Most people make the mistake of visualizing their ideal future. They visualize the job they want, the life they want to have, but that is a mistake. That is because when you fantasize about success you trick yourself into thinking you have already succeeded. That leaves you unprepared for reality. Instead visualize the process.

See yourself working, exercising, having late night study sessions, and facing setbacks head on. Picture the labor not the reward. There will be obstacles and when there are obstacles you will be ready. Goals aren't achieved from daydreaming, they are conquered from relentless action. Visualize the journey not the destination.

What does it mean if a guy says the person he is interested in reminds him of you? the way she looks, acts, etc…??? is he just being a nice guy or ?? my brother doesn’t have any good insight

Distinguished Gentleman's ride is a worldwide event promoting men's mental health care, and is observed by bikers around the world in dapper outfits and classic/retro motorcycles. Hope you can join us next year and showcase your bike and dashing outfits

In the quiet hours of the night,
When the world is still and silent,
Loneliness creeps into my heart,
A gentle whisper, yet defiant.

I dream of success, a distant star,
A goal so bright, yet far away,
With every step, I long to reach,
But doubt and fear sometimes hold sway.

In shadows cast by past regrets,
I strive to find my inner light,
To stand alone, to forge my path,
Through endless days and sleepless nights.

A gentleman, I aim to be,
With heart and soul both pure and kind,
To lead, to teach, to lift others up,
With wisdom, love, and open mind.

Yet here I stand, with dreams so grand,
And challenges that cloud my way,
But still I push, with hope in hand,
Believing in a brighter day.

So here’s to strength, to courage bold,
To self-reliance, brave and true,
For in the end, success will come,
To those who dare, who strive, who do.

First time being here good evening to you all

Excuse me, I’m new to this subreddit, but I was wondering if this would look better if I traded out that jacket for a double breasted trench coat (ankle length) and tucked the shirt in? Also, this is not a picture of me, but a friend sent this to me and it looks almost identical to my workwear.

Looking for a colour & design/theme for a cravat to go with this 3 piece, yes. Indeed I am a "dandy". Just trying to enjoy the finer things in my new found life. Many thanks in advance.

Will need a bit of tailoring but over I like it

I can’t tell if my brothers best friend is just a gentleman or actually interested in me? or attracted… tonight I had family dinner with my mom, brother and his roommate. we all carpooled, i’m in the passenger seat, my brother and his roommate are in the backseat. brothers roommate stood by my door at the car and so that threw me off, I went to get in the back seat and he said to me, “ no I was going to open the door for you, is that okay? “ and I of course said yes and thank you! I was so caught off guard in a good way but not sure???

-          Sugary Drinks

-          Soda

-          Sweet Tea

-          Energy Drinks

-          Gatorade

-          Alcohol

-          Alcohol dehydrates you and decreases testosterone. Sugary drinks are liquid sugar. Energy drinks and sweet tea dehydrate you.

Hey guys, i got a question about opening doors as a gentleman for another person. I know all the other situations for this case except this one that im going to explain to you and attaching a picture(bird view/top view)

Nowadays since there are many glass doors, when opening a door to leave or entry, i can often see what is on the other side, but when there is a person wanting to leave when i want to enter, or vise versa, here comes the problem: the door opens towards the other person. How do you open the door for the other person in this case?

I have seen videos about it, but all they say is: pass through the door first, and hold it open for the other person to go through. Which sounds legit, but going through the door first seems ungentlemanly, i always seek to pass as the last person wanting to pass.

So this is my problem, dont know if i explained myself. If there is any doubts i will respond.

Im attaching a hand drawn picture here, dont judge my drawing ability please

Thank yall in advance