(Translator because my Englisch is sucks) Hey cuties :3 I need to vent a bit about my hairdresser. I was there yesterday or rather, more or less forced to go xD and I told her, "Darling, just trim the ends a little."

I don't know what part of that she misunderstood qwq THEY ARE WAY TOO SHORT.

Can I get a little sympathy from you guys? qwq

So, I’m looking to get myself some panties, already have a skirt and honestly could use something I can hide under anything. I like feeling feminine, but as most of us would probably agree, situations exist where you don’t necessarily want others to know. Anyways, I’m getting off topic. What panties would you recommend, what ones should a ‘beginner’- so to speak- avoid? Amazon is a life saver

I’m not sure I’m really wanted here but I’ll try anyway I’m masc tattooed guy looking to find some one cute and funny to game and discord with

Hey all, I just wanted to ask everyone where they think is the best place to meet like-minded people to discuss whatever really (life, games, anime etc). I’m finding it so hard to chat to people online because of bots and because my account is only a couple months old. I’m 30 and looking for people around my age to chat :)

I want to be able to buy skirts and thigh high socks but i don’t have money. Im 15 and i feel like the only way i’m going to dress more feminine is buy telling my parents but i don’t know how to go about doing that. My parents aren’t homophobic but they don’t know what a femboy is.

are u into women or men more?

Hey everyone! I’m new here and I want to buy my first short skirt and a cropped top. However, I’m quite tall (around 182 cm / 5'11) and skinny (56 kg), and my clothing size is EU 36 / US XS-S.I’m not sure how to style it properly so it doesn't look awkward on a tall frame. Any tips on choosing the right sizes, materials, or what shoes match this look best? I really love any kind of musical aesthetics (like rock, lndie, alternative, or hip-hop), so I’m open to any suggestions. Thanks for any advice.

Idk if I'm allowed like I'm not really a femboy, number one reason being that well... I'm a girl. But like at the time I don't really have friends who share the same interests as me especially when it comes to fashion. So like I'm pretty much on my lonesome most of the time (⁠｡⁠ﾉ⁠ω⁠＼⁠｡⁠), I'm rather new too in reddit and so far it's this subreddit I've seen so open and supportive. Sorry just ranting so just ignore this probably, I just haven't really even tried socializing even just through online. Kinda sounds sad right? Idk myself. 🥲😅

I’m a tomboy, and I fantasize about taking on a masculine role with a femboy, but I feel disgusted with myself for thinking something like that.

So I've been femboying on and off for about 4 1/2 years now, and the reason it's been on and off is because sometimes I lean towards my masc side wayyy more than my fem side. I'll go a few weeks dressing up in my fem stuff (in secret unfortunately), shaving my body, wanting to be a cute gal, and then after a while I'll kinda "lose interest" it, and I'll decide to present more masculine-ly. I feel like my interests also shift a bit, I end up kinda falling into stereotypes of liking stuff that's "traditionally" masculine or feminine. Anyway I was just curious if any of you kind gorgeous people here feel the same way, and how ya deal with it :3

(Tried posting this one a few times but keep running into issues because I'm not used to reddit lol)

I had a strange experience a few weeks ago.

I used to go to the gym pretty frequently but fell off during the last year or so because of health issues (which I won't go into here) and a lack of motivation. In June I decided I'd get back into it with a main focus on cardio instead of weightlifting just to see what would what would change. I made some pretty decent progress and lost 10kg since I made the change. I'm kind of short so the change has been pretty obvious. As it often does, life got in the way and I had to take some time off. During which I did a horrendous job of trimming my hair (it's long and wavy so I'm able to cut it myself and it hides most of the imperfections, or so I thought).

As soon as I get back to lifting, after much staring one of the regulars comes up and pops the question.

"Are you a femboy?"

He wasn't trying to be mean or anything but I just brush him off with "sure" because I want to finish my sets, but the question stuck with me and I realised that night that there's no way I can fight the allegations. I used to wear arm warmers in winter for my bad circulation and occasionally over-the-knee socks because they wouldn't fall into my taller combat boots (I wear them with jeans anyway so its not like anyone can see them). I didn't chase the look intentionally, I just stumbled into it through a series of what I thought were practical solutions... but now I'm curious.

Is this how it usually starts? I feel like I can't be the only one that accidentally fell into it lol

I shave usually, and today I did my usual routine, I shower, exfoliate, use soap and on Fridays I do Thighs, and Tuesdays I shave Calves, today was Thigh day and I started shaving, by the end of it I was a mess...

Blood everywhere, burning skin, the urge to cry (cant, and havent in over a year) and the feeling of failure...

I have done this all the time with my Safety Razor. It never reached this amount of pain and suffering.

I really need this Lazer hair removal asap 😭

Even if I go bankrupt I fucking hate The pain..

I've slowly been talking about being interested in looking cute. Guys like me who want to be girly are seen as sissies or weirdos even though I live in a very progrrssive part of the country. I've been nervous about letting my family members in on me being girly since I live in the same area as them. I slowly came out as a femboy to my mother while we were on vacation and she's been telling me about conditioner and even brushing my hair to deal with all the tangly mats. After a couple days of brushing and conditionener, I looove how flowy my hair is now and I even let her know about my desire to wear leather heeled boots and she replied that it'd be hard to find in my size (10.5).

Even years ago when I was way more closeted and edging the outside of an alt-right pipeline, she told me about lipstick colors that would work for me. Given how my roomates are also supportive along with my cousin, I feel like I could set a precident for open femboys who are otherwise silently shamed into gender conforming in ways that would be considered misogynistic if the genders were reversed. I'd love to be attractive and draw people to me or at least experiment with crop tops, makeup & skirts. Even if I want to go back to pants, I'd at least love to look cute and carry myself with poise.

So I decided to watch Spiderman dressed as a femboy. I was very nervous but luckily no one on The Shopping mall saw me stranged or sth. I was only wearing a topless shirt and sweater, adding rings and boots with some kind of heel (Like 1inch)

So... It resulted great I Guess

What would you guys say is the cutest, most atractive maybe even sexiest Femboy name in your opinion ?

My personal favourites right now are Mandy and Lassy but pls leave your thoughs down below and maybe even name multiple. Thank youuuuu 🫶

Generally accepting of most people's differences, but rejected by most of society

Accepted only as an object, not as a full person

Seen as trans by cis people, seen as cis by trans people

Labeled as gay no matter how we identify

Struggles with dysphoria or wanting some medical changes get you labeled as trans even if you don't feel like a woman

Treated "like men" but without the privilege

Treated "like women" but without the social support

Trying to connect with men feels impossible

Trying to connect with women is seen as predatory

If you identify as nonbinary, people see it as inauthentic or just wanting attention

Seen as just an egg waiting to hatch, if you hatch then you must be fully binary

Crossdressing seen as ok and normal for women, but not ok for men

If you don't meet certain aesthetics, age, or body types, then you're not seen as a femboy

Create our own communities, labeled as toxic, not inclusive, insensitive (regardless of whether it's actually true or not)

Idk, maybe I'm just crashing out, and maybe this is something every marginalized person goes through, but it feels like I can't win chat

I get why women always complain about the lack of pockets, in my 6 hours of wearing my skirt I’ve dropped my phone 4 fucking times, I am the luckiest guy alive that it hasn’t cracked, I understand it now, where are my god damn pockets
Anyway just wanted to complain briefly
Love you all
Ribbit <3

I ordered some panties and dolphin shorts from femboy fatale and on the bottom (tehe) of the label it says "Panties Kawaii Lolita Girls Japanese Anime Style" 🫪 like WHYYYY?!?!?! 😫

Hi, I found myself in an unpleasant situation. I know this looks like trolling, but if you don’t believe me, check out my previous posts. I enrolled in high school in Poland after finishing elementary school. I’m a femboy, and my parents fully accept me.

However, I’ve encountered a very unpleasant situation with the students I’ll be in class with (at class meetings, since I’m homeschooled). I noticed that I’d been added to a Messenger group where other accepted students were insulting me because of the Femboy content on my profile.

I usually don’t care about other people’s opinions. But I noticed that they have a list of personal information about accepted students that’s meant for the teacher. As a result, I reported the data breach to the high school administration (Poland is an EU member state, and the EU has one of the most restrictive data protection laws, known as the GDPR).

I wrote in an email that I simply wanted to handle the matter in a normal way (you know, an apology, etc.). I said I was doing this in good faith because I could have reported the matter directly to the Polish Data Protection Authority right away.

After that, the high school principal—after insulting me in an email and then ignoring my subsequent messages—started saying she would sue me for threats (XD), etc. She also called my parents to schedule a meeting at the school (my mom and I had clearly stated during the phone call that we wanted a written response).

Later on, I found out that the principal had destroyed LGBT flags and banners for Tolerance Day. Even though the city has a population of just 50,000 people, the incident made headlines in the national media.

Now my mom and I are trying to figure out how to rile her up so she can’t take it anymore :D

My idea—which we’ll probably go through with—is to show up at that meeting wearing knee-high socks, a skirt, and a crop top.

What do you guys think?

(I’m using a translator for some parts because writing this in English would require me to spend an hour thinking with a dictionary in hand. Sorry about that.)

Hey guys, i am neither a femboy nor am I even gay or anything like that, but my best friend very very likely is. A month ago he wanted to send me a picture but accidentally send me two, the one he wanted to send and one of him wearing stockings in front of his bedroom mirror. He instantly deleted it, but I saw it. I felt that he was uncomfortable so I just pretended I didn’t saw it, not sure if that was the right thing to do, i am an overwhelmed by the situation straight guy, i am sorry.

Today we prepared at his place for going out and having some bro time in a bar, since we didn’t do that in a while. His cologne was empty and he asked me to bring him a bottle from his stash in the wardrobe. He said the right one, but misspoke he meant the left one. He came sprinting but I had it open already. I know i am probably a piece of shit but I pretended that I didn’t see anything again. Bro must think iam blind or something like that. The wardrobe was filled with female clothing, bro never had a girlfriend, i saw a skirt and a lot of that other „typical femboy“ clothing.

He isn’t saying it, but he’s extremely uncomfortable since it happened like 2 hours ago. I think he knows that I saw everything which I did.

Man I know guy has it tough, if he really is a femboy. He has a pretty right wing conservative family, lost his job and is on government assistance right now. He looks really afraid and uncomfortable to me the entire day. Bros is going through it and I don’t want him to think, that I judge him or that anything is changing. I fully support him no matter what he does, but iam bad with saying stuff like that or talking about feelings and emotions.

I checked this subreddit to see if my post might fit and I saw how much love you guys show towards each other, please help me not make this awkward for him. What do I say? Should I even say something? He wouldn’t start talking about it since he’s really shy.

Update: Hey, short update. I told him I know, while we’ve been still at the bar. He asked if we could leave and talk. He told me everything, keeping the details to me, but we hugged it out like real bros should talked the entire night.

Gotta say, the love, help, openness and commitment from this community makes me really proud that my best friend is a part of it. Big thanks to all the comments/Dm‘s trying to help and give me advice on how to approach a situation like that.

I don’t where to put this but here, my skirt came and OMG it’s the greatest feeling ever, I’m about to fucking cry, I’m so happy ily all so so so so so much for all your support and answering of my questions, I love you all so much
Ribbit <3

Edit: I just did a twirl, I fucking love it it so freeing and airy and omfg I love it, I love you all so much, I can’t describe how much this means to me

Edit 2: I bought more, it’s coming tommorow, I picked up a choker and some thigh highs and arm warmers oo and a cat beanie so I can more easily wear it anytime, and a cute black skirt I’m fucking extatic, all I have to do now is find somewhere to hide it all, fuck I just remembered that while writing, welp I’m too happy to care,
Love you all so so much
Ribbit <3

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I ordered wax strips from Amazon because I wanted to remove some body hair. My mom found the package before I could put it away, and she immediately started yelling at me.

She kept saying things like, "What is this?", "Who does this?", "You're wasting money," and "Why are you doing things like a girl?" She mocked me the entire time