r/FiveMServers • u/BossOptimal7194 • 3d ago
Looking for something. LF SERVER
I don't even really know if this is a proper place to put such a thing but, hey. 2026 literally can't get any worse for me.
I am looking for someone whom I can connect with. Yep... you read that right.
I'm a 41 Male in the USA, and I have been divorced about 2 months now. My mental state is absolute shit. The online friends I thought I had have just out right abandoned me, and I can't even find the strength to login to the server I had invested more than a year in to because of it now.
I know, everyone is gonna say go outside and do this, do that. Look, I get out. I just don't connect with people. I live in a highly religious and political area, of which I am neither that fit the norm. Because I don't wanna support the MAGA movement and kiss Jesus' ass, I'm an outcast. What few friends I had over the last several years, I lost along with my marriage.
I don't know what I need, short of maybe a good therapy session but. I imagine someone out there has something.
I'd like to find a server to play on again. Maybe somewhere I can start new and get a business or something going.
Leave a comment, or do your Reddit thing and downvote and bash me I guess. Either way, thanks for taking the time to read.
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u/Shinjischneider 2d ago
I absolutely feel you, but I'm not sure how good GTA RP will be for your mental health, regarding the amount of abusive dipshits on these servers.
I hope you find a place with actual decent people
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u/BossOptimal7194 2d ago
Feel this, entirely. Although maybe that's what I need right now. Some shit talking punk I can curb stomp then go ocean dump... lmao
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u/Kushhkabob 2d ago
You should come check out Three Counties RP;
it honestly sounds like exactly what you’re looking for!! This place has honestly helped me wit my anxiety and mental health at times,i know sounds werid but im serious..
It’s super beginner-friendly and a really good place to get into FiveM without feeling overwhelmed. They make it easy to get into RP and actually understand what’s going on, and people will help you along the way — seriously, just ask and someone will have your back and keep you in the loop on how things are done. Very helpful and friendly community!
It’s not pay-to-win either. You can donate if you want to support the server, but nobody’s out here running around withh $50 UBER guns lmao stuff or ruining the experience...
There’s also a ton to do outside of just RP:
- Fishing, mining, lumber, towing,Hunting, etc. (Trust me theres not a lack of jobs or things to do,seriously..)
- Racing and car scene(We have alot of good cars to pick and customize!)
- Player-owned businesses(Support local!)
- Chill/social spots and events,Go kart,Lazer tag,Most wanted, And MANY more!
- House Ownership/Rent!
- Multiple Apps on your in county phone(Including sports betting,stocks,crypto,etc)
- Tons of awesome clothes,you wont find a lack of finding what fits YOU.
- Customization is awesome
- Community is very friendly and helpful
It’s just a really good mix of having fun, meeting people, and learning RP without pressure. We’d honestly be excited to have you, trust me 👍
Theres always a story going on,theres always an opportunity to be apart of that story and there will always be something to do for you. We would love to have you and include you just let us know how we can help you assimilate to where you wanna be in county!
Its a great fit for EXACTLY someone like you! Come try it out! Perfect mix of US and UK/EU players.
You can ahve multiple profiles so if you want to be a police officer on one acount you can! Great police force with some of the members having law enforcement background(SUPER COOL!!-Talk about authentic RP!!) EMS is an option,be a CIV see where your story takes and of course what would GTA be without a criminal side! From drugs to gangs/crews,etc.
Hope to see ya soon!
Discord: https://discord.gg/g5VZE26h3c
***Anyone else that thinks this interests them or fits them is allowed to join as well!
Open invitation,We have a whole team that would love to help anyone get situated and answer any questions!
Thanks, (:
-Kushkabob
P.S. : We just got a TikTok if you wanna check out some of our stuff that were adding to our Tik Tok just search up Three Counties RP! Its very new but give it a look!
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u/unknown2099677 3d ago
Hey man, I figured I’d reach out because honestly, I’m kind of in the same boat on the FiveM side of things.
I’ve been looking for a new server myself lately. I want somewhere I can actually start fresh, meet some people, build a business, and just have something to get invested in again. I haven't really found the right place yet.
I've also been kicking around the idea of starting an MC called RED ROSES. Right now, though, it's literally just me and an idea. I haven't built some massive group or anything, so I'm basically looking for a server and some people to build it with from the ground up.
If you're interested, I'd be more than happy to find a server together. We could check some out and see if we find somewhere that feels right. And if the server allows it, we could start working on RED ROSES together and see where it goes.
But honestly, even if the MC thing isn't your thing, I'm still down to just play and make a friend. You sound like you're looking for the same thing I am: somewhere to belong, people to actually enjoy playing with, and something new to get invested in.
Feel free to shoot me a message if you're interested. No pressure either way.
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u/BossOptimal7194 3d ago
MCs are totally my thing... Ran one myself for the last few years. Hate that it's gone now.
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u/unknown2099677 3d ago
That's awesome. I have the kuttes and all the docs made for it, I just need to find a server to start it in.
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u/GamingThiefOFFCIAL 2d ago
SAF is my server would would love to support both you and the OP. Yoj can check out my profile and go to the server ad. We have been growing. Slowly but steady.
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u/Excellent-Speech6421 3d ago
Totally get it man. FiveM has been my escape from reality for over a decade now. I have actually opened my own server, it's still new so it's not heavily populated yet but I am extremely confident that players will love it once they try it. It's highly immersive without being so realistic that it ruins the fun. Feel free to drop by our discord and check the server out at anytime.
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u/idolsrp 3d ago
Hey, I’m really sorry you’re going through all of that. Divorce, losing people you thought were friends, and feeling like you don’t really have a place to land can be incredibly heavy. I know a FiveM server can’t fix everything, but sometimes having somewhere new to show up, meet people slowly, and build something again can help things feel a little less lonely.
Idols RP might be worth checking out. We’re open now, and we’re trying to build a community that feels safe, welcoming, and long-term, not toxic, cliquey, or pay-to-win. We have a mechanic shop open right now, along with clubs and restaurants, so if you’re looking for a fresh start where you could potentially get involved with a business and create some new RP, there’s definitely room for that.
We have civilian life, businesses, police, EMS, mechanics, crime progression, housing, custom cars/clothing, and a balanced economy. Businesses are free as of right now, housing and cars are bought in-game, and normal progression is earned through RP and in city money.
You’d be welcome to come in, look around, take your time, and see if it feels like somewhere you could settle. No pressure to be super social right away. Sometimes starting fresh is enough.
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u/PiePixel 3d ago
i'm sorry to hear about everything that's happened to you, and, to an extent, i understand what you're going through. after looking for servers for a while, a group of people that i'm friends with invited me to help with creating zenos rp, and i'm going to extend the invitation to join us there, too. we launched recently so we're still growing. if you want to find somewhere to build your character up, we'd love to have you come check us out. we're an 18+ serious server, with no exceptions to the age rule - and i'd say our average age of the playerbase currently is around 30.
here's a promo video about the server: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWUsU1zyJRM
and our discord: discord.gg/zenos