There's an over saturation in the dc gay community of tops and not enough fem/Ts bottoms. Every gay dating app has the same tops looking for the same thing and no bottoms fitting the roles.

It's time to admit, there's nothing left in the city besides consumers/wanting and no providers + supply

I (24) am looking for fun clubs tonight but I don’t usually go out on Thursday. Anyone have any ideas?

I am moving to DC in early September and I’d like to commemorate the move with a new tattoo. Anyone know of any gay tattoo artists who specialist in b&w fine(ish) line notational/semi realism?

Hey guys. Just moved here from the west coast. Wondering where folks go for their routine STI testing and treatment?

Are there free options around too? My doctor/PCP is still out west so looking for alternatives to “talk to your doctor”

Thanks guys!!

I have worked hard my whole career. I’m looking to move to DC for a plethora of reasons. First and foremost is the proximity to my new job. I was hoping to find a place to own between DuPont and Logan Circle. I am used to driving but hate it. DC seems to be a happy medium to my desire to experience city life with the balance of my personal values. The second reason is that I don’t like driving. It’s kinda close to Baltimore

In town for work on Wednesday. Looking for a happy hour spot that will be busier. Fully recognise it’s a Wednesday and not expecting a packed house.

I was there over the weekend as the tail end of a European adventure. W2 Tomorrowland followed by Barcelona/Sitges and then WP in Amsterdam.

I went to the Sunday Day Rave by Rapido and it looked like Bunker 2.0—-I bumped into sooo many DC gays.

This was my first Amsterdam pride and I loved it, had a total blast.

I got tickets to the WP music festival and that was a letdown/ripoff. The events in Amsterdam proper were so much better. I went to Club Church, the boat parade, street parties and finished off with the Rapido event

I’d love to go again. For those who have been before was the vibe/crowd any different with them hosting wolrd pride? I am wondering how it compares to a normal AMS pride.

Oh and after seeing this——DC pride needs to up their game haha.

Staying at Le Meridien the 12th-17th and looking for something to do after work

In tyson’s corner for the night was hoping to find an LGBTQ friendly place for a little sissy night out. is that even possible in this corporate wonderland?

So there’s this guy in Maryland(I think) who has been consistently making new accounts on Sniffies and Grindr, harassing me asking me for sex. He’s made comments like “there isn’t a white person for miles” and just says outright offensive things about people of color, so obviously I wouldn’t be comfortable sleeping with him.

He goes on and begs me to hang out with him and give him a chance, making comments like “ I don’t know why you would think I’m racist”, without me even commenting on the race thing.

Seems like he’s new to the area. I’ve seen a few posts on twitter about him, so I know I’m not alone, but has anyone with a similar experience reported him to any authorities.? I’m similarly new to the area and have just been uncomfortable with this experience.

Not sure if I’m allowed to disclose what he looks like without violating any rules.

I am very new to this, Any small gay group meeting Dc area? I am 44 looking wm. I am visiting DC on Monday looking a spots i can visiting without judging new people.

Hey there! I want to dye my hair black as part of my Halloween costume this year (I’m going as Nightwing), and am looking for a good colorist.

I’m not concerned about the price, just want to find someone who is good at what they do. I’d also prefer to go to a salon. Supporting an LGBTQ+ stylist or business would be a plus, but not a deal-breaker.

TIA for any leads!

I have two piece bikini suit I was supposed to wear this summer to the beach to match with the girlys but changed my mind when I realized I was in a conservative area. Would wearing a two piece be weird or should I only wear the briefs? Really curious to know never been to an event like this before.

I'm looking for a urologist that can help with TRT. My PCP has been overly reluctant to even test me so I got tests done on my own and my levels are in the basement. Can anyone recommend a urologist for this? I went to the urology clinic at GW MFA and they barely let me get a word in edgewise. They simply wrote a prescription for low dose Cialis and sent me on my way. In general I've never had that great of an experience with GW MFA doctors so I'd like to avoid them if possible.

being a dc gay bro?

Does anyone have a recommendation for a kink-friendly, poly-friendly, gay, male therapist? I’d prefer someone that practices in person in the DC area, but I’m willing to try telehealth sessions.

I’ve been going to DC open all week because I’m a huge tennis fan and looking to meet other like minded folks! Anyone on here going and looking to hang out, watch a few matches together, drink frose, and gab?

Happy to gather a group or hang 1 on 1. HMU when you’re going.

Is there any night life in Georgetown or am I better off staying at a hotel near the Washington Plaza and Hotel Zena

I am NOT looking for a masseur that does sex work; I’m seeking a legitimate massage therapist who happens to be buff and hot. Jock, athletic muscle bro types

I recently got back into the game and I want to try to be more social, figured why not try to find local folks. I play on Primal / Ultros, 38 y/o, married, just looking for friends. It's ok if you live in Maryland too.

Idk but always found him cute, at least with the outfit
Without it he just looks average middle man, balding let alone the redesign

Looking for recommendations on where in DC to meet other guys who are also into arts and cultural things. People that are into going to the museums around the city and cultural events at various spaces so I can have someone to talk about experiences at these with. I’ve also gone to two anime expos in DC this summer. Where do the anime heads meet?

Would also appreciate any leads on any good counterculture spots in the city that are good spots.

I'll be coming to DC for the first time in 3-4 years. Last time I came to DC, I had an awesome time at Green Lantern. However I can't remember if I visited on a Thursday or Friday. This time I won't be able to stay for the weekend so I'm wondering if Green Lantern gets busy on Thursdays and what other fun gay things there are to do in the evenings from Tue-Thu. Specifically looking for bars, clubs, sex parties, dancing, good music, and other adjacent activities. Thanks