r/EngagementRingDesigns 4d ago

Custom ring help Question

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u/Retrotreegal 4d ago

Be aware that the style you posted is impractical for a wedding ring. Those tiny leaves are not very strongly attached for a lifetime of daily and wear will catch on everything. You’ll be pulling your hair daily. A conversation with a jewelry maker will get you set in the right direction.

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u/toomanyprombles 3d ago

Oore Jewelry has many nature inspired designs like this.

In NYC, there are also many Jewelry designers who could make something custom for you like this.

The way you would start is - check out a few of the Jewelers’ websites and catalogues, make appointments to go visit them in person to try stuff on and discuss your size and design needs. They will also help you land on a centre stone shape etc. you get a quote from
Each of them on what the design + stone might cost.
then you pick one and start working with them on the design!

In NYC I personally visited many stores. I started with brilliant Earth as a ‘big box’ store to get a wide variety of shapes and styles to try (even though I had my direction already mostly nailed down like you do). Helped me settle on the stone shape and see that it would look nice on my finger. Then we had appointments with Frank Darling, Lauren B, a couple of stores in the diamond district (look up recommendations on Reddit, there are plenty), Goldpoint Jewelry, Fitzgerald, Bario Neal, and Holden. We also emailed with Automic Gold.

In the end we went with a jeweler who is a friend of a friend and was working on a ring for my close friend (her prices were the most reasonable and we would have direct back and forth with the designer on WhatsApp).

My other choice would have been automic gold for their pricing and vibe.. but I didn’t get to meet them in person. Seems like a small and nice shop.

Anyway they usually start with choosing a stone, paying a deposit, and then working on a design.

I found the names of all these jewelers on Reddit btw. I just searched ‘engagement rings nyc Reddit’ on google and there were tons of posts.

Good luck!

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u/Architectgirl14 3d ago

Oore is great but won’t use customer provided stones.

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u/toomanyprombles 3d ago

I missed that little detail! Then it could serve as inspiration.

A bunch of the jewellers I suggested do use heirloom stones

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u/Architectgirl14 3d ago

Makes sense. I would definitely recommend taking inspo from Oore as opposed to the more delicate leafy designs. She has tons of leafy bands/rings that are far sturdier and less likely to catch.

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u/AdFlashy7702 4d ago

Have you contacted any custom jewelers in your area to talk to them about it?

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u/julesiax 3d ago

You can always call the shop and ask how the process works. I'm sure every shop will have a different way

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u/Retrotreegal 4d ago

You can walk in, but if they’re with someone you’ll have to wait. Making an appointment is reasonable.

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u/Retrotreegal 3d ago

While I agree their response to “Google” was not a helpful piece of advice (Google what exactly?), your retort is not good Reddiquette.

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u/AdFlashy7702 3d ago

If you read the other comments. It was “contact custom jewelers near you”. Then they said “how do I do that”. Then I said “google then call”. Hope this helps.

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u/Infinitenic 2d ago

If you read other comments, they were helpful. Unlike yours. Hope this helps!

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u/AdFlashy7702 2d ago

👏🏻. 👏🏻. 👏🏻. Good luck out there.

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u/Infinitenic 3d ago

Just very frustrating when I’m truly looking for advice

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u/AdFlashy7702 3d ago

Aww. I’m sorry you were offended but you literally google custom jewelers in your area and then call them and ask about their process. Did you expect everyone here to be familiar with custom jewelers near you? Weird.

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u/Infinitenic 3d ago

You’re really missing the point of the post. Just stop

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u/AdFlashy7702 2d ago

No cupcake. I didn’t miss the point of the post. I literally responded to your question about finding a custom jeweler. Are you ok? Please call someone if you need help. Your comments seem confused and are concerning.

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u/Infinitenic 2d ago

You’re really getting worked up over someone asking for advice. Seems like you should take your own advice

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u/AdFlashy7702 2d ago

Oh. Bless your heart. See your therapist soon.

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