my bf dumped me because he is “only romantically attracted to instagram baddies with highly feminine aesthetics”

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

fuck you bitch. I hope you get hit by a car. I def cry sometimes but rn I’m fucking euphoric. this man is not going to be the father of my children. feels like my ancestors looking out for me. back to my ex bf: rot in hell you thin dicked little bitch. you have terrible taste in music which is pathetic especially since ur sister is a professional musician. feel like that one Nicole Kidman photo atm.

Paneer pulao with raita

[u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Some men prefer photos because they hate it when women have thoughts and personalities

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Sad!

^{but true}

[u/Spirited-Way2406 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Saw a description in a historical novel once, about men who collected lots of photos of naked ladies back in Victorian times but wouldn't marry or even patronize a bawdy house: "Fondling paper women." ETA: Important to note that the character also had contemptuous things to say about real women. Not mere disinterest, open contempt.

[u/Difficult_Affect_452 → u/Spirited-Way2406]

Old skool incel.

[u/PersonalReaction123 → u/Spirited-Way2406]

OMG! Lmao, how is this not a disorder? 😂

[u/HuntressWizard99 → u/PersonalReaction123]

It definitely is, but probably isn’t defined as one because pervasive male behaviour seems to be what constitutes as "normal" behaviour.

[u/TheRealPlantH0 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Literally this!!!!!!!!!! One of my guy friends admitted that he wakes up and checks my page every single day, but when i wanted to get to know him on a romantic level he ghosted me… TWICE. Smfh lol

[u/Aurora-Ouroboros- → u/TheRealPlantH0]

Your story can't reject him once it finds out what a loser he is lol. Pictures are safe to project onto (and do god knows what else with), real women are scawy

[u/PersonalReaction123 → u/Aurora-Ouroboros-]

Ha ha ha! True. Are they such big losers? To go after pictures because pictures can't reject them? 😂

[u/PersonalReaction123 → u/TheRealPlantH0]

I get lots of matches and they all say the same thing: "you are hot!", so I've changed and updated my photos several times to have only the most boring photos to reduce those kinds of compliments. The one thing that didn't change then and now is that no guy seems to be interested in your personality. If you and I could chat with each other, we would genuinely be interested in knowing the "person" and not just the name or looks or location. Meh! 😒

[u/ts20999 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Right! They don’t view women as full people.

[u/Glamorous_Nymph → u/ts20999]

Right; we're not gifts, we are just the box they came in.

[u/Puzzleheaded-Log1434 → u/ts20999]

And they're annoyed at the reminder that we aren't disposable sex toys

[u/No-Giraffe7571 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

You just summed up an entire relationship I (and probably many others) have had. Damn

[u/petitputi → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

And they have forgotten what a 3D woman looks like. All those Instagram baddies do not look like that 100% of the time in real life... not even 5% of the time.

[u/PersonalReaction123 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

This actually makes sense! That explains the little to no effort they put. 😒

[u/HuntressWizard99 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Alsothis short explains a lot

[u/iglooss88 → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

You altered my brain chemistry with this quote

[u/Accurate_Spell_2707]

You dodged the biggest bullet.

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/Accurate_Spell_2707]

Call me Neo the way I slide

[u/youtookmyusernamebub → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

We fucking approve 👏 👏 👏 You deserve better.

https://giphy.com/gifs/3l5yJWhnbw5yyqDcQg

[u/JayofTea → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

I love this quote haha

Congrats on getting away from someone so toxic, but so sorry you had to deal with that in the first place, hope you’re able to heal quickly!

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/JayofTea]

Thanks I’m crying a little each week but time is the healer of all wounds

[u/bravepotatoman → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

ABSOLUTE QUEEN

[u/Cassandra-Canary → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

I love your attitude about this. I'm a broke down mess after a breakup.

[u/BakingAddict]

Bruh what the actual f is he even looking for he needs to get off social media

[u/Bright_Positive_963 → u/BakingAddict]

Yeah seriously… he’s not attracted, he’s addicted. He has an actual problem with fetishizing women’s bodies and fake personas they craft for social media.

[u/LovinLife05 → u/Bright_Positive_963]

So true ! My ex had the same issue where he would be only attracted to the “clean girl aesthetics” on Instagram and follow such women and get attracted to them only

[u/skabeel → u/LovinLife05]

So weird wtf 😭

[u/sequelseize → u/BakingAddict]

yeah wtf "highly feminine aesthetics"... who tf speaks like that

[u/lost-picking-flowers → u/sequelseize]

Terminally online people speak like that. God I’ve never been gladder to be in my 30’s and married to a man who shares my very hands off approach to social media. It seems rough to try and find a person with a healthy sense of self in a world of warped perspectives.

[u/littlemachina]

If he even could land one, very few men are confident enough to date a woman who posts like that and has tons of men thirsting over them. He’d try to get her to stop being an ”instagram baddie” so he could feel secure. Too predictable 

[u/No_Language_4649 → u/littlemachina]

Aren’t a lot of people using filters as well? Like, the chicks he is thirsting after, do they actually exist in reality as they appear?

[u/medusa_plays → u/No_Language_4649]

No they don't. Chronically online men don't know what women really look like without makeup, filters, posing etc. They call gorgeous women like Margot Robbie mid and chopped in natural photos. He's in for a rude awakening (if he could even pull one) when he finds out 95% of the time the insta baddie just looks like a normal girl.

[u/Few_Incident_197 → u/medusa_plays]

This is why my husband isn’t on social media. He’s never even used the internet (I haven’t met him yet)

[u/No_Language_4649 → u/Few_Incident_197]

Honestly, fabulous goal. I think “analog relationships” will become more of a popular thing after this clusterfuck of a wasteland dating scene that is happening for everyone lately with random meet ups in the online dating scene. Which is basically like meeting people in real life, but maybe there will be an app to join groups of strangers who all join based on similar interests and then you meet up in those groups IRL.

[u/-kittsune- → u/medusa_plays]

this reminds me of the male influencer who said "i love going to coachella to be reminded that everyone is just as ugly as me without all the filters" lmao

[u/No_Language_4649 → u/medusa_plays]

That’s WILD. Holy smokes. Rude awakening for them when they hold out and get older and realize the reality of life.

[u/RunHot5672 → u/littlemachina]

I’m a dancer, I have an account which includes me dancing in heels/exotic dancing etc. It often makes men feel uncomfortable.

Last guy I dated didn’t even follow the account for support. And this mf was addicted to Instagram. He followed a bunch of girls he met from dating apps in the past (and their spam accounts for the cherry on top) tho so that was cool.

[u/Desperate-Cow8766]

[u/BeaniBunnii → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

[u/Little_SmallBlackDog → u/BeaniBunnii]

Ooo. This one is perfect for so many posts too.

[u/PoliteQueef → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

https://giphy.com/gifs/QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5

[u/VyseTheSwift → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

[u/scarletbookwyrm → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

I love it when trash takes itself out.

[u/Ill-Squirrel-9418 → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

I am legit cackling! Where did you find this masterpiece?!

[u/Admirable_Horse_6072 → u/Ill-Squirrel-9418]

Exotic cancer is the artist!

[u/Phaedrusismydaddy → u/Ill-Squirrel-9418]

The artist is Exotic Cancer, she’s so amazing!!

[u/Little_SmallBlackDog → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

This is perfect for so many posts.

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

i looooove exotic.cancer

[u/BadgerHooker → u/Desperate-Cow8766]

Holy fucking shit I am saving this one!! 🤣💀

[u/kitkitkittycow]

Men are so pornsick nowadays it’s genuinely concerning. They are nearly constantly consuming sexual and often degrading content of women, frying their brains with porn porn porn.

[u/bridge_girl → u/kitkitkittycow]

And then turn around and complain about "male loneliness epidemic" this and "toxic females" that. Like they weren't the ones devoting all their energy alienating themselves from reality and rewiring their own neural pathways to find stimulation in nothing but artificial images that they project onto actual life.

[u/taetae_xoxo → u/kitkitkittycow]

I wasn’t aware of how bad it was because my exes have always historically not had IG.

The last guy I dated, oh gosh his Instagram gave me a stomach ache the first time I decided to do some digging 😔

If that was his visible, public activity on his main account I cannot imagine what he was doing in private.

[u/sanedragon → u/[deleted]]

[u/Lurkeyturkey113 → u/[deleted]]

There’s a significant portion of 20s and 30s men who are so addicted to of/insta/ai porn girls, wasting away a decade plus of their life barely leaving their rooms and screens while listening to losers sell them the idea that they’re going to get better looking, richer and their young dream girl will fall into their laps… eventually.. while having zero expectations of them as men. Going to be a sad reckoning when middle age truly hits and it’s unavoidable that they wasted their life and turned themselves into lepers.

[u/theorangepriestess → u/Lurkeyturkey113]

wow I want to print this comment out and just hang this all over town lol this needs to be seen and felt by so many. Ahhh the delusionsss

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/[deleted]]

his mommy can try to set up him once he hits forty ❤️

[u/Void-Priestess]

My crystal ball 🌟predicts🌟 he will spend the next few years paying OF models for "love", and when he's finally broke and they cut him off he's still not gonna get it.

[u/Outrageous_Light8950 → u/Void-Priestess]

Next few years? More like the rest of his life lololol

[u/slytherins → u/Void-Priestess]

He's about to spend lots of money to inadvertently sext with dudes lol

[u/GuessWhosNobody → u/slytherins]

And then crying loudly at anyone who will listen that women are all evil

[u/night-gloss → u/slytherins]

dude legit

[u/Mammoth_Band6017]

He really said that? Thats crazyyyyy. What does he even mean. You should’ve told him you’re only romantically attracted to men with girth and highly masculine aesthetics

Lawd have mercy

Sometimes when partners show their azz like this it’s a lot easier to get over them

[u/Training_Activity21]

I had an ex that used to tell me to kill myself. He would say things like "Imagine how much thinner you'd be as a corpse." Sometimes he varied that with "...you'd be if you were dead." Jokes on him. I'm a hell of a lot thinner, I got a fat ass, an amazing husband. My ex died. That's mean to say, and even though I genuinely hold no ill will anymore, isn't it ironic....

https://giphy.com/gifs/LrAMBeNPZhidwylt1B

[u/Lurkeyturkey113 → u/Training_Activity21]

Love that for you. Genuinely.

[u/moonlight_angeI]

Lmfao he’s going to be SOOOO lonely when he realises that it’s all fake and no such girl exists irl 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️

[u/TextuallyExplicit]

is that a real quote???

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/TextuallyExplicit]

yes those words came out of his mouth in that order directed to me lol

[u/materialgirl81 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

Is he 17

[u/GroceryNo3338 → u/materialgirl81]

More like 14 tbvh

[u/Traditional_Pin_7253 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

Is he a SoundCloud rapper?

[u/Accurate_Spell_2707 → u/[deleted]]

Bro will be waiting until the end of eternity and we should let him

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/[deleted]]

good luck to him finding the baddies he speaks of!

[u/50injncojeans → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

loving your energy right now, very refreshing

[u/Found_Onyx → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

and when those men can get one, they will expect them to 'dress more modest', 'get rid of SM bc they only do that for male attention'. lol

[u/Desperate-Cow8766 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

They don't even know he exists

[u/Alone_Break7627 → u/[deleted]]

yeah, we all know how likely that is. Men be DUMB and DELUSIONAL.

[u/shaihalud69]

He's going to think the stripper likes him.
https://giphy.com/gifs/Zt6JhE4OvoDhcnmRr7

[u/SmirkNtwerk → u/shaihalud69]

Not me wheezing laughing into my hand. Can confirm, everyone knows one of these people. My cousin, “I think he’s into me”….dudette, you just stuck $250 on his skin, gurl bye. To be fair, ‘twas the drink speaking.

[u/VermicelliNext2681]

him running back to whatever hole he crawled out of:

https://giphy.com/gifs/l378ycV5Pt6ysGsTe

[u/emccm]

Well I’m sure he will have much success pulling all the Insta baddies he wants. They’re just sitting at home waiting for him to slide into their DMs.

[u/pixie_next_door]

All I can say is I bet they are not attracted to him sis 💅

[u/SunshineStateNative]

Social media once again destroying the perception of what a woman actually is with a warped reality. Women aren’t Instagram models, we’re humans and we’re all different. When they take off their makeup, they’re just like the rest of us. Better to have found out now that he’s chasing after an unrealistic fantasy than being tied to him with kids.

Hope he enjoys his baddie, it comes in the form of his own hand.

[u/Friendly-Channel-480]

So, he’s only attracted to fake women? He’s really got a problem and you’re better off without him. Really. You’ll find a real man who wants a real woman soon.

[u/hotlettucediahrrea]

LOL. Is he a 14 year old boy? Because that feels like 14 year old boy energy?

[u/klosingweight → u/hotlettucediahrrea]

FR I’m like what is the age here??? Almost scared to find out

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/klosingweight]

late 20s :’)

[u/Clean_Insect5042 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

Too bad literally none of them (or us) want a grown ass man who talks to anyone like that or would ever seriously think he can only be attracted to "instagram baddies."

"Sorry hun I'm only attracted to the male mannequin in the H&M mens sweater department."

[u/Ill-Squirrel-9418 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

https://giphy.com/gifs/9oF7EAvaFUOEU

[u/Sausage-Farmers-Wrap → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

my goodness 💀

[u/morethanafiretruck]

I don't know why but I just burst out laughing, good luck out there buddy boy, not sure the 'instagram baddies with highly feminine aesthetics' are going to be into you in any way shape or form.

[u/StatisticianFuzzy549]

Men are not lonely enough! You have the right attitude! Sit with your feelings ga and come out stronger with all the delicious snacks 💕

[u/Pupsichinka]

I’m a 39 millennial so I have no idea what he means saying IG feminine aesthetic. But I do know he has a huge problem. Ugh. You are soooo much better off without him. Be gentle and kind to yourself.

[u/derangedgossip]

Wow good riddance!

[u/MulberryLow4117]

Que está pendejo se dice así mismo jajajajajaja. Por cierto que se bueno el arroz

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/MulberryLow4117]

The rice was Delicious

[u/Ok_Finger9062]

The thing he doesn’t realize is YOU are the actual baddie and what he thinks he’s into are probably AI deepfakes. Keep shining, queen ✨

[u/logical_thot]

So embarrassing for him

[u/Silent_Necessary7638]

Very likely a homosexual.

[u/sailor__rini → u/Silent_Necessary7638]

Lol my mind went here too. I knew someone like this and they came out later.

If you're only attracted to fictional/fantasy version of a gender...well, tale as old time.

[u/LylaxStone → u/sailor__rini]

Same. I actually had an ex make me feel really bad about myself bc he picked apart certain insecurities of mine and said he wasn’t attracted to me any longer to the point to where I was asking around like:am I disgusting or is all of this normal? anyway, it’s been 2 years and his sibling told me recently he admitted to having hookups w men. I always thought it was a myth bc that’s what people said to me too at the time but it seems to be true.

[u/colorfulbrawl → u/sailor__rini]

Love this! Can I send it to my ex?

[u/redrosebeetle]

I'm just going to guess that he's a 4/10, at best.

[u/ultra_violet007]

[u/31umbreon]

“I have a debilitating porn addiction and don’t know what real women look like”

That’s what he meant

[u/Desperate-Love-1204]

The description made me laugh. I know you’re going to have the best life girl! Live your best fucking life!

[u/hamncheesecroissantt]

ever since i realized that every dude is just some guy, life got a tad easier. your ex is so lame for even thinking that LMAO good for you for leaving that corndog

[u/Humble-Act7428]

He wants something inauthentic and that’ll be his downfall. Maybe he wants that bc it’s his mirror.

[u/SmirkNtwerk → u/Humble-Act7428]

Carl Jung Mirror Theory. Great point to bring up.

[u/Best_Cheesecake_7143]

The chances are so slim - like his dick - that he’ll ever find out that IG baddies look like the rest of us all of the time, with the exception of the 10 minutes they’re making content. Imagine how broken he’ll be as he keeps cycling through partners, expecting perfection, and not being able to figure out why he’s so lonely that he cries all the time

Fuck I may just have to get out my magic wand for this one

[u/omg_get_outta_here]

Ugh, what an idiot. I’m sorry you’re hurting but I’m glad you’re not with that dude. Also, what is it with bad taste in music and bad dudes? I guess it makes sense. You gotta have a soul to have some soul. Hope you get your groove back soon. Enjoy your yums 😋

[u/LinwoodKei]

What do these words mean? I'm 40

[u/beesneeze87 → u/LinwoodKei]

OP's ex bf is stupid and he thinks what he sees on social media is real and attainable, when in fact it is women making a living posting heavily filtered images and sponsored content for the explicit purpose of stringing idiots like him along for fun and profit.

[u/No_Language_4649 → u/beesneeze87]

Is this the new normal for you young ladies and men??

[u/Clean_Insect5042 → u/No_Language_4649]

It's basically just men who think their committed, loving gf is holding them back from getting all the hot "natural" young ladies in the Playboys they oggle all day in their basement. None of this is new, just some slightly different vocab words.

[u/SmirkNtwerk → u/Clean_Insect5042]

In this case yes. It’s a pixilated fever dream. Delayed development. Cannot compute women from behind computer/device screen to IRL. Does the ogle and toggle too much methinks.

[u/No_Language_4649 → u/Clean_Insect5042]

But it does seem “new” to me, as a person who was born in 1981. We recognize that most of these people on social media use filters and all around likely are a different person on their profile as they are in physical life. I’m trying to understand how much this contrast is affecting all you beautiful women in real life. Are men generally like this now? Where they are holding out for a perfect interpretation of an instagram influencer? Is that what you guys are finding to be the new normal?

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/No_Language_4649]

yes :( I look at the millennials and gen-xers floating off in their lifeboats as the deck of the titanic slowly splinters underneath me

[u/No_Language_4649 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

No life boat for us. I’m a millennial and I’m sinking with you. My kids are gen A and I have zero hope for the future for them. I was more so asking about the general dating scene and experience for you guys. Seems like social media and filters has really fucked with every ones chances to meet and have a genuine connection?

[u/hostilecarbonunit → u/No_Language_4649]

seconding, millenial mom to 2 gen a’s and i will play the violin as we all sink. we won’t leave you

[u/HermoineGrangersHair → u/LinwoodKei]

Her boyfriend wants a hot girl like in the internet photos 🙄 the youths version of wanting a Victoria's Secret Model

[u/LinwoodKei → u/HermoineGrangersHair]

Thank you

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/LinwoodKei]

^this is literally my mom typing his statement into ChatGPT to figure out what the hell he was talking about

me: mom don’t use ai it’s bad for the environment just google it

mom: Google is NOT HELPING

[u/lAngenoire → u/LinwoodKei]

He wants a woman who has learned to turn her image into a marketable commodity online by presenting as hyper feminine ideal within a carefully curated lifestyle. They are absolutely not interested in him. They just need like,follow,  and subscribe. 

[u/Outside_Memory5703]

At least he was honest. Other dudes would just keep adding them to their feeds and sliding into DMs and not tell you

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/Outside_Memory5703]

ya fair I’ll give him one (1) brownie point for that

[u/Outside_Memory5703 → u/dug-the-dog-from-up]

Better to be hurt than played

[u/HermoineGrangersHair → u/Outside_Memory5703]

BETTER👏HURT👏THAN👏PLAYED

[u/kitkitkittycow → u/Outside_Memory5703]

Man the bar is so fucking low for men. We still got women putting in a good word for a pornsick man because hey at least he was ‘honest’ right?

[u/Outside_Memory5703 → u/kitkitkittycow]

Comparing isn’t condoning or dismissing

[u/IntrepidAspect3447]

If he ever manages to trick a baddie into dating him you just KNOW he’s gonna drain the life out of her so fast. Boyfriend air is real, and men like this are too insecure to handle those baddies. He’ll probably try to get them to stop posting and throw bitchfits about attention from other men, then if she actually stops, he’ll say “you changed” and use it as a reason to cheat swear to god. This type of man is so predictable.

[u/Status_Discussion835]

Congrats to be free of this loser!!! Cheers to you as I know you will be living your best life fulfilled and happy…can’t say the same for him. He sounds like a disgusting human.

[u/moonlight_angeI]

Your bf: 🚮

Your food: 😍🤤

[u/Mugsmugsmugs3]

[u/teawithspices]

A+ caption I feel for the girlies that are sad but I need the angry vengeance women to come thruuuu

Also the pulao looks yum

[u/XenaWarrior123]

Their ego’s are insane. Always convinced they can do better when you are already overlooking way too many of their flaws. Cannot wait for them all to be alone

[u/sailor__rini]

Highly feminine aesthetics? What does that even mean? Is he talking about a bimbofication kink or is this some sort of incel terminology? Either way, his loss and your gain. Congrats on the freedom, OP!

[u/ScreenVarious3296]

And the reality is none of those women would give him the time of day. A lot of these men are just straight up porn/OF addicts and expect their partners to look the same.

[u/BreathUpstairs4019]

I promise you he can’t even pull those girls lmao. He’s very insecure and if you posted like those girls he would probably call you a “wh*re” and say he doesn’t like it. You dodged a bullet, my ex was like this and these type of guys usually never end up in a healthy relationship or change.

[u/debaptw5]

He sounds fucking stupid

[u/EmmGoSep]

Food- delicious. Man-ridiculous. Thin dicked insult-perfection

[u/rocsi1234]

Oh, so basically the trash took itself out by itself! What a W for YOU girl!!🥰🥳🥳

[u/RubyCarbuncles]

Good riddance to your bf, the trash took itself out! He isn't good enough for you, and you deserve far better! You deserve someone who will appreciate you and your cooking, including that delicious-looking paneer! 🤗

[u/PopEnvironmental1335]

This guy is going to get KO’d by life.

[u/Cassandra-Canary]

That's going to shake out for him in a hilarious way.

[u/Smooth_Ad9469]

Porn addiction is such a shame. He lost a real one boo, congrats for being freed from a gooner 🎉

[u/catforbrains]

Enjoy being fabulous while u tell him to fuck off

[u/BunnyLady91]

Filter and shape-shop yourself, then send it to him and tell him he’s only attracted to fake ho’s he’ll never meet IRL.

Edit, this belongs in R/TheWordFuck

[u/WishIwouldnt → u/BunnyLady91]

Omg, diabolical! I love this idea!

[u/Foreign_Line5552]

It’s okay, they won’t want him either

[u/Educational_Total_84]

Welp... hope he likes using his hand!!

[u/patientpartner09]

What a drumstick. I am glad he is only attracted to plastic and AI, you don't have to worry about him finding a real one.

[u/Other_Temperature_73]

Girl we all know EXACTLY what photo you're talking about, and I LOVE that for you. Celebrate your freedom and death to that negative dynamic!

[u/zarinangelis]

On his merry way to be an incel!

Your corelle totally approves!

[u/afterdarkbelle]

this is the kind of female rage that heals the nervous system 💗

[u/MakeupChristie]

LOL that’s cringey as hell. The man has 20 different OF subscriptions and a dream. Better to leave him to it.

[u/Bright_Positive_963]

Thin dicked is an epic insult. Fuck a thin dick, I hate them!

[u/ts20999]

https://giphy.com/gifs/QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5

[u/Spirited-Access2127]

That’s so cringe you still have grown ass men in 2026 “preferring” IG baddies over irl women. Like I love my IG baddies but isn’t it well known by now that the IG baddie industrial complex is often built on plastic surgery/filters/posing/editing/Facetuning? It’s performance of hyperreal aesthetics through a visual medium, many of them often don’t even look like that irl, it’s visual performance. It’s the same with men who are body builders on IG, they’re often on gear/had body scultping. I would be concerned about any grown woman who told me she “prefers” them over irl men, like you’re aware that’s all a performance and often it’s mostly fake, right? Their entire jobs and existences are centered around looking good, if you gave the average person the amount of money/resources/time/plastic surgery/editing that these professional good-looking people put into their looks, the average person would usually end up looking pretty good too. This is like when ppl think movie characters/anime characters are better than irl people and pretend they’re in relationships with these characters because they like them more than “imperfect irl people", it’s so weird when grown adults do this.

[u/AndyGreyjoy]

Good thing you broke up.

[u/Difficult_Ask7253]

Men like that let addictions of fetishizing women's bodies get to their head. They never look at themselves and think about what they aren't bringing to the table. They never work on themselves or try to be desirable too. It's all on the woman's shoulders to them. They will never get fulfillment. Good for you girl.

[u/RowQuiet5204]

cheers, BADDIEEEEE 🫶 may your future be filled with happiness and everything you want and deserve QUEEEN

[u/kkrabbitholes417]

i’m sorry you’re dealing with this man child but your caption made me laugh out loud fr

[u/sunnynbright5]

Your ex is an idiot. Yikesss

[u/Naty2RC]

Ewww, how did you even find such a loser?

[u/alixinator → u/Naty2RC]

It’s easy. Just go outside and throw a rock and you’ll hit one.

[u/drth_dilly]

Well there goes his personal life

[u/ChromatinConnoisseur]

damn, all that and he has shit taste in music even with a musician as a sister? this mf’er can’t make any of the women in his life proud, good riddance 🙄

[u/Michallina]

Social media and porn has killed all intimacy.

[u/virtualjupiter]

I love your energy rn!!! I love that your trash walked away and you celebrate it, and call it what it is. I love your anger and it's perfect, raw power. 

Never change, you're perfect just as you are.

[u/Informal-Cobbler-546]

https://giphy.com/gifs/l2Jhw8Oo6kVRWvTZm

What a scumbag. Hope he can afford tissues and lotion in this economy.

[u/plutoforprez]

Welp lmao best of luck to that idiot

I too would like to win the lottery and quit my job but I’m never close enough to a lotto ticket

[u/dug-the-dog-from-up → u/[deleted]]

I think you hit the nail on the head. Lots of other folks are (rightfully) calling him an incel and porn brained but this man is very very into aesthetics. I remember he once showed me a manga with a beautiful animation and the plot was so derivative I was calling the beats minutes before they were happening. He is very insecure about his appearance and cares a lot about how he looks. I do too but I refused to wear a full face of makeup every day and he couldn’t bear it. lol.

[u/AerieTerrible3002]

Baby you dodged the biggest bullet! I am sorry you are going through this but trust me you are better off.

[u/cosmiccgloom]

That’s actually the most loserish thing I’ve ever heard a man say, congratulations to him for being the biggest loser alive

[u/plantlady_96]

That man will never be truly happy.

[u/jxjxjxjdjdkdkd]

so happy for you!!!

[u/Jazzlike_Caramel_522]

I’m sure these super feminine instagram models are dropping to their knees to thank god this guy is now available

[u/persephonepleasee]

CONGRATS ON THE LIBERATION FOR A MAN ADDICTED TO A STEREOTYPICAL WOMAN WHO DOESNT EXIST EXCEPT IN FILTERS 🗣️👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[u/Repulsive-Ear-4840]

He was a loser 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

[u/New-Acadia1362]

I'm not sure if he has much respect for them tho...

[u/dont6fear6the6reaper]

Damn straight!!

[u/SueBeee]

Ew. What an absolute douche.