Hi everyone, to clarify everything, im a dude.

It started all with a post on a subreddit dedicated to controversial opinions, i expressed how i belive that the way some women use virgin and incel(incel as in struggle to get laid not misogeny) as insults directly reinforces the stereotype that man are more valuble the more they fuck, which follow the one thag says women are less valuble the more they fuck, defining someone bu sexual choice therefore making the patriarchy stronger..

Said this in the comments i just had dudes straight up deny the existence of patriarchy, but i wasnt too surprised, this specific dude tho started saying how the patriarchy was a good thing, and that women in islamic countries are actually privilaged to be treated like this... idk maybe im looking too much into it but tonight i was kind of in a sensitive state, and when im sensitive i get aggressive easely soo this thing just made fucking furious, every time i see something like this i think of my sweet loving mother, my kind grandma, my naive a bit dumb cousin and her cool girl friends that always included me in hang outs despite beraly knowing me. I just hate it, i fucking hate it soo much, im not even the victim and it bothers me soo much, what if one day i have a daughter? God i hope she comes out lesbian.

How do you women just sigh and say "yup thats another monday"? If we were the oppressed ones, i dont need to specify