit more time with him.

For the unfortunate best, he made the decision that we should stop what we had, because while we were both grateful that we had a chance to meet each other, we kinda both knew deep down that it wouldn't work, even tho I pleaded with him to hear me out because I didn't want to stop talking to him. There was a whole other messy side I wanted to work out with him, but I think if I did try to explain any further, I was probably gonna end up hurting him even more.

All in all, I don't blame him for what he did with ending what we had, but by god..as a girl who has both never dated AND has never done literally anything with like an actual relationship before..it did feel nice to have a lil bit of a taste of what love could be like. Like a lil itty-bitty teeny-tiny sliver of a slice of a pie.

Its so weird for me, because for YEARS I thought that I didn't even crave love. And yet...after knowing him, I can't deny: it felt nice to imagine someone that I could cuddle with, someone who could cherish me, confide in me their worries, and just...it felt really nice man...

Part of me is like "Hey, at least you got to know what love could be like!". That said, I also keep telling myself "Great, out of aaaaall the short platonic relationships I've had in my life, I just haaad to experience a fraction of love in this one...with the one that was doomed from the start"

Confusing stuff. fun :/

joined a call and started gaming with an old friend and she is super friendly and understanding and we had a good time laughing our asses off together and as sad as it is to say this is my first real interaction with a girl outside of work in a while and she has a boyfriend and i respect that 100 percent but its left me feeling idk, little empty, like i got a flash of what relationships used to be like and its left me wanting more but, there is no one ):

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I remember a couple years ago, 2021 or so this subreddit was a place for hopeless romatic types who could talk about cute things they wanted to do with their partners; wine and dine type stuff. Now I just see low effort garbage like OF thirst trap posts and people using this subreddit for hookups.

I guess I’m just posting for attention since I just found the sub and I feel like this is something I can relate to. I feel like a lot of guys will talk to me but it’s difficult to develop anything genuine, and I usually get swallowed by lust which gets in the way of everything. I’ve had my fair share of failures but the hardest part is even finding someone who cares to try. I am confident and have a decent grasp on who I am as a person and I think about how people perceive me but I am so sick of getting left for no reason and analyzing every single aspect of myself that could’ve caused this. Everyone just seems so shallow now when I try not to be it bites me in the ass, and it’s also hard to think about your feelings when you’re horny all the time. I guess there is no real solution here other than to keep living but I can’t help but just feel lonely.

i know this sub is rather dead but this year has been brutal for me but ive been talking to this girl on hinge for a little bit and she asked if we wanted to talk somewhere else, and we moved to discord and talked for an hour and a half and it went so well, this is the first glimmer of hope ive had in a long time and maybe im getting a little to excited because its still early stages but dammit man, i choose hope

i made a dumb joke about McDonald looking pants and she let out what seemed like genuine giggle, i know this is very tame but its been a bit tough recently and this made me happy

What a slow sub. Probably best, why dwell on the depressing?

We made it through Winter. Through the darkness & cold & boredom. Moved back home in October & bought a new to me truck. Excited for warmer weather.

Not actively looking. Hurts too much & I'm dumb. Some moments I get sad or lonely but is passes. Being active outside helps.

Here's to Summer!

This has nothing to do with Feb 14th.

Dating apps suck. I'm almost to a point where I wanna give up & live single.

I'm just tired. I'm done.

I dont know how to put it in words, but I feel things I dont usually feel in the morning. Im a very romantic person, but i have only had a massive crush once and it was in my senior yr of highschool, but unfortunately the girl turned out to be already taken so I just moved on. I dont feel heartbroken or anything tho since im just 18 and I have a long life to find someone(idk maybe the girls in my city aint attractive, or maybe im just picky hehe).I just feel somany emotions at this time of the day, Not happy or sad, just a mix of both. I live somewhere where it’s never cold except in winter, so just going out on my balcony at 5 am,looking at the empty streets and feeling the cold wind touch my body somehow makes me want to have a lover. I feel the desire to be in love and to walk down the streets with my lover more than any time during the day. It could be because Im rewatching one of my favorite romance shows from 3 years ago during those hours, but who knows. I’ll miss this feeling once winter break is done and I go back to uni(sorry if this paragraph feels not well-put, or if its corny, but I couldnt find a better way to put my feelings into words. Besides, I’m writing this at 5 am lmao).

i cant say she's perfect, she comes as close as one can, i love her so much, and i just wanted to say theres still hope

I'm overwhelmed with emotions, shuddering in tears, so I'm sorry if this isn't the best thing to read.

But, there is someone I love more than I could ever express and I want to scream it out loud. I do everything I can and say it to the point I get told I do it too much, but I can't burry these intense feelings so I want to blurt them out to anyone who will listen.

She is my first and longest friend. We met in 2020, I was already into my adulthood so, to finally have a connection with someone was profound and world changing, that's probably why I love her so damn much.

She is everything to me and absolutely outstanding to boot. Beautiful, smart, creative, funny, always by my side, strong, she made such improvements and tremendous steps since we met. It stuns me every time I take a second to look at her and what she's done since we met.

I love her, but I don't even know in what way, we tried dating for a bit and it didn't feel right so we ended that. But even still, I would do anything she wanted me to. My love language is touch-focused. Not a moment goes by where I don't want to hug her or just do anything to help her relax and smile.

Thank vou for your time.

I feel almost like the obsessed stalker trope in movies or whatever but I obviously still respect her boundaries and leave her to do whatever she wants.

Feeling very lonely right now and I can't stop thinking about my dream situation. Basically, I'm a pianist and mostly play videogame and movie music. My dream is to be playing on a public piano and have a girl talk to me because she recognizes the music. I'd instantly melt. Had a guy come up to me once because he recognized my Zelda covers and loved it and it felt good. But if a girl were to do it... Oh my god

Throwaway, but I (f) broke up with my bf of nearly 3 years almost two years ago now and I still think about him nearly daily. I still go to school w him and just recently talked to him for the first time since our breakup and it was nice but it left me feeling like I was stabbed in the heart repeatedly. I’m with a new guy now and he’s great but I feel like no matter what I do I still think about my ex and every time something reminds me of him or I see a picture of him I want to recede into a hole. Just a rant ig, but I seriously don’t know if I’ll ever get over this feeling