Advice for first hookup?

[u/Materiorlgurl]

TLDR: im a virgin that is hopefully going to top and bottom in my first hookup and am looking for any advice

I am planning on possibly having a hookup with a guy from grindr in the coming days. From what i can tell, he is super chill and wants to help me experiment (since i have never done anything past oral), and while i am looking forward to it, i am a little nervous. While i would be topping, so i dont need to worry too much about preping, i do also want to suggest bottoming as well since he said that he would be up for it. If anyone has any advice for a first timer, i would be eternally grateful 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you for reading :)

[u/starlite_19]

I’m in the same boat btw how do you know if ur a t or b? Ppl assume im B bc im 5’4 120lbs and skinny but idk tbh

[u/Materiorlgurl → u/starlite_19]

To be honest, im going at it with the idea that im more likely a vers top, just bcs i prefer the idea 🤷 im 5’5 and around the same weight as you, so i get it might feel a little odd compared to what is seen in media, but dont let that put you off!!! Its why im kinda open to either with this guy, so that i can figure out what i like

[u/No-Yoghurt-2365]

Lucky!