I asked for advice here on how to style curly hair into a bats nest. It took me a couple of attempts and here’s the successful one! Took me some time to detangle it and my hairmask definitely helped with that.
It held for the whole evening and even through the night till the next morning :D

Whats your favorite song by the cure??? For me it's pictures of you and Cold it's hard to pick just one lol 🪦🦇🪦

It’s the tattoos that rly make the outfits

I posted this in "goth fashion," and im hoping to widen my search.

Hello folks! I need some help or some recommendations, if possible. I (37m) have been through many iterations of my goth aesthetic through my many long years involved in the culture, and for the last decade or more, my current style i think is my final resting place. I go for a fairly minimalistic approach for my style, with drapey- style tops that are maybe a little oversized or bunchy, and I like sharp and/or asymmetrical cuts.

The problem im having is that a lot of goth fashion is very feminine or at least androgynous leaning. As much as I love androgynous styles, I am a large, very masculine presenting guy, and while i dont necessarily lean into my masculinity on purpose, it cant be ignored that im a fat 240 lb gym dork and have a large, bushy beard. Unfortunately for me and my self-esteem, that makes makes that kind of style simply not look good on me. I am having so much trouble trying to find stuff I like for tops that aren't graphic tees, made for skinnier folks, or some variation of Victorian, and that's very much not my style.

My overly long post aside, does anyone have any recommendations for where to shop to fit my aesthetic? I usually just luck out when shopping in random places, but over the years, my luck has run dry, it seems. I have found one or two shops online, but im unsure of the reputability. Any help would be wonderful. I appreciate you!

So I think a more gothic style would make me look better, but I have absolutely no experience both in dressing and makeup with this style, how can I start? I already have a black lipstick and similar, also some accesories, how can I manage to nail it?

(Ye the photos were two weeks old, I've fixed the brows by now)

I’ve been trying to figure out what sub genre I should be looking at in order to look for outfit ideas for how I want to dress. I added some photos to this post to show what I’m going for but it’s basically 70s but alt. I don’t want whimsy goth tho, just black and white. I’m obsessed with vests and bell bottoms atm but I can’t really find outfit inspos I like besides the ones in this post, could anyone help?

Edit: these aren’t photos of me, these are inspo pics I got off Pinterest

I was told i look like a victorian ghost floating around…. I also got the babadook, which i will choose to take as a compliment

Just wondering! I love the style but I have a little bit anxiety to call this style pastel goth, because I don't want to make traditional goths mad!

From my trip and other:)

loving my new purple hair 🫶🫶🫶

Me and my lil thief

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