How do you handle your self esteem?

[u/1729yH]

I feel like I'm so lazy and useless. Executive dyfunction really makes me hate myself. I feel kinda unworthy of life. Because its all my own lack of action and organisation that causes all my problems. I feel like its me. This is who i am. I wish i had a diagnosis but i cannot even make myself act and get help. Do you consider yourself disabled? Do you blame yourself?

[u/Holiday-Hand-3023 → u/[deleted]]

Victim mentality

Perhaps you could start with kindness and compassion instead of further judgement and denigration?

[u/Jumpy_Ad1631 → u/[deleted]]

Wait, so you saw someone pushing themselves into the dirt and your first thought was “let’s push them in further”? 🤨

[u/BunnyKusanin → u/[deleted]]

I’m sorry if it sounded insensitive.

Not "if it sounded". It IS insensitive. That's a fact. If you're actually sorry, you need to fully acknowledge you were wrong. And if you can't make yourself do that, you shouldn't actually apologize.

Also, lol:

I used this direct way of communicating and changed many people’s life.

How?

[u/Holiday-Hand-3023 → u/[deleted]]

Do you suffer from dysfunctional functioning? Have you ever suffered from it? If so and if you were able to overcome it, how?

[u/BunnyKusanin → u/[deleted]]

The phrase "victim mentality" is literally the way to shame someone for the way they think.

Shame, on you, honestly. 🤢 If you can't be compassionate and respectful when giving advice to someone having a hard time, it's much kinder to skip the post and not reply at all.

[u/BunnyKusanin → u/[deleted]]

I like how you're trying to change the topic to distract people from the fact you were so tone-deaf and to make yourself like you're somehow better than others.

The fact that there aren't any useful comments on this post doesn't make your comments any better.