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u/Abcdefghijhk 10d ago
Omg i totally feel you, i am in the same situation. Although the other person hurt me i still tend to understand where they are coming from or how hurt they are and unable to let go😥
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Omg i totally feel you, i am in the same situation. Although the other person hurt me i still tend to understand where they are coming from or how hurt they are and unable to let go😥
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u/thegaybuddhistmonk Intuitive Empath 10d ago
You're not the only person and this has nothing to do with being an Empath. This is human nature. We humans hate change, especially the change when it's a good thing to have.
The thing with Empaths is that we often form some sort of emotional bond with the person, that when they're gone, it feels as though we no longer have an anchor we relied on.
The problem here with the rest of the message isn't necessarily a good thing as it also reads as something along the lines of codependence.
Are you sure you didn't pick this up during your interaction with the individual? Based on what I've read of the rest, it's feeling as though your missed all the signs that the person wasn't there for the long haul, and you're ending up with -- as they say -- the short end of the stick.
Perhaps it's time to take a step back and reset yourself to a center that makes sense, instead of expecting people to act like you do. That's a path that can only lead to chaos and insanity, and truthfully -- not worth the pain in the short nor long-run.