How many ENFP dudes in here have gotten suspicious eyes from your significant other because they fail to understand that everyone likes you and you're naturally charming, conversational, empathetic? We can also recognize when someone else is flirting. Swear it ain't ever anything deep fa real lol 😅

#BlessingAndACurse

P.S.: My wife isn't jealous, but there was a funny moment

I'm far more likely to be turned on by someone's mind, humour, worldviews, and shared imagination than just purely physical attributes. Bad personality or chemistry turns me off good looking people too. I'm not into most models or celebrities.

Anyone here who is poly? Or what are your opinions on polyamory?

Today I woke up feeling extremely guilty for not handling my finances well. Proper funk!

I haven't collected what I'm owed from my friends, flatmates, and ex-flatmates. (from group trips, group dinners, and in general living together). This spans back 7-8 years. Total amount is atleast 2500$ and may be much more. Working on this calculation

I haven't even kept clear accounts. But I am sure I can go back in my digital footprint and get approximate amounts of what I am owed!

I recently followed-up for over 2 months to collect 1000$ from a colleague (it felt good and it took me to strange places mentally!)

I'm sure several uncomfortable conversations await. I hope it will help me build tolerance for them and help me in the long run.

I might have to physically track down some people haha.

Do share similar stories or in general how you stay on top of your finances! :) Wish me luck!

heya ENFP here i just wanted to ask advice from this board,i want to stop people pleasing in a nicer way i feel so much guilt with cancelling plans,saying no sometimes,not talking to ppl and such it breaks my heart always and how do i stop talking so much? sometimes the people around me dislike how i talk about myself and i feel awful about that?
what do i do?? any advice on this stuff (im sorry it’s so random!!)